I've gotten slapped in the face before...lol
I had that once, but I was 10 years old and neither of us knew what was going on because the movies.
I've gotten slapped in the face before...lol
I had that once, but I was 10 years old and neither of us knew what was going on because the movies.
I once asked out the girl I liked back in Sixth Form and she said "Haha, don't take the piss" and jovially nudged my elbow with her fist.
Ah okay that makes sense. I'll probably end up at the Cat house brothel one day in Nevada. You see, I've made a deadline for my virginity. If I'm still a virgin by age 30 and not seeing anyone, I'm flying to Carson City Nevada to spend a day at the brothel. It's also motivation for me to put myself out there more because I don't exactly want to have sex for the first time in that fashion but at the same time I don't want to be a virgin forever. Now you're telling me I could be rejected by those prostitutes when initially I thought it was a sure fire thing? hopefully their standards are somewhere in the middle between a high end escorts and a craigslist skank. I should be okay then.
Always answer with "Thanks for reminding me that I don't date stupid bitches."
Then take a photo of her face.
Then upload it and post it on GAF.
I had spent a few hours with this girl at her home, it was a woman I had met earlier that night. I am a awkward guy, cause you know my personality doesn't match the stereotype of my appearance hahaha so as we're laying in bed I looked over at her and was like "So, we did this backwards, we're supposed to go out then come back to your place, so how about we go out to dinner next weekend?"
She looked at me and said "You're not really "date" material. But we can hook up again sometime."
I suppose I should preface it with that time we spent I was talking about science stuff then switched to video games and anime hahaha, she just acted interested I guess cause she wanted some.
And the worst was about 4 months ago, a girl saw me and my friend walking towards them in a bar and got up and walked the other way. Cracked me up.
That's a win in my book.
Asked a girl out at work in front of, like, 10 customers. Told me she had a boyfriend. That was it. I was actually proud of myself for asking her out in front of other people, still wearing my work uniform, AND the fact that she was a 10/10.
I've been lucky.
Met a girl at uni recently who's almost perfect for me, we have a ridiculous amount in common. One day she got really drunk when we were at the student bar so that she could build up the courage to talk to me, she kept staring at me as I was on the other side of the tbale we were all sat on. I say I'm gonna go and at this point in her drunken state she says "NOOOOO" and gets up so she can walk back home with me, we talked for a while as she kept apologising saying "I'm not like this at all, please don't think less of me", of course I didn't considering I always thought she was incredibly shy and I already thought really highly of her anyway. I get back into my room and she calls me drunk telling me she really likes me, I sort of shrug it off as a drunken mishap. Come before the weekend we met up and talked about it- of course with her just getting out of a 3 year relationship she said she wanted to take things slow, which I completely understood, she hugged me and left for the weekend to go back to her real home rather than uni accommodation. I get texts from her the next morning, apologising profusely that she had slept with her ex-bf's best friend but saying she meant everything she said about liking me, tells me to forget about it and we continue on.
Of course at this point, warning bells go off in my head and I start think what the fuck I'm getting myself into- but being the idiot I am I go forward with it anyway. She comes over to mine and we just talk for about 6 hours about everything we like, I felt a connection with her as she had suffered from anxiety before like I have and we generally liked the same stuff. Nothing happens and I walk her back to her room. The next day she texts me saying "I think we should stay friends, I can't encourage a spark when I have something with that other guy". At this point I've felt played. I don't really know what to say in response except "okay, I guess" and she gets pissy with me. The following day we start talking again and after a couple hours of talking she says "I really like talking to you" followed swiftly by "sorry, I'm digging myself a hole". We decided it'd be best if we not talk for the weekend. The next week I see her and we make pancakes together, after seeing her we both go back to our rooms- I decided this time I wouldn't facebook or text her about it all and I get message on facebook saying "It was nice seeing you today". Of course I fall for the trap and start talking back. She's continuing to have problems with this other guy who she claims she's "seeing" now, he's walking all over her just like I let her do with me. He's been sleeping with other girls and generally not giving a fuck about her. Starting to think she wants me there as a rebound just incase it fucks up for real, considering I'm the only guy she's liked at uni and we've been here for around 6 months already.
This is still ongoing and I feel like this is probably the worst rejection I've had because it's not entirely a rejection, it's just stringing me along and being dumb I'm happy to go along with it. Pretty boring teenager-esque problems of a 19 year old I know but it does help to write something about it I guess, just glad I haven't had something as bad as some of the ones I've read in here.
Met a girl at uni recently who's almost perfect for me, we have a ridiculous amount in common. One day she got really drunk when we were at the student bar so that she could build up the courage to talk to me, she kept staring at me as I was on the other side of the tbale we were all sat on. I say I'm gonna go and at this point in her drunken state she says "NOOOOO" and gets up so she can walk back home with me, we talked for a while as she kept apologising saying "I'm not like this at all, please don't think less of me", of course I didn't considering I always thought she was incredibly shy and I already thought really highly of her anyway. I get back into my room and she calls me drunk telling me she really likes me, I sort of shrug it off as a drunken mishap. Come before the weekend we met up and talked about it- of course with her just getting out of a 3 year relationship she said she wanted to take things slow, which I completely understood, she hugged me and left for the weekend to go back to her real home rather than uni accommodation. I get texts from her the next morning, apologising profusely that she had slept with her ex-bf's best friend but saying she meant everything she said about liking me, tells me to forget about it and we continue on.
Of course at this point, warning bells go off in my head and I start think what the fuck I'm getting myself into- but being the idiot I am I go forward with it anyway. She comes over to mine and we just talk for about 6 hours about everything we like, I felt a connection with her as she had suffered from anxiety before like I have and we generally liked the same stuff. Nothing happens and I walk her back to her room. The next day she texts me saying "I think we should stay friends, I can't encourage a spark when I have something with that other guy". At this point I've felt played. I don't really know what to say in response except "okay, I guess" and she gets pissy with me. The following day we start talking again and after a couple hours of talking she says "I really like talking to you" followed swiftly by "sorry, I'm digging myself a hole". We decided it'd be best if we not talk for the weekend. The next week I see her and we make pancakes together, after seeing her we both go back to our rooms- I decided this time I wouldn't facebook or text her about it all and I get message on facebook saying "It was nice seeing you today". Of course I fall for the trap and start talking back. She's continuing to have problems with this other guy who she claims she's "seeing" now, he's walking all over her just like I let her do with me. He's been sleeping with other girls and generally not giving a fuck about her. Starting to think she wants me there as a rebound just incase it fucks up for real, considering I'm the only guy she's liked at uni and we've been here for around 6 months already.
This is still ongoing and I feel like this is probably the worst rejection I've had because it's not entirely a rejection, it's just stringing me along and being dumb I'm happy to go along with it. Pretty boring teenager-esque problems of a 19 year old I know but it does help to write something about it I guess, just glad I haven't had something as bad as some of the ones I've read in here.
Well, at least you recognize she is stringing you along...you'll come to your sense eventually. She sounds like a mess though.
But that's the guy's fault, not hers.
And outside of the downright insults, I had "You're great and all but I was only making out with you because I wanted to get X's attention lol"
She certainly is- she's incredibly fickle and suffered from depression for 3 years, I've already had to talk her out of cutting which was not fun. I'm still holding out hope that maybe she'll just ditch that guy but I'm coming around to the idea that it's probably just best to let it go at this point.
Dating someone who is so depressed that you have to talk them out of cutting themselves is a horrible, horrible idea.She certainly is- she's incredibly fickle and suffered from depression for 3 years, I've already had to talk her out of cutting which was not fun. I'm still holding out hope that maybe she'll just ditch that guy but I'm coming around to the idea that it's probably just best to let it go at this point. Because when she's not acting like this she's a really nice girl that's just fun to be around.
I've been preemptively rejected:
I interned at a library and they gave me a small office that I had to share with a girl who was also an intern. First day at the gig, I come in and sit down at my desk. About two minutes later, she comes in with a sour expression on her face. I waved and said "hi', but she just ignored me, walked right by my desk, and sat down at her's without saying a word. Then after about 5 seconds, she took a deep breath, looked at me and said "Let's get one thing clear. I'm here to work and focus on my studies. I'm not interested in dating. If you keep out of my hair, I won't cause you any trouble.". I was pretty much dumbfounded and couldn't even find a reply, but then my supervisor came in with my first assignment so I didn't bother saying anything.
I swear, even though I was there four months, five days a week, and we were in that office together every day, "hi" was the first and last thing I said to her.
I've been preemptively rejected:
I interned at a library and they gave me a small office that I had to share with a girl who was also an intern. First day at the gig, I come in and sit down at my desk. About two minutes later, she comes in with a sour expression on her face. I waved and said "hi', but she just ignored me, walked right by my desk, and sat down at her's without saying a word. Then after about 5 seconds, she took a deep breath, looked at me and said "Let's get one thing clear. I'm here to work and focus on my studies. I'm not interested in dating. If you keep out of my hair, I won't cause you any trouble.". I was pretty much dumbfounded and couldn't even find a reply, but then my supervisor came in with my first assignment so I didn't bother saying anything.
I swear, even though I was there four months, five days a week, and we were in that office together every day, "hi" was the first and last thing I said to her.
I've been preemptively rejected:
I interned at a library and they gave me a small office that I had to share with a girl who was also an intern. First day at the gig, I come in and sit down at my desk. About two minutes later, she comes in with a sour expression on her face. I waved and said "hi', but she just ignored me, walked right by my desk, and sat down at her's without saying a word. Then after about 5 seconds, she took a deep breath, looked at me and said "Let's get one thing clear. I'm here to work and focus on my studies. I'm not interested in dating. If you keep out of my hair, I won't cause you any trouble.". I was pretty much dumbfounded and couldn't even find a reply, but then my supervisor came in with my first assignment so I didn't bother saying anything.
I swear, even though I was there four months, five days a week, and we were in that office together every day, "hi" was the first and last thing I said to her.
Just read that Denko 2chan story...
Amazing.
You've mentioned you had some anxiety/depression issues as well? Is it a good idea to get two anxious/depressed people together? It sounds like a recipe for disaster.
I've never been rejected since I've never dated anyone.
In hindsight I think I might have lead someone on.
There was a girl I used to talk to a lot in school. We eventually moved to going to eachother's houses to hang out and stuff. I got along with her parents pretty well and thinking back there were a lot of little signs pointing to the potential possibility that she liked me.
I think I kind of liked her as well, but at some point the possibility crossed my mind that she might want to be in a relationship or something, I became nervous and afraid. Following this I cut off all contact with her. I've seen her a few times at random locations since then but I just pretend that I don't notice her.
Is what I did considered bad? At the time it seemed like the right thing to do since I wasn't mentally prepared for a relationship, also I didn't have any absolute confirmation of her intentions so this could have all been a misunderstanding.
Meh...any time you are associated with a "chan" I just assume forever alone.
LOL....I would have playfully tormented her. Random flowers, candy, and compliments. And when she finally softened up I would have told her "act professional...we are at work"
that's just the kinda guy I am.
I was nervous a fuck the whole time I was there because I got a really bad vibe that she was a dangerous person; like stalk you from work to your home then pop out of the bushes and stab you to death dangerous.
Even though I made sure not to make eye contact with her, I SWEAR I could see her staring at me in my peripheral vision, motionless for 15 minutes at a time.
One day it was supposed to rain later on, so I took my umbrella when I left that morning. I left it by the door in the office a few feet away from my desk. Come quitting time, it's pouring down rain and she left a couple minutes before me. I stand up, put on my jacket, and of course my umbrella is gone. I come into work the next day and when I come back from lunch, my umbrella mysteriously appeared right where I left it.
I knew she stole it. Did I confront her? Hell naw!
Yeah, that's not cool.
You sensed a potential problem and ran away from it, instead of just finding a way to make your intentions clear.
It happens - you shouldn't be condemned for it or anything, people make mistakes but you probably hurt her feelings quite a bit.
My uncomfortably awkward moment came when rejecting my best friend in seventh grade. I was this pale white kid and she was a rather pretty filipino girl. We were best friends since 5th grade. Always hanging out together during lunch, after school and with mutual friends.
Anyway, when middle-school started we weren't always in the same classes. However, we did have an art class that we shared. It seemed she was constantly flirting with me during class (trying to touch, hug and being very playful). However, I never really thought much of it. Mainly because I still saw her as my best bud.
One day after school we started walking towards our buses like we always did. My bus was always before hers and we normally just said our goodbyes or made plans for later. This particular afternoon I was making her laugh really hard about some stupid joke. She stopped me right before I was about to get on and said "There's been something I need to tell you". She immediately grabbed my shirt and pulled me close - passionately kissing me (for a 7th grader) and sticking her tongue in my mouth. At which point I absolutely froze and had no idea what to do or say. My only response was "I can't do this", and turned around entering the bus. I walked towards the back and sat down. As I looked out the window - I saw her just standing there about to cry. I put my head down and waited anxiously for the bus to pull away.
We never spoke again.
When you find out that the closeted guy you've been so graciously helping with identity struggles and the like has been calling you a faggot to all his friends behind your back?
Note to closeted guys: it doesn't make you look any less flaming when you go on the offensive.