It's not hard to get laid as a male either if you're willing to go for the ugly chicks.
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The worst 'dating' rejection someone had to face?
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It's not hard to get laid as a male either if you're willing to go for the ugly chicks.
Devolution
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Stop projecting your desperation.
SquiddyCracker
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I'd say the worst "dating" or other rejection a person can get is a racist one.
My minority brethren gets me.
My minority brethren gets me.
Women have less to worry about when it comes to pursuing the opposite sex. They should just do it if they like a guy.
The fuck?
Jack Remington
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Canned responses like this are pointless. It's perfectly likely that between Guys B, C, D, and E, you'd be into one of them, and if you weren't, there's the rest of the alphabet out there. And chances are, they'll be approaching you. You just have to select the guy you like.
Just accept that dating is easier for women and maybe even be thankful for it? I'm privileged in other ways, but I don't spend a lot of time on the internet arguing that I'm not.
Ugly girls don't want to be seen as sluts either.
Who am i kidding it's easy for them to get laid so.
Napoleonthechimp
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It wasn't a rejection because I wasn't asking her out, but I was talking next to this girl in a club while my friend was chatting up her friend and she said something about how she'd prefer someone like him, but would settle for someone like me (which is not remotely as positive as it sounds) for kids and all that crap.
In that moment I decided that I would rather live alone than be some girl's second choice.
In that moment I decided that I would rather live alone than be some girl's second choice.
Jack Remington
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In terms of ease of dating, it probably goes like this:
Hot women > rich men > attractive women > average women > attractive men > below average women > average men > below average men > bottom tier women > bottom tier men.
Hot women > rich men > attractive women > average women > attractive men > below average women > average men > below average men > bottom tier women > bottom tier men.
Just because relationships are easy doesn't mean they are stable.
That doesn't sound positive at all, no matter how it was said and did she laugh afterwards to play it off and kind of be like "oh that just means you're husband material" or something?
Rubbish. Ugly chicks don't wanna be perceived as sluts. hell some ugly chicks may think they are hotter than they actually are because more guys think they are attainable.
It's got nothing to do with desperation. The barrier to entry is much lower for women to the point a lot of women can't relate. A girl may want to go for a guy who is an 8/9 out of 10 based on her own requirements but he may not be interested. She may not see any value in the 7 guys who are 7s waiting in the friend or rejected zone.
I think below average women might have it easier than attractive men but that's pretty much spot on.
Am I the only one to think this whole system of numbering people is fucked up? And zones? Really?
Jack Remington
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Men do get the advantage of a longer dating prime, but even that is highly dependent on wealth, at least as far as I can tell.
Devolution
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So far I've seen it pushed this much by bleepy and izick, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
People use numbering systems and "zones" because it brings order and some level of understanding for them to be able to better explain what they may be saying or feeling. I think the numbering system is very mean and can be cruel besides it's also heavily subjective.
SquiddyCracker
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where the hell do you guys live
Seconded.
Average do not have it "easier" than attractive men.
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"Sorry, I don't date black guys"
"Me neither, we have more in common than you think we do"
*Girl laughs; Asks to be friends*
Not that bad but that's the worst one.
"Me neither, we have more in common than you think we do"
*Girl laughs; Asks to be friends*
Not that bad but that's the worst one.
Napoleonthechimp
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No, she's a deeply unpleasant person that would be straight up rude to your face. Her high opinion of herself is probably due to her being in a relatively small-ish town where she has a lot of power over the men.
The next time I saw her again I went to shake her hand (I don't care enough to hug her or show her any kind of affection) and she moved her hand out of the way. This irritated me beyond belief and I told her quite bluntly that her behaviour is rude and obnoxious, and that if she didn't want to end up alone then she'd do well to be more polite to people around her. It seemed to get to her but I'm not interested in knowing her so I don't really care too much.
Agreed.
BigEvilTurtle
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Well not if she only dates men with dicks the length of an arm-spread. I sometimes feel women's standards, typically when it comes to first impressions, are a lot more strict than men's. I could be wrong, but it just seems that way.
Jack Remington
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People categorize and compartmentalize things in order to process information more easily. Rest assured that you're in a category somewhere for some people.
Napoleonthechimp
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To be fair they get approached quite often so it helps for them to have more specific requirements. However, they - like men - can sometimes be quite delusional about the type of men they want which results in them wondering why they can't find the "right man".
BigEvilTurtle
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Hadn't thought of it that way; kind of neutralizes the whole thing. Fair enough. I haven't really put myself out there ever so I'm not used to rejection or acceptance either way. I haven't witnessed any form of "hitting on," really.
where the hell do you guys live
engineering school campus.
OriginofHysteria
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My friends and I a couple years ago did draft picks. Probably not any better than numbering or zones lol.
Bam Bam Baklava
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You any better ways to do it?
Like the hat?
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Worst I had was someone saying "oh. um...." And walking inside their apartment and closing the door.
BigEvilTurtle
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That's good to know. Figures she had small tits. There's honestly nothing more offensive than a size queen who actually rejects men on the lower end of the size spectrum. Ugh.
Did you stand outside for a few minutes? Knock on the door? if so she probably was peeing out the peep hole praying you didnt bust down the door.
Ive always loved women of all colors but ive definitely been hesitant to approaching them when single because i think ill get the "dont date blacks" thing.
Eh its a risk, but for me it's one well worth it and as time continues to pass those folks are less and less.
I've heard, "Asian men are boring and cheap. Plus, many are too short."
Whatever crazy ladies.
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Oh wow lmao I am dying at those texts
Jack Remington
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I thought about using draft pick terminology in a job interview once.
"What if I told you that you could get a guy who was once hyped up as a lottery pick, but you could sign him for third round money? Wouldn't you be interested in that kind of upside?"
I didn't go through with it though.
cool they got a ton of PMs from creepy old guys and losers
I wasn't talking about online dating
1) that does not disprove what I said
2) Even excluding online dating, it's easier for a below average girl to get laid/ get a date than a handsome guy,
Ridiculous, at worst the handsome guy could ask the below average girl on a date and she'd say yes every time.
Hahahhahahahahahahahah no. You assume a below average girl does not have options or her standards/expectations. When girls can reject guys for having dirty shoes/being short or relatively minor factors and guys generally being less picky a guy shooting for "less than what he can get" does not guarantee success.
So she's below average and her standards are beyond an handsome guy? Feels like I'm getting trolled at this point or we have a very different definition of handsome.
POWERSPHERE
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Ive got one.
This was about 6 years ago.
I was 19, she was 28/29.
Me and her were in the same Jr college math class (Math 95 I think).
For the 1st week or 2 we sat about 1 or 2 seats from each other...didn't really talk
When the teacher would ask us to do group work, me and her got together...that was when I noticed she was cute.
She would get to class like an hour early and I got to class 20 minutes early 1 day, and helped her with her hw. We made this a regular thing and we chatted about shit and stuff. Found out she was like 10 years older than me.
So finally I decided to at least ask her out for coffee or something...then if that went well...go on actual dates.
So I asked her if she wanted go grab some coffee after class one day. She took it as me asking her out...she said something to the tune of "I don't think we can date, I mean...I would feel like I would be molesting you" (I was 5'7 and like 120 at the time...she was same height...maybe like 10 pounds heavier than I).
That was the ultimate bitch slap down. That just shocked the hell out of me
This was about 6 years ago.
I was 19, she was 28/29.
Me and her were in the same Jr college math class (Math 95 I think).
For the 1st week or 2 we sat about 1 or 2 seats from each other...didn't really talk
When the teacher would ask us to do group work, me and her got together...that was when I noticed she was cute.
She would get to class like an hour early and I got to class 20 minutes early 1 day, and helped her with her hw. We made this a regular thing and we chatted about shit and stuff. Found out she was like 10 years older than me.
So finally I decided to at least ask her out for coffee or something...then if that went well...go on actual dates.
So I asked her if she wanted go grab some coffee after class one day. She took it as me asking her out...she said something to the tune of "I don't think we can date, I mean...I would feel like I would be molesting you" (I was 5'7 and like 120 at the time...she was same height...maybe like 10 pounds heavier than I).
That was the ultimate bitch slap down. That just shocked the hell out of me
Yes they do. Men approach women. Women don't usually approach men.
I'm attractive. I don't get hit on much when I'm out and about. Call me cocky or something, I don't care.
On average I can guarentee an average looking woman will get hit on more than an attractive man. Whether or not she's interested and who ever is hitting on her is a whole different story.
If I have to make an effort and she doesn't it makes it easier for her.
I'd bet you that a decent-looking guy with little to no game can go to a club and fail more times than he can succeed whilst an ugly girl can get laid everyday of the week if she feels so inclined.
That's probably right, but we went from handsome to decent with no game.
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