Honestly..
Around 4 years ago I was fresh out of a long term relationship, 12 years.
I stopped gaming and wasting a single moment of life.
I was lost at first...then I found "The Red Pill"
And not this "How to be a pick up artist/MRA" but instead how to be a better man. How to embrace my masculinity so to say and be a better man.
It was like opening a pandoras box on how to get everything you want (as a man) Money, respect, influence, and...lots of GREAT sex lol
From eating better, going to the gym religously, broading my mind via books, learning to play an instrument, learning to paint, etc..
I've changed my life drastically through this.
I was a game collector, 5-6 hours a day, porn enthusiast, etc..Happy to work my dead end job and have direct deposit put my money in my wifes account.
Now I my hobby is just self-improvement.
New job, gym religously, yoga, meditation, etc.. I went from being 145lbs to my dream look (Brad Pitt fight club body!) I went from $12 hair cuts to $80 hair cuts. I realized "I am the prize"
Last year bought a house, got my "Fox news achor" look alike conservative GF, and been teaching myself carpentry, electric, plumbing etc.. to make it my castle.