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if you think about how many male chickens are simply destroyed because they are useless as egg-laying-machines, or how geese in mast-factories are treated..
if you have a moral point of view, where life should be treated fairly, i think that veganism is the most logical way to go.

i am not even fully vegetarian, i just try to reduce my meat intake (and didnt eat meat for a few months now) to give my votum against the horrible conditions of animals kept in mass stocks.
i dont think everyone should give up meat, but i think everyone should reduce their meat intake. i read that fastfood chains throw away 50% of their burgers on your average day (and backed that up by asking people who had a job there), i feel like there would be ways to reduce the suffering of animals, and i think this is something everyone can get behind
 
The amusing thing about vegetarian threads on GAF is the unrelenting attack of the carnivorous amateur nutritionists on anything moderately pro-veggie while they scream about vegetarians "forcing their ignorant views on the masses." Meanwhile threads about fast food sandwiches made with factory farmed meat are ignored by the supposedly "pushy" vegetarians.

I think it boils down to insecurity...
 
reggieandTFE said:
The amusing thing about vegetarian threads on GAF is the unrelenting attack of the carnivorous amateur nutritionists on anything moderately pro-veggie while they scream about vegetarians "forcing their ignorant views on the masses." Meanwhile threads about fast food sandwiches made with factory farmed meat are ignored by the supposedly "pushy" vegetarians.

I think it boils down to insecurity...

well i started a discussion in a fast food thread a while ago, but im not even a vegetarian, so i guess that doesnt count as a pushy vegetarian.
 
captive said:
sucks dude. We're having a great big old fried turkey.

Some of my cousins are or were vegetarians, my dad and I have always said they'll go hungry in our houses. WE don't change menus for anyone, we'll cook a lot of stuff especially for thanksgiving, theres tons of stuff i dont like for thanksgiving but my mom is still going to make it. We don't change it just because one person doesnt like it or wont eat it.
And besides, they can always eat green beans or sweet potatoes or whatever.

And that sucks for you, GDJustin. It honestly seems pretty inconsiderate to not at least buy a cooked turkey from the store, or have options for people who want actual turkey, not tofu frankenfood (especially if he's the only vegetarian).
 
GDJustin said:
Going to visit my sister in law's for thanksgiving. Her boyfriend is a vegetarian so we're having a motherfucking vegetarian Thanksgiving. It might sound selfish but I'm actually kind of fucking pissed about it.

1) Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. Literally. Yes, I rank it above Christmas. It's important to me! I'm not much of a "tradition" guy but I love all the stereotypical Thanksgiving rituals.

2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.

It doesn't help that I don't like the dude. He's so smug. :lol :lol If he was a cool guy the situation wouldn't rile me up the same amount. But I already know that him and my sis-in-law are planning on "proving" to all of us that you don't need meat to have an awesome Thanksgiving. And I already know I'm going to have to smile and be polite and let them know how good everything is.

I haven't picked a fight with my wife about it (yet!) but I'm seriously considering having the two of us bake a small turkey of our own once we get back to our place next week. :lol


politely decline the tofurkey (because you don't eat it), eat the other veggie sides.
 
levious said:
politely decline the tofurkey (because you don't eat it), eat the other veggie sides.

Why should it be that way instead of the odd man out declining the turkey and eating the other veggie sides?
 
Going to visit my sister in law's for thanksgiving. Her boyfriend is a vegetarian so we're having a motherfucking vegetarian Thanksgiving. It might sound selfish but I'm actually kind of fucking pissed about it.

1) Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. Literally. Yes, I rank it above Christmas. It's important to me! I'm not much of a "tradition" guy but I love all the stereotypical Thanksgiving rituals.

2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.
That's pretty messed up. Honestly, that kind of thing pisses me off.

My father, for instance, does NOT like turkey. He will not eat it and certainly doesn't enjoy it, but there is no way in hell he would have us skip out on enjoying it ourselves. There are plenty of food items you can enjoy on Thanksgiving that would be vegetarian. Simply stick to those and ignore the rest. Forcing your beliefs on others is never right.
 
Earl Cazone said:
if you think about how many male chickens are simply destroyed because they are useless as egg-laying-machines, or how geese in mast-factories are treated..
if you have a moral point of view, where life should be treated fairly, i think that veganism is the most logical way to go.

i am not even fully vegetarian, i just try to reduce my meat intake (and didnt eat meat for a few months now) to give my votum against the horrible conditions of animals kept in mass stocks.
i dont think everyone should give up meat, but i think everyone should reduce their meat intake. i read that fastfood chains throw away 50% of their burgers on your average day (and backed that up by asking people who had a job there), i feel like there would be ways to reduce the suffering of animals, and i think this is something everyone can get behind

What about animals raised on a farm in pastures in what not? That's an option too, if you want meat that didn't suffer.
 
SnakeXs said:
Why should it be that way instead of the odd man out declining the turkey and eating the other veggie sides?


the odd man out is the host isn't he? I think it sucks too, but not much you can do if you want to maintain your dignity as a guest.
 
levious said:
the odd man out is the host isn't he? I think it sucks too, but not much you can do if you want to maintain your dignity as a guest.
I agree there's not a lot GDJustin can do, but it's still inconsiderate as a host, IMO.

He should recognize that most people are not vegetarians, and should at least inquire through his girlfriend as to whether they'd like real turkey. The tofurkey could very well taste great, but it's NOT turkey.
 
Eteric Rice said:
What about animals raised on a farm in pastures in what not? That's an option too, if you want meat that didn't suffer.

if the animals are raised in healthy circumstances and are slaughtered painlessly (including transport to the slaughterhouse with fair conditions), i have no problem with it.
 
GDJustin said:
Going to visit my sister in law's for thanksgiving. Her boyfriend is a vegetarian so we're having a motherfucking vegetarian Thanksgiving. It might sound selfish but I'm actually kind of fucking pissed about it.

1) Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. Literally. Yes, I rank it above Christmas. It's important to me! I'm not much of a "tradition" guy but I love all the stereotypical Thanksgiving rituals.

2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.

It doesn't help that I don't like the dude. He's so smug. :lol :lol If he was a cool guy the situation wouldn't rile me up the same amount. But I already know that him and my sis-in-law are planning on "proving" to all of us that you don't need meat to have an awesome Thanksgiving. And I already know I'm going to have to smile and be polite and let them know how good everything is.

I haven't picked a fight with my wife about it (yet!) but I'm seriously considering having the two of us bake a small turkey of our own once we get back to our place next week. :lol
I would refuse to go. That's bullshit.

Bake your own turkey and take it along. If they throw a fit about it, leave.
 
Eteric Rice said:
What about animals raised on a farm in pastures in what not? That's an option too, if you want meat that didn't suffer.
That's what's bothering me about veganism. Why not get milk and eggs from farms that don't abuse animals?

Your body would benefit from it and you'll actually be influencing part of the food industry to be more respectful of animal life.
 
KingGondo said:
I agree there's not a lot GDJustin can do, but it's still inconsiderate as a host, IMO.


definitely agree, but the only way to properly combat a bad host is to be a better guest.
 
Mistouze said:
That's what's bothering me about veganism. Why not get milk and eggs from farms that don't abuse animals?

Your body would benefit from it and you'll actually be influencing part of the food industry to be more respectful of animal life.
I'm really bothered by the continual assumption on GAF that all large farms abuse their animals. In my experience, the size of the operation has little to do with the quality of the care. I've been to large-scale farms that take fantastic care of their animals, and small ones that are terrible. It's amazing how people claim to have such disdain for animal rights groups, yet buy into their propaganda so easily.

And the supposedly more humane operations often aren't. For example, cage free and free range chickens have significantly higher mortality rates than those in cages.
 
Mistouze said:
That's what's bothering me about veganism. Why not get milk and eggs from farms that don't abuse animals?

Your body would benefit from it and you'll actually be influencing part of the food industry to be more respectful of animal life.
That's what my vegan co-worker does. She has no problem eating eggs and dairy products that she buys from local places where she knows the conditions are alright. Seeing as I lived/she lives in Wisconsin that's not much of a problem. :lol
 
BertramCooper said:
I'm really bothered by the continual assumption on GAF that all large farms abuse their animals. In my experience, the size of the operation has little to do with the quality of the care. I've been to large-scale farms that take fantastic care of their animals, and small ones that are terrible. It's amazing how people claim to have such disdain for animal rights groups, yet buy into their propaganda so easily.

And the supposedly more humane operations often aren't. For example, cage free and free range chickens have significantly higher mortality rates than those in cages.
Get out of here with your nuanced and informed opinions! They have no place here!
 
The_Technomancer said:
That's what my vegan co-worker does. She has no problem eating eggs and dairy products that she buys from local places where she knows the conditions are alright. Seeing as I lived/she lives in Wisconsin that's not much of a problem. :lol
if she's eating eggs and dairy products, she's not a vegan.
 
GDJustin said:
Going to visit my sister in law's for thanksgiving. Her boyfriend is a vegetarian so we're having a motherfucking vegetarian Thanksgiving. It might sound selfish but I'm actually kind of fucking pissed about it.

1) Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. Literally. Yes, I rank it above Christmas. It's important to me! I'm not much of a "tradition" guy but I love all the stereotypical Thanksgiving rituals.

2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.

It doesn't help that I don't like the dude. He's so smug. :lol :lol If he was a cool guy the situation wouldn't rile me up the same amount. But I already know that him and my sis-in-law are planning on "proving" to all of us that you don't need meat to have an awesome Thanksgiving. And I already know I'm going to have to smile and be polite and let them know how good everything is.

I haven't picked a fight with my wife about it (yet!) but I'm seriously considering having the two of us bake a small turkey of our own once we get back to our place next week. :lol

I'd rather pick up a fight with my wife anyday than going through this shit...
 
BertramCooper said:
I'm really bothered by the continual assumption on GAF that all large farms abuse their animals. In my experience, the size of the operation has little to do with the quality of the care. I've been to large-scale farms that take fantastic care of their animals, and small ones that are terrible. It's amazing how people claim to have such disdain for animal rights groups, yet buy into their propaganda so easily.

And the supposedly more humane operations often aren't. For example, cage free and free range chickens have significantly higher mortality rates than those in cages.
YOU CARNIVOROUS AMATEUR NUTRITIONIST HOW DARE YOU

CHICKEN HOLOCAUST HAPPENS EVERY DAY!
 
About the only diet I could fully support is giving up red meat of any kind. Basically if it walks on 4 legs, you probably shouldn't eat it.

My dad is one of those and I basically didn't eat red meat more than once a week or once every other week and I probably felt better than I do now.

Or a person should just limit their red meat intake to once in a while like a lot of people recommend...there's that too.
 
but plants deserve to live too? and all the parasites in your body?
farming animals for meat is very cruel and unfair, but we do need animal protein to live healthy/normally.
living things die so that we can live, be thankful.
 
storafötter said:
You have a point that observations aren't reliable. I won't try to say now that the source I got in a hurry backs the statement well. You shared some good points there.

However Mediterranean diet has been acknowledge as good, the people from these countries have a much better health than other groups in the western world

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100615163131.htm
http://www.oldwayspt.org/scientific-studies-mediterranean-diet

You are back to jumping to conclusions. Let us look at your references

Observational study "proves" observational hypothesis

Let me tell you two things right out of the gate that are wrong with this study:

1. No control group. How the hell are we supposed to know that the differences are from external factors besides diet. No control group = Shitty science. Them being twins doesn't mean you have a control group
2. Food questionnaires. This are unreliable in measuring food associated as "unhealthy" such as meat and milk. I don't have the reference right now, but I am talking about 5% accuracy here. That is useless
3. Dubious variable. I never saw an HRV as the measured variable. A quick glance through the literature show that HRV is mostly used to predict mortality after myocardial infarction, but does not predict it. This study should have been much better served with a plain old HDL:VLDL analysis.

A. Keys Seven Countries Study

Did you really bring Ancel Keys study in here? The study that suffers from some terrible confirmation bias errors? I recommend you get educated with the study you just cited, because it has been even more debunked than The China Study.

Ancel Keys Seven Countries Study is some piece of work
At the time, Jacob Yerushalmy, a PhD statistician, at the University of California at Berkeley pointed out that we had data on the amount of fat consumed in 22 countries. So why wasn’t it called the 22 Country Study?

It wasn’t called that, because Ancel Keys started with the conclusion. Then he cherry-picked the countries that matched his pre-conceived notion and threw out the ones that contradicted it. And most of them did! When all 22 countries were analyzed, the “remarkable relationship” remarkably disappeared.

Furthermore, Keys established no causative basis. And he based his conclusions on only two phenomena – dietary fat and heart disease. This did not account for the possibility that something else could have caused the heart disease.

It might seem hard to believe that this flawed and fraudulent study was the genesis of the entire animal-fat-causes-heart-disease movement. Certainly, in the last sixty years, there must be hundreds of controlled studies that prove the link, right?

Not quite… there are NONE!

What about the societies that consume a very high percentage of saturated fat in the diet – groups like the Maasai in Africa or the Inuits in the Arctic North? Do they show signs of heart disease? No, and in fact, quite the opposite is true.

This study is old and very much debunked. You can find a myriad links in the internet, but this book makes short use of it. It's a must read, because it is NOT a diet book, it's a study on the science of nutrition, from a scientific perspective, done by a true scientist.

Of course this has nothing to do with not eating meat or dairy. They eat a lot of more greens, fruits and beans than other countries. However as a greek myself I know that they sure love their meat too.

It might or it might have nothing to do. Observations are not proof.

Marketing and misconception can also be related to science. What do you have to say about the payed scientists working for the petroleum industry? The same about public information being distributed by companies within the dairy and meat industry. That is a FACT, shareholders within important institutions presenting science and "truth" for us. I am not saying vegan advocates are neutral or not biased. However I think it is ridiculous to speak as if this "proper" science is absolute, and not affected by market and misconception. An example is how science can prove how fur animals who are meant to be in water can thrive in tiny cages with a little stick to play with. This is still serious science!. The truth can be hidden in the discourse. Where you research in relation to something but ignore other relations (that might disrupt the results you want).

You don't seem to know how science works very much. Science works by accumulating evidence. Whether this evidence comes from Honest Scientist or from Evil Company Research Ltd. Co. and Associates (TM) is irrelevant. The evidence is what matters, and as such, you need to look back to the evidence. Solid science accumulates evidence in one direction until it becomes almost impossible to say otherwise.

That's why observational studies are so damaging to the nutrition science. These people are drawing conclusions from observations WHICH IS NOT EVIDENCE FOR AN HYPOTHESIS.

I don't know about the bold study, but I think you are anthropomorphizing some animal needs. Show me this study please, and I'll tell you what I think about it. Maybe the study showed that animals in such conditions don't suffer a change in survivability, life expectancy and reproduction capabilities from being captive. If the study proves that thing, there isn't much you can say about it. It doesn't mean it's wrong, it just means those animals pretty much don't care, and even if you might not like it, it doesn't make it not true.

I remember well reading in science books at school that the essential amino acids are only found in animals. I am sure a lot of "proper" science was put into that. Especially to be allowed to teach children such untrue stuff.

Science books have been wrong a fucking gazillion tons of times. Doesn't make the science behind them wrong. Science is about acquiring new understanding and there is nothing wrong in rewriting portions of the curriculum to acknowledge new discoveries. You seem to imply that science must be right always. Science not being right is what makes it scientific.

What do you mean with D2 being completely unusable for the body, that is a bold statement and not true. Most treatment of deficies for D vitamin is treated with D2. D3 definitely has some extra benefits, but in regards to having a need for D vitamins it works.
Some new science has argued that D2 is as effective as D3.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2266966/?tool=pmcentrez#id706242

Why oh why, finally a randomized, controlled double binded group study! I want you to take note how we change from observational studies to actually controlled studies as soon as we leave nutrition and start getting into the actual medical research? Fascinating. I will look into this.

I acknowledge your point that D2 might as well be as effective as D3

1000 IU is still too few Vitamin D. 5000 IU is what I recommend

And to answer people claiming meat was readily available in most times. Fish of course but cattle and livestock farming didn't give meat regularly as much as it today. In China they didn't rely on livestock farming as much as the west. History shows this.

History also shows that livestock farming is not the only way to eat meat. The hunter gatherer society is much older than the agricultural pastoral society. Maybe we weren't eating cow and pig, but we sure as hell were eating a lot of rabbit, deer, fish and other game. History and paleontology show this. In fact, there is a correlation, and I think it's been demonstrated a causation already, in a decline in bones density, dental health and height as hunter gatherers shifted to a more agricultural society. I don't have the links, but you should find it easily in the net, since this is not as much as a debate, and well established.

The welfare rise has made meat consumption grow to extreme lengths than before. Yes people ate meat before but not as much as today, meat in the stores have been a luxury always. The rise in consumption is also related to the rise of the middle class.

But people have eaten a lot of meat in past times. Anthropological evidence shows this. Again, I don't have the specific numbers, but I recall something about at least 50% of energy coming from animal fat in most ancient societies

Out of curiousity, so there is so far no scientific relation with cholesterol and heart diseases. I will ask if the same people are saying that saturated fat gives the same benefits as polyunsaturated fats?

To those who think no ancient civilization or people did not eat meat, you can look at India. A long tradition of vegetarians exist there. It isn't odd how they keep surviving for generations. Personally I don't know about any ethnicities that have been vegan historically. However many centuries ago, if there existed vegans it would have been doubtful that they need b12 supplements as they could more easily have access to it through the soil and the food they got from it.

If they didn't exist, it was probably because they couldn't survive. Also, Indians are not vegetarians, as has been shown in this thread.

In regards to people saying how unnatural it is to eat vegan food. They are always disregarding their own fast food tendencies. A lot of food people eat and rely on are enriched. The government and companies have to enrich food these days due to how monotonous the diet of people are. I don't see how that is very healthy or natural. Why are vegans suddenly the oddball when most people hardly eat natural except traditional societies, farmers, hunters and scavengers.

The distinction between natural an unnatural is moot, poison ivy is natural and it can really fuck you up. Your logic is flawed though, because you are saying If the american diet is so shitty, vegan diet can't be as shitty right?. But we are not talking about shitty diets here, we are talking about trying to get the best out of our food. Just because you don't like animal cruelty doesn't make your option more viable or less unhealthy, and I took my time to answer your post fully because I think it's important for you and everyone else to look past the propaganda and into the actual numbers and proof of your hypothesis.

I haven't even presented POSITIVE evidence that meat and diary is good for you. Rest assured, tehpawn has a lot of that, and good science too, presenting well designed evidence that do not try to run off with a sweeping abstract hiding the conclusions behind a correlation cascade.
 
wienke said:
About the only diet I could fully support is giving up red meat of any kind. Basically if it walks on 4 legs, you probably shouldn't eat it.

My dad is one of those and I basically didn't eat red meat more than once a week or once every other week and I probably felt better than I do now.

Or a person should just limit their red meat intake to once in a while like a lot of people recommend...there's that too.

Would like to tell me WHY we shouldn't eat red meat?

The_Technomancer said:
Er..right. Whoops. She's kind of...ideologically vegan? vegetarian?

Vegetarian is right
 
Twilight Princess said:
but plants deserve to live too? and all the parasites in your body?
farming animals for meat is very cruel and unfair, but we do need animal protein to live healthy/normally.
living things die so that we can live, be thankful.

Plants don't have the same level of consciousness as animals. Plus you don't need animal protein to live.

On the subject of factory farming, Eating Animal is an excellent book that, in my opinion, depicts a rather good view of what factory farming implies, both for the animal, for the environment and for consumers.
Basically the author explains that, as you can read in the article linked above, cage-free eggs are BS.
 
GDJustin said:
Going to visit my sister in law's for thanksgiving. Her boyfriend is a vegetarian so we're having a motherfucking vegetarian Thanksgiving. It might sound selfish but I'm actually kind of fucking pissed about it.

1) Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. Literally. Yes, I rank it above Christmas. It's important to me! I'm not much of a "tradition" guy but I love all the stereotypical Thanksgiving rituals.

2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.

It doesn't help that I don't like the dude. He's so smug. :lol :lol If he was a cool guy the situation wouldn't rile me up the same amount. But I already know that him and my sis-in-law are planning on "proving" to all of us that you don't need meat to have an awesome Thanksgiving. And I already know I'm going to have to smile and be polite and let them know how good everything is.

I haven't picked a fight with my wife about it (yet!) but I'm seriously considering having the two of us bake a small turkey of our own once we get back to our place next week. :lol

That's exactly what I hate about veggies. When they come to a dinner party, everyone should honour their choice and offer food that is approved by them. But when they hold a dinner party, it's all done according to their principles, without any appreciation for other people's preferences. Talk about holier-than-thou attitude.
 
GDJustin said:
2) The thing that angers me most about vegetarians is that unless you want to do a BUNCH of extra work (cook two meals), everyone AROUND them becomes a vegetarian by default. The five of us that eat meat now have to "enjoy" a tofurkey because of the one dude that doesn't. It's just assumed that, hey, since he's a vegetarian we OBVIOUSLY won't be having any meals that revolve around meat. Otherwise what would he do? But the reverse can't be true. "Sorry to put you out dude, but we're having spaghetti with meat sauce" just isn't an option because we have to be sensitive to his choice.

Bloody hell! Who would think of accommodating for people?!

I can understand frustration at being made to eat vegetarian food because of the presence of a vegetarian. The host doing so isn't being as accommodating, granted that they are making a meal that can be eaten by more people. (I would still argue that they are being more accommodating than not making everything vegetarian-friendly, though.)

But to then say "OMG! Why should I have to prepare a separate meal?!" If you don't do that, what do you expect people with different dietary requirements to do?

dark10x said:
That's pretty messed up. Honestly, that kind of thing pisses me off.

My father, for instance, does NOT like turkey. He will not eat it and certainly doesn't enjoy it, but there is no way in hell he would have us skip out on enjoying it ourselves. There are plenty of food items you can enjoy on Thanksgiving that would be vegetarian. Simply stick to those and ignore the rest. Forcing your beliefs on others is never right.

The irony.
 
Melchiah said:
That's exactly what I hate about veggies. When they come to a dinner party, everyone should honour their choice and offer food that is approved by them. But when they hold a dinner party, it's all done according to their principles, without any appreciation for other people's preferences. Talk about holier-than-thou attitude.

Vegetarians should cook their own meals. I am sorry, but don't expect a group of 10 to accommodate the needs of 1. If maybe there were more vegetarians in the group, then of course yeah.

I drink a ton of milk and eat a lot of meat. My parents do not. I don't expect them to accommodate my needs when I stay with them, so that's why I go out and buy my groceries when I crash, which my mother happily prepares, because she is so awesome. But even if she didn't I wouldn't feel aggravated because I understand my diet is different.
 
Alcoori said:
Well it's no so different as someone not cooking fish because they don't like it.

I reject the notion of not eating something "because you don't like it". You need to shove hat your body needs to function well and good to your mouth (
not penis
). But I see your point, I just don't think that a family with a standing tradition should change it for 1 person. Even I don't ask my parents to let go of the cake in Birthdays. It's not worth it
 
Alcoori said:
Plants don't have the same level of consciousness as animals. Plus you don't need animal protein to live.
that is simply a believe, just like i believe that plants deserve to live as much as everything else. plants could have feelings too, we don't know that for sure.
by animal protein, i meant nutrients contained in animal products, such as b12 and maybe many other things "scientists" haven't discovered yet. my bad for using the wrong term.
 
Melchiah said:
That's exactly what I hate about veggies. When they come to a dinner party, everyone should honour their choice and offer food that is approved by them. But when they hold a dinner party, it's all done according to their principles, without any appreciation for other people's preferences. Talk about holier-than-thou attitude.
Honestly it's quite the opposite for me and the veggies I know.

Being an imposition when dining at others' is by far the worst part of being a vegetarian for me. Although everyone I know who has cooked for me has been absolutely wonderful about it, I know that if I'm the only vegetarian I am providing extra work for them. I wouldn't bitch if I didn't get any food at all, but it turns out friends and family seem happy to provide for me as well as everyone else.

It's a really unfortunate position to be in, as it puts two pretty big ideals squarely against each other. It's the same deal when trying to find somewhere to eat abroad (fine in this country), I am being difficult because of a choice I have made.

As for hosting I have hosted quite a few barbecues at my house, I wouldn't provide meat myself but anyone is welcome to bring it. I have veggie friends who buy meat for guests who are coming to stay with them. Everything I have experienced speaks directly against what you are saying.
 
Melchiah said:
That's exactly what I hate about veggies. When they come to a dinner party, everyone should honour their choice and offer food that is approved by them. But when they hold a dinner party, it's all done according to their principles, without any appreciation for other people's preferences. Talk about holier-than-thou attitude.

This really isn't that big of a deal to tolerate.

Whenever I have a dinner with friends I always try and make a main course that is vegetarian friendly, or two dishes that could be considered the main course one that is vegetarian and one that isn't. And if my vegetarian friends reciprocate i'm not going to complain if they don't like cooking meat in their kitchen. Good friendship is worth so much more than that.
 
Twilight Princess said:
nowadays, it seems that most of them more or less work for pharmaceutical companies. pardon my cynicism

Pharmaceutical companies that stand to gain a lot of money if they happen to stumble into what might be THE next HIV or Cancer treatment? Pardon me if I don't find that at all repulsive Again, you are confirmation biasing yourself from the get go. It doesn't matter where the money comes from as long as the research is solid.

Where it matters is what the research is ABOUT. That IS determined by the funding, but as many have been able to demonstrate, bad science is bad science and it's relatively easy to unmask. The problem is there is a HELL OF A LOT of bad science right now. Almost every nutrition "research" is flawed in many aspects, and the good papers are few and far between.

The "funding" game works both ways also. Low-Fat is the de-facto consensus (as if such thing existed in science), and as such it gets A TON of more funding from the government than Low-Carb research. The same government that heavily subsidizes the corn industry.

So you can draw a lot of negative connections when playing the funding game, but what we can and should do is just look at the data, where it came from and how it is being presented. In the end it's all that matters


The Friendly Monster said:
Honestly it's quite the opposite for me and the veggies I know.

Being an imposition when dining at others' is by far the worst part of being a vegetarian for me. Although everyone I know who has cooked for me has been absolutely wonderful about it, I know that if I'm the only vegetarian I am providing extra work for them. I wouldn't bitch if I didn't get any food at all, but it turns out friends and family seem happy to provide for me as well as everyone else.

It's a really unfortunate position to be in, as it puts two pretty big ideals squarely against each other. It's the same deal when trying to find somewhere to eat abroad (fine in this country), I am being difficult because of a choice I have made.

As for hosting I have hosted quite a few barbecues at my house, I wouldn't provide meat myself but anyone is welcome to bring it. I have veggie friends who buy meat for guests who are coming to stay with them. Everything I have experienced speaks directly against what you are saying.

Being fair I have the same experience with you. In fact, I ONLY have a gripe with veggie-people where I find them making badly based and outright wrong assertions. Those aren't precisely my friends but I do happen to stumble into them a lot. And while some people don't like to talk about it, I love a good debate, which is why you might find many of us confrontational.
 
The Friendly Monster said:
Honestly it's quite the opposite for me and the veggies I know.

Being an imposition when dining at others' is by far the worst part of being a vegetarian for me. Although everyone I know who has cooked for me has been absolutely wonderful about it, I know that if I'm the only vegetarian I am providing extra work for them. I wouldn't bitch if I didn't get any food at all, but it turns out friends and family seem happy to provide for me as well as everyone else.

It's a really unfortunate position to be in, as it puts two pretty big ideals squarely against each other. It's the same deal when trying to find somewhere to eat abroad (fine in this country), I am being difficult because of a choice I have made.

As for hosting I have hosted quite a few barbecues at my house, I wouldn't provide meat myself but anyone is welcome to bring it. I have veggie friends who buy meat for guests who are coming to stay with them. Everything I have experienced speaks directly against what you are saying.

Well, you and your friend are far less strict than the veggies I know. They wouldn't want meat to be cooked or grilled at their apartments, let alone let the filthy meat touch their precious pots and pans.

The only things I don't eat are blue cheese, clams, oysters, shrimps, prawns and mushrooms, because I hate the taste and/or the texture. But that doesn't mean I'd demand them to be excluded from the menu. I just eat something else that's been offered.
 
wayward archer said:
This really isn't that big of a deal to tolerate.

Whenever I have a dinner with friends I always try and make a main course that is vegetarian friendly, or two dishes that could be considered the main course one that is vegetarian and one that isn't. And if my vegetarian friends reciprocate i'm not going to complain if they don't like cooking meat in their kitchen. Good friendship is worth so much more than that.

Good friendship is worth it, but it still pisses me off that the veggie party doesn't want to make any compromises whatsoever, yet still expects everyone else to do so.
 
Story (the physiological ramifications) makes Vegans look really bad. Death threats are extreme, but I'm not surprised that some got vexed at what she wrote. Some of the language she uses, the saliva melting the meat, is unbelievably provocative.
 
BronzeWolf said:
I reject the notion of not eating something "because you don't like it". You need to shove hat your body needs to function well and good to your mouth (
not penis
). But I see your point, I just don't think that a family with a standing tradition should change it for 1 person. Even I don't ask my parents to let go of the cake in Birthdays. It's not worth it

Oh I agree, I was just putting it in perspective. I just wanted to show that it kinda depends on the circumstances. I would never force my family to a veggie Christmas dinner, but if I were to invite my brothers over for dinner, I wouldn't cook meat either.

Twilight Princess said:
that is simply a believe, just like i believe that plants deserve to live as much as everything else. plants could have feelings too, we don't know that for sure.
by animal protein, i meant nutrients contained in animal products, such as b12 and maybe many other things "scientists" haven't discovered yet. my bad for using the wrong term.

It isn't a belief at all, the subject has been and is probably still debated, mainly in philosophy to be honest.
However, you can probably see how a living being which sometimes displays emotions in the same way we would do is a lot more different than plants that just stand there and sway in the wind.

I mean, you can't deny animals and humans are more closely related than plants and human. Plus, in the absence of a proof, you just assume plants don't have feelings. The burden of proof is not on proving they don't.
 
Melchiah said:
Good friendship is worth it, but it still pisses me off that the veggie party doesn't want to make any compromises whatsoever, yet still expects everyone else to do so.

I would urge not to generalize. I am as much as a meat lover as the next paleodieter, but not all veggies are like that.

In my anecdote, I have four veggie friends and about 4 "semi-veggie" friends:

3 are pretty much awesome and keep to themselves. This is completely anecdotal, but two of them have already suffered heavy bone deficiency health issues, although they are not prepared to correlate them with their veggie diet. I haven't been able to debate veggie-eating with them yet because I don't see them that much and I don't want to waste my time with my friends in such a conversation. Most of them are very "spiritual" (whatever that means) and don't really understand how science works

The other veggie is a stupid girl. She keeps to herself, but that's because she is dumb as a carcass. I have found dumb meat eaters myself so it doesn't matter.

4 semiveggies. These are far the worst of them all. They are in a hell of a guilt trip when they see some sensible documental about whale killing, rabbit hunting, cow herding or whatever the animal cruelty is in vogue at the moment. They are members of PETA and you would think they would become full blown veggies but they don't, yet they still give me a hell of a hard time when eating. These are the "I'll eat veggie" when eating out, but packing the nachos when eating in. Pure facade. They are also the ones with the weaker arguments and the most impressionable and are always "ready to become a full blown veggie"

And that's that, there are different people in different groups
 
Twilight Princess said:
that is simply a believe, just like i believe that plants deserve to live as much as everything else. plants could have feelings too, we don't know that for sure.

It's not much of a belief. We KNOW that emotions and cognitive capabilities come from the brain. This hypotheses is as much proved by the many many ways in which chemistry affecting the brain affects our emotional state. Illnesses and hormone changes can and do affect our mood. Ask a girl in her period, or an autistic person.

Most animals have less developed brain activity. Environment awareness does not mean cognitive capabilities because simply reacting to light, nutrients, humidity and what not is not remarkable. You are as much sensitive to those things when you are sleep and you don't feel a thing.

IE Plants might very well have feelings, in as much as they can "feel" the sunlight, the nutrients they need and the temperatures and pressure around them. Do those feelings make a plant conscious? Of course not. It also doesn't mean it feels pain in the same way mammals do (because even many animals don't feel much)

Saying otherwise tries to put a debate where there is none.
 
BronzeWolf said:
I would urge not to generalize. I am as much as a meat lover as the next paleodieter, but not all veggies are like that.

It may have sounded like a generalization, but it was more a reference to the veggies I know. Although, I have to admit my veggie friends are perhaps more fanatic than the usual kind. They're people with punk/yoga roots, some of them belong to foundations like Animalia (http://www.animalia.fi/our-goals; "Animalia encourages people to become vegetarian."), and like to participate in anti-McDonalds rallies and such.
 
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