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What and who do you find attractive?

I remember people used to talk about how good kim kardashian looked, and thought man theres like nothing special about her at all.

Nah, disagree, she's pretty hot, she's got big ass and big tits (even if both are fake)

At the very least she's way hotter than scrawny, bland old Paris Hilton from back in the day when it comes to these "famous for being famous" women.

What I find funny is remember when she "broke the internet" by posing nude even though she had posed nude for Playboy in 2007 and there was of course the sex tape, so it's not like it was the first time you could see her naked.

Though I guess it was the first time when she had the pumped up behind and chest.
 
At the very least she's way hotter than scrawny, bland old Paris Hilton from back in the day when it comes to these "famous for being famous" women.
Paris is way fucking hotter
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I came in here in hopes to find people discussing a good mix between personality and physical traits. How naive.
Personality, seriosly?

This thread serves as an indicative as to why so many people are single nowadays.
If you're gonna demand a 10/10 body you better be a 11/10 yourself.
I'm afraid your impression can't be wronger, if we trust OKCUPID
http://archive.is/BvLCh (the findings (see below in bold), which I'd dare calling "what else would you expect, given how we reproduce", were dubbed controversial for some reason and removed from OKCUPID blog)

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As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium.
It makes perfect sense, as the best tactic for women would be to mate with the best, for men, to mate with any healthy looking.

You can also have "gotcha" moment, checking who actually is messaged, but note that men send vastly more messages, than women. (you can't see that comparing the charts).

Also, cutting down on Pornhub consumption could be a good idea. Just saying.
"If you didn't have sex for two weeks, it's unhealthy.. you should masturbate" Men's Health.
 
Personality, seriosly?

There a wild range of personalities that may turn some people on/off. There's the shy type, the party/loud type, the clingy, the distant. So many to choose from. For example, I noticed that people that are into anime/asians are looking for something more traditional and shy, while the ones that aren't are quite OK with very direct and outspoken types. Of course it is not real science, it's just something I've noticed.


I'm afraid your impression can't be wronger, if we trust OKCUPID

I never said that men, me included, aren't into all kinds of physical traits in women. I just thought for a moment that the thread was going into a weird direction, like... everyone showing off what pornstar the fap to.
There was a comment about how the new NeoGAF is becoming a sausage fest. Threads like these will not help the situation. There are actually quite a number of ways to post the exact same comments but in a tasteful manner.
Just try to imagine that there's a girl in the room and you'll get the idea.

"If you didn't have sex for two weeks, it's unhealthy.. you should masturbate" Men's Health.

I didn't say anything about masturbation, though. It is known, by everyone, consciously or subconsciously, that porn is not good for you. Porn shows the perfect, most ideal scenarios in men's head. Everybody is fit and have larger than average packages. It increases your standards in women to an unattainable level. And also you'll feel like your package is never enough to feel really confident about yourself, you just end up hoping that not every girl is a size queen.
 
Oh yes, she is gorgeous.

She has FANTASTIC breasts with phenomenal nipples, they aren't very big but it's exactly what I'm talking about when I say that smallish boobs can be sexy in their own way.

It was very nice seeing a giant naked and purple version of her on the big screen in Blade Runner 2049.

That was her? She did look great in Blade Runner. Her nipples were very impressive. I was ready to enjoy that movie, but overall it was too slow, boring and even a little depressing (Harrison Ford is so old now).
 
It is known, by everyone, consciously or subconsciously, that porn is not good for you.
Citation needed.

It increases your standards in women to an unattainable level.
Last time I've checked porn site, it was filled with women of all imaginable body types or skin colors (and quite a variety of men too).

In the light of OKpids findings I've cited in my previous post, and endless:

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I mean, seriously, with 80% males rated "below average" and 85% of females rated "attractive or very attractive", clearly, not judged by unrealistic standards, how could someone seriously even bring up this argument?

Just try to imagine that there's a girl in the room and you'll get the idea.
Nothing would change for me and I find it ironic, that it's people who think they are for equality, who push for "imagine that".

There a wild range of personalities that may turn some people on/off.

Looks are decisive for men, that's why porn and all the visuals.

Looks + status (as in "does he have good genes?" and, curiously, not "is he rich") are decisive for women, which normally isn't communicated just with looks, perhaps also for historic reasons, as we know looks also work for women, anyhow, surprisingly massive female oriented porn exist, just is different.

And all that, because humans are sexually active and sexual objects often help them satisfy their needs. And there is nothing wrong about it.


a sausage fest
I don't find these words to be appropriate when describing activities with large gender disparity.
The claims that such disparities are mostly or even notably caused by some sort of oppression lack evidence and exist mostly because hardly anyone dares challenge them.
 
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Personality, seriosly?


I'm afraid your impression can't be wronger, if we trust OKCUPID
http://archive.is/BvLCh (the findings (see below in bold), which I'd dare calling "what else would you expect, given how we reproduce", were dubbed controversial for some reason and removed from OKCUPID blog)

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As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium.
It makes perfect sense, as the best tactic for women would be to mate with the best, for men, to mate with any healthy looking.

You can also have "gotcha" moment, checking who actually is messaged, but note that men send vastly more messages, than women. (you can't see that comparing the charts).


"If you didn't have sex for two weeks, it's unhealthy.. you should masturbate" Men's Health.

But why do you need porn to masturbate? Porn creates, in my opinion, an unhealthy idea of sex but also of woman, because young boys consume porn already on a rate that is crazy. The woman part is only meant for young boys like 8-17. With unhealthy idea I mean that guys who never had real sex think that this is how sex is supposed to be and unfortunately girls and woman are unable or unwilling to properly communicate if somethings is wrong(not only in the sex department ;)) Porn is addictive just like everything else if consumed in huge quantities and the internet made it so easy and fast to access it. Thats just my 2 cents.
 
But why do you need porn to masturbate?
In general, people need sexual objects, well, to get aroused. It can be a picture, or moving picture, or, god forbid, a vibrator and a book:
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...because young boys consume porn already on a rate that is crazy.
Because, god forbid, hypersexuality. So let us better have them anxious... I beg to differ.

I mean that guys who never had real sex think that this is how sex is supposed to be...
As opposed to very realistic sex scenes from endless romantic movies, right?
Or claims that a worthy man should be able to easily handle intense coitus for <figure from Kinsey studies multiplied by 5 or 10> minutes.

unfortunately girls and woman are unable or unwilling to properly communicate if somethings is wrong(not only in the sex department ;))
I'm pretty sure both sexes can struggle and be too shy to get what they want from sex.


Porn is addictive just like everything else if consumed in huge quantities and the internet made it so easy and fast to access it.
Citation needed.
We had "porn" for many centuries, because, god forbid, even thousands of years ago, humans were quite into sex.

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I generally prefer some kind of Mediterranean looks, short height and wide hips. (usually comes in package due to height probably).
But generally I am more into specific traits. I may find somebody more attractive due to some striking feature than the whole package.

Not sure why some guys like ass so much, I mean do ever stop think about that shit?
Because it is moving in front of you.
 
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But why do you need porn to masturbate? Porn creates, in my opinion, an unhealthy idea of sex but also of woman, because young boys consume porn already on a rate that is crazy. The woman part is only meant for young boys like 8-17. With unhealthy idea I mean that guys who never had real sex think that this is how sex is supposed to be and unfortunately girls and woman are unable or unwilling to properly communicate if somethings is wrong(not only in the sex department ;)) Porn is addictive just like everything else if consumed in huge quantities and the internet made it so easy and fast to access it. Thats just my 2 cents.

Men are very visually oriented, when I masturbate I almost always have to have something to look at.

Though I don't watch a whole lot of porn, most of what I masturbate to are just photos of nude or nearly nude women, I'm fairly vanilla that way.

Porn itself is not the problem though, it depends on the porn and the tone of it, a lot of it is pretty sleazy and nasty, but the stuff that's more tasteful (if still graphic), more real, not professional pornstars but just everyday people, whose pleasure is totally real, that's what I like and I don't think it's all that harmful.

It can get addicting though, but that's mainly because orgasms can be pretty additive, they feel pretty good, ya know.
 
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But why do you need porn to masturbate? Porn creates, in my opinion, an unhealthy idea of sex but also of woman, because young boys consume porn already on a rate that is crazy. The woman part is only meant for young boys like 8-17. With unhealthy idea I mean that guys who never had real sex think that this is how sex is supposed to be and unfortunately girls and woman are unable or unwilling to properly communicate if somethings is wrong(not only in the sex department ;)) Porn is addictive just like everything else if consumed in huge quantities and the internet made it so easy and fast to access it. Thats just my 2 cents.
It goes both ways, there would be no dildos if women weren't using them. The human race would completely die off if no one wanted sex.
 
Bettie Page, and brunettes in general.

I can talk to blonde women without much trouble (I grew up with blonde sisters), but put me in front of a brunette and I have to start managing myself.
 
I like redheads and cute girls idk. Freckles are hot as fuck. Thicc eyebrows too.
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That Siri chick got some BIG'uns :messenger_savoring:
 
Hey I'm just saying, if you're highly sexually charged it's not always easy to find the right person. I mean, the idea isn't to get married and divorced.

So you gotta play until you hit the gold.
 
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I'm afraid your impression can't be wronger, if we trust OKCUPID
http://archive.is/BvLCh (the findings (see below in bold), which I'd dare calling "what else would you expect, given how we reproduce", were dubbed controversial for some reason and removed from OKCUPID blog)

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As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium.
It makes perfect sense, as the best tactic for women would be to mate with the best, for men, to mate with any healthy looking.
This is also my anecdotal experience, hearing my female friends call really quite good looking guys on tinder 'average' and average looking guys far worse in front of me is pretty eye opening. But on the other hand, they care less about looks than men do in the end.
 
I mentioned Mariah Carey earlier

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and I'm still correct in saying she's a legend who will never not be the best. That being said, I thought I'd mention a couple of other people as well.

Chloe Khan for example. A complete bimbo (in her own words) and made in large parts from science, but they did a damn fine job.

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or how about NonSummerjack. An excellent cosplayer from Japan. Her set of Maya from Dragon Warrior/Quest IV is a thing of legend. Keeping this pic as a spoiler for potential NSFW concerns.

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Valenti Vitel
Thanks a lot LordPezix

My brother!! I am glad you are enjoying the beauty that is Valenti Vitel. She has a very exquisite look to her. Absolutely stunned by her beauty. As you can tell by my avatar, big fan.

But I love women and I am not picky. Here a couple of beauties that make me happy I live on a planet where I have the chance to interact with such beautiful creatures.

If I were asked what is the single most attractive attribute I find about women it would be their eyes. I would traverse a fiery hell for a hundred eyes if commanded by a woman with beautiful eyes.


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Tashi Rodriquez

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Savannah Garcia

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Nyane Lebajoa

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Jazzma Kendrick

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Alicia Marie

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And I'm just being honest but

Kendall Jenner & Sommer Ray

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Mary BoBerry

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Sara Aikawa

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In general, people need sexual objects, well, to get aroused. It can be a picture, or moving picture, or, god forbid, a vibrator and a book:
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Because, god forbid, hypersexuality. So let us better have them anxious... I beg to differ.

I'm talking mostly about porn movies.
So ok if you think that masturbating with porn 5 times a day and starting at a very young age like 8 or 9 is not causing damage then ok thats your opinion.
See https://www.acpeds.org/the-college-speaks/position-statements/the-impact-of-pornography-on-children

As opposed to very realistic sex scenes from endless romantic movies, right?
Or claims that a worthy man should be able to easily handle intense coitus for <figure from Kinsey studies multiplied by 5 or 10> minutes.

I should have been more clear I'm not saying that porn movies are the only thing that can lead to weird ideas about sex and people, obviously.

I'm pretty sure both sexes can struggle and be too shy to get what they want from sex.

I'm talking specifically about woman faking orgasm because they are unable to say or show exactly what they like, but this not speaking up also happens outside of sex, when there is something wrong but according to the woman nothing is wrong. I hope you get my point.



Citation needed.
We had "porn" for many centuries, because, god forbid, even thousands of years ago, humans were quite into sex.

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Here are some studies that looked at what porn movies can do to people especially children, which is my main problem
https://aifs.gov.au/publications/effects-pornography-children-and-young-people-snapshotly
https://guilfordjournals.com/doi/10.1521/jscp.2012.31.4.410
https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/research-resources/2016/i-wasn-t-sure-it-was-normal-to-watch-it/
https://www.researchgate.net/public...aphy_Exposure_Among_Children_and_Young_People

You seem to not take in the change of a. quantity and b. that it is now available to almost everybody on this planet including children 24/7.
 
I have never really had a type that I would say I have like over another. I mean you could find an example of almost every body type, style, color or whatever option and find an example of that that I would say looks good and I could be physically attracted to, But none of that matters if the person isn't one you enjoy being around and interacting with so the deciding factor for me would always be personality.
 
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Sara Aikawa

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You surely have a peculiar taste. Not judging. You would love my mother-in-law. :D
 
I hate mentioning celebrities and models because really, whether they have freckles or are brunettes they are all 10/10, and who wouldn't hit that if given the chance. But we can't exactly post normal people either for obvious reasons. Oh well.
 
I hate mentioning celebrities and models because really, whether they have freckles or are brunettes they are all 10/10, and who wouldn't hit that if given the chance. But we can't exactly post normal people either for obvious reasons. Oh well.

Then give us examples of your type you like, genuinely interested :)
 
I hate mentioning celebrities and models because really, whether they have freckles or are brunettes they are all 10/10, and who wouldn't hit that if given the chance. But we can't exactly post normal people either for obvious reasons. Oh well.
If find this odd. Regular people you see at the gym in general shit all over most of the hollywood gang imo.
 
I'm a boobsman through and through. My main crush throughout the entirety of my life has pretty much been Mariah Carey. Granted, the crush has lessened over time, but I'll still buy anything with her on it day one.

Now, if you wanna talk anime ladies, I can talk anime ladies for a good long time...
I'm not a boob or an ass man. I'm a leg man.
 
I'm sure some will groan at this reply, but I am more deeply attracted to a person as I get to know them and find a fondness for them. I'm not saying I don't appreciate beautiful women - I surely do, but an interesting thing has always happened to me when I find an attraction to the person outside the physical level - I find they begin to look more beautiful to me visually as well. Their appearance undergoes some sort of metamorphosis on a subjective level, and however they appeared to me at first, they are now better looking because of my appreciation for their other qualities. I guess my mind starts playing tricks on me. :p

The reverse is also true for me. A person starts to look unappealing to me if I find them off-putting in other ways as I become more familiar with them.

I guess that's not really what this thread is about, but I thought I'd chime in anyway.
 
My whole life I was kinda in and out for women that I was into but lately I have been BIG into latinas. Granted I am a latino myself but I have not been that into latinas prior. I have had my asian, black, indian and other phases(I have never been into white girls but have remained open).
Medellin, Colombia is like a land of hot chicks. There are so many beautiful women walking around everywhere just doing whatever.
 
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