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why are gamers these days so sensitive ?

Antwix

Member
but are you truly ever happy this way if other people's opinions matter more than yours ?
its like going to the cinema with 5 friends and i liked the movie but before i get to say my opinion to my friends they all say that it sucked so in my mind i start to hate it aswell , thats not normal behaviour
Exactly, it's not normal. These people just can't comprehend differing opinions. They're just very insecure people.
 

FoxMcChief

Gold Member
It’s this young generation that’s sensitive, not just gamers. I was in a thread last week where some being accused of being lazy felt like they were being insulted.
 

Fuz

Banned
A subreddit is a hive mind. You would have had a better experience on a more general gaming one.

Reddit is only good for news and porn. Anything negative is down voted or deleted.
Reddit is amazing in theory, since it has a sub for everything. Unlimited knowledge!

In reality, the mods turn it to a fascist dystopia 90% of the times, and you can't criticize at all (fuck you, any r/gaming-related), have a different opinion (fuck you, r/italy) even ask questions about the subject (fuck you r/chrome and r/windows).
 

Danjin44

The nicest person on this forum
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Its internet....I'm more sick of these pointless threads.
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Danjin44

The nicest person on this forum
im really sorry that i upset you , can you forgive me ?
We come here to discuss games, not whine about what other gaming forums are doing.

Yes I'm upset we are getting less and less any proper gaming discussion and more about stupid ass controversy about what other said on twitter or what resetera other gaming forums are doing......who the flying fuck cares?

I'm not here to gossip like a fucking teenager.
 
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THE DUCK

voted poster of the decade by bots
I AM NOT SENSATIVE GET OUUUUUUTTTT OF MY FACE!!!!!!

Wait, what are we talking about? 😃
 
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Doom85

Member
pointless…

Agreed, why are we devoting a thread to a few people on Reddit not willing to listen to another’s opinion? Nobody even insulted the OP or anything even mor extreme than that, so this seems like a non-issue that we should all just move on fro-

…threats.

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Wait, holy shit, this is worthy of being called a threat?! Did I miss something?! Are we all in danger?! Dear god, Danjin, please elaborate, I’m on a mental rollercoaster of thinking this is less of an issue than OP claims and this is a dumb thread that shouldn’t exist versus thinking this is the most important thread in all of Gaf’s history and we may have to all unite if we have any chance to survive!

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Danjin44

The nicest person on this forum
Wait, holy shit, this is worthy of being called a threat?! Did I miss something?! Are we all in danger?! Dear god, Danjin, please elaborate, I’m on a mental rollercoaster of thinking this is less of an issue than OP claims and this is a dumb thread that shouldn’t exist versus thinking this is the most important thread in all of Gaf’s history and we may have to all unite if we have any chance to survive!

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I meant to say threads
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samoilaaa

Member
We come here to discuss games, not whine about what other gaming forums are doing.

Yes I'm upset we are getting less and less any proper gaming discussion more about stupid ass controversy about what other said on twitter or what resetera other gaming forums are doing......who the flying fuck cares?

I'm not here to gossip like a fucking teenager.
there are many more threads about games dont worry if you cant see them let me tell you whats on the 1st page

https://www.neogaf.com/threads/star-wars-jedi-survivor-previews-are-going-up.1654970/
https://www.neogaf.com/threads/resi...-back-stranger-what-are-you-re-buyin.1654590/
https://www.neogaf.com/threads/the-...y-demonstration.1654695/page-2#post-267769515
https://www.neogaf.com/threads/fire...-breaks-than-at-the-officers-academy.1649999/

these are just a couple , im not gonna list the entire page , but as you can see there are enough , so no need to be upset
 
It's not restricted to Reddit but any place, including here, there is a group of people who support/don't support something and you say something contrary to the hivemind - expect to be banned/silenced/ridiculed/patronised/shouted down etc etc. You have valid points about HL but the sum of the parts outweight the negatives IMHO.
 

G-Bus

Banned
Maybe it's just me but I find a lot people more sensitive in general these days.

The pandemic changed people. Social media has made things alot worse too
 
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samoilaaa

Member
It's not restricted to Reddit but any place, including here, there is a group of people who support/don't support something and you say something contrary to the hivemind - expect to be banned/silenced/ridiculed/patronised/shouted down etc etc. You have valid points about HL but the sum of the parts outweight the negatives IMHO.
its not a bad game but a solid main story is important for me and in HL it was kinda weak and i would have loved to see more choice and consequence , using unforgivable curse in front of users has no effect

maybe in the sequel we will see some improvements in those departments
 

Roxkis_ii

Member
Places like neogaf are becoming more and more rare. Most places are just echo chambers. Made made a joke about the ps5 controller drift in the ps5 sub reddit and got down voted to hell.

New Gen people are scared of disagreement is seems.
 

Drizzlehell

Banned
I dunno. I ain't judgin'. I recently got annoyed when some guy said that VR is dying, even though I'm very much aware that it's childish to get annoyed with things like that.

But I just can't help myself. I've spent around 1200 dollars (not counting the software) on VR hardware and I'll be damned if some old fart is gonna talk shit about it and discourage people from trying it out.

See? I'm getting worked up again, lol.
 
but are you truly ever happy this way if other people's opinions matter more than yours ?
its like going to the cinema with 5 friends and i liked the movie but before i get to say my opinion to my friends they all say that it sucked so in my mind i start to hate it aswell , thats not normal behaviour
Going by the results of the Asch Conformity test, I'd say that is normal behavior, and that experiment involved objective fact being disregarded due to the influence of others' interpretation. Probably even more likely to happen in the realm of pure opinion.
 

Mozzarella

Member
Perhaps try a different game, some games have a cult zealot fanbase. While imo this is not one of those games it still has a gathering that formed after the controversy surrounding the game and that most likely created a defensive fanbase.
Maybe try a subreddit like patient gamers or something.
 

Woggleman

Member
Go on many music forums and anything forums and it is the same. People these days in general just need to get a grip.
 

Loomy

Thinks Microaggressions are Real
People in general are incapable of having debates these days. It's why we're all in bubbles where our opinions are thrown back at us to agree with. I would suggest you look at how you phrase your posts if you want to encourage debate. Calling it mediocre is probably not a good idea in the game's own subreddit. Most people in there are fans, so coming at them with "your game sucks" is probably not smart.

Imagine going to concert and yelling at the fans that paid to be there that this music sucks.

Also, ask yourself this:
Is this an opinion worth sharing? What am I adding to the conversation about this game that hasn’t been shared and discussed before? Is this needlessly antagonistic?

In conclusion: A) People in general suck at debating and dealing with differing opinions. This is not limited to gamers. B) Learn how to phrase your comments to encourage constructive debate.
 
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Mr.Phoenix

Member
Man walks into Arsenal pub and screams Arsenal is shit... then comes and complains about why football fans are such fanatics after he was kicked out?

Anyways, the whole world is sensitive these days.

COYG
 

Loomy

Thinks Microaggressions are Real
Man walks into Arsenal pub and screams Arsenal is shit... then comes and complains about why football fans are such fanatics after he was kicked out?

Anyways, the whole world is sensitive these days.

COYG
Pretty much
 

Sleepwalker

Member
The game might be shit but you don't go to a shit eater convention and tell them eating shit sucks.
 
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buenoblue

Member
People are not more sensitive. It's just the internet gives people a voice now to babble shit all day long.
 

Loomy

Thinks Microaggressions are Real
reddit is pure shit. That's the problem. Not gamers.
Eh. I'd say it's people. Reddit is just a platform. NeoGAF is just a platform. ResetEra is just a platform. But they all have the same problem. Assholes. What do they have in common? People. Some people are gamers.

All three of those platforms have had instances where amazing discussions have taken place. But all 3 can also be cesspools that make Facebook seem clean by comparison.
 
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