Pretty much every time there is a console vs PC gaming discussion going on there are a bunch if people saying that PC gaming require too much work compared to consoles.
I used to be a console-only gamer, enough to even get me banned by trying to shut up PC gamers in my console threads.
Then I bought a PC 4 years ago. Windows 7, i7 CPU, 16GB RAM, 780ti. Windows preinstalled.
During these past 4 years I haven't "fiddled" with any driver or patches, I've just bought the games on Steam and everything has just worked with zero tinkering. The fiddling is taken care of by Steam without me knowing about it. Quite amazing really. Steam sometimes says that it has been automatically updated and restarts with one mouse click and a 10 second start up time, that's pretty much how far my tinkering has gone. If I want to use a controller I just plug it in and it instantly works and the UI in the games swap to indicate buttons instead of keys. Quite amazing really.
Honestly, PC gaming could be sold with Apple's "It just works." slogan from my point of view.
I swapped out my 780ti to a 980ti 2 years ago though, but even that was surprisingly easy: power down the computer, loosen the cables and screws, pull out the old card, plug in the new card, reconnect the cables and tighten the screws, power up the computer. Done.
Those who complain about how difficult PC gaming is simply cannot have used a modern PC with Steam.
You definitely _can_ fiddle with a bunch of stuff if you want to. But you don't have to if you don't want to, that's the thing. I'm one of those that don't want any hassle, I just want to play games, and that's exactly what my PC has let me to do.
So where does that complexity talk come from? From my point if view it's just as easy to game on PC as consoles.
I like PC gaming, but consoles does feel easier. One PC CAN do so much more, more than gaming, so on PC I can write, visit websites, do work, just the options of having so much more to do take away the focus on gaming.
I personally was running Overwatch, and could not get the game to display the correct/best resolution for me. To this day I don't why it wouldn't.
You nonchalantly mentioned you swapped out a video card... And I agree its easy, however what is something so easy for you to do, is a pain in the butt and the unknown universe for some of us.
Also when my PS4 broke, it was easy to deal with one manufacture (Sony) i called and they sent me a new one. For my video card it might be as easy as a call, but then I have to open up my system, or if it's memory ya got to know more for a computer that all there is to it. Computers are more complex because there are more options.
Also I like the idea of the PS4 being more of a closed system, less issue of bad-mods.
Also like the idea of PS4 more closed because less cheating, (Alough I'm sure there is plenty of cheating on both sides). But while a computer has more access to run cheats, the PS4 has less. I actually prefer Diablo on PS4 because of this reason.
Now don't get me wrong i like gaming on both, but just find it easier more relaxing on my PS4.
In the end one really isn't better than the other IMHO. Its just personal preference of what a person finds value in, and let them game in the manor it makes them happy.
There are great reasons to love both.