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Born Sexy Yesterday

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Thank you. It's really disturbing once you think about it like that.

Brief summary for those unable to watch:

The video is about a science fiction trope (which the author calls "born sexy yesterday") in which there is basically a child in a sexualised woman's body, being very intelligent and in some ways highly skilled, but not really having any deeper knowledge of human interaction. Then there is also the male part of the trope, the man being sort of a teacher for the woman, showing how people are supposed to behave. The man usually ends up falling for the naive woman, and since the man is basically the only man in the woman's life and the one from whom the woman ask anything, the woman often ends up falling for him. This is brought up as a sign of male insecurity about strong experienced women, as the man is sort of the master and gets to show the pleasures of sex to the woman who doesn't yet have any such experience. The opposite situation, the man being naive and inexperienced also doesn't happen that often at least so that the woman ends up falling for him, and when it does, the woman doesn't fall in love because of the man's childlike mind, but in spite of it.
 

Corpekata

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Yeah, one of the more offputting things about Fifth Element. She basically acts like a toddler for the majority of the film.
 

Auctopus

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I was wondering whether he would get in to Anime. As he was explaining the trope at the beginning of the video, I was thinking "This is the most common reason I'll drop out of an Anime.".
 
I almost didn't come into the thread because of the name, but I'm glad I did. I guess I've been lucky to not have encountered too many things with this trope, but I'm aware of it.

This video was definitely eye-opening, and I felt grossed out through it all. Great analysis with video evidence to back it up.
 
Very interesting - never liked the fifth element but I'm sure there's plenty of that in stuff I actually liked (though nothing comes directly to mind). And yes, really creepy when you think about it that way. Any media turning the trope on its head?
 

Ran rp

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"if you want my secrets you'll eat my sandwich" holy shit lmao


yeah, this always weirded me out as a kid. not exactly because of the implications at the time but because seeing grown women act like that was fuckin' weird. as an adult it's weird, irritating and highly sus.

read about the director and his marriage for super creepy.


oh shit, this too. it's so transparent.
 

Corpekata

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read about the director and his marriage for super creepy.

Yep, and then you see it in everything he's done practically. Leon, the weird love interest in the Jet Li movie (she's an adult that has braces and gets scolded for sneaking out to eat ice cream).
 

Ruruja

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I thought of the Fifth Element after the first clip and then boom there it is lol.

What about Encino Man (California Man)? Could that be classed as a male version of this?
 

Hyams

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And yes, really creepy when you think about it that way. Any media turning the trope on its head?

I'd argue River from Firefly subverts the trope. Her primary relationship is with her brother, rather than a romantic/sexual partner, and she is in no way sexualised throughout the show.

Just imagine if she'd been Mal's romantic interest instead
 

eot

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Pretty good video

Although his last point:
"Innocence is not sexy"
It clearly is to a lot of people.
 

Hyams

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What about Ex Machina? Does Ava character fit the trope?

Good question!

Spoiler for Ex Machina:

No, as Ava only pretends to be naive in order to manipulate the men in the film. I would say this is a clear example of the trope being subverted
 
I'd say it's more of a subversion of it. She (and the film) plays into it only to mercilessly cut off the male character by the end.

I didn't like that. They went overboard with it, no reason for her to be so cruel (leaving the guy to starve to death) and short sighted (can't get back to the only place with the tech to fix her). It's like the raison d'etre for the android was to make a storytelling point.
 
You could say the same thing about Thor in the first movie.

Yeah, and you have Tarzan and stuff too. In the case where it's the dude who's uneducated or out of their element, they tend to be more animalistic or brutish than innocent or naive.

This video makes you realise how creepy this stuff can get when you isolate it haha
 
Good question!

Spoiler for Ex Machina:

No, as Ava only pretends to be naive in order to manipulate the men in the film. I would say this is a clear example of the trope being subverted

If she wasn't a young sexy Turing test specimen would Caleb have helped her to the extent he did? I agree the ending subverts the trope but during the course of the movie she displays a naivety about the outside world but is quite wise to what's happening in the compound.
 

Hyams

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If she wasn't a young sexy Turing test specimen would Caleb have helped her to the extent he did? I agree the ending subverts the trope but during the course of the movie she displays a naivety about the outside world but is quite wise to what's happening in the compound.

She isn't really naive about her relationship with Caleb, though - she's pretending - and romantic/sexual naivety seems to be the centre point of the trope.

Although for much of the film it seems the trope is being played straight, the ending reveals Caleb and the audience were being tricked all along.
 
Not a bad video, but I cringed at his final admonition, "Innocence is not sexy; experience is sexy."

I lol'ed when youtube autoplay cued up SEXY FAILS next.
 
Thank you. It's really disturbing once you think about it like that.

Brief summary for those unable to watch:

The video is about a science fiction trope (which the author calls "born sexy yesterday") in which there is basically a child in a sexualised woman's body, being very intelligent and in some ways highly skilled, but not really having any deeper knowledge of human interaction. Then there is also the male part of the trope, the man being sort of a teacher for the woman, showing how people are supposed to behave. The man usually ends up falling for the naive woman, and since the man is basically the only man in the woman's life and the one from whom the woman ask anything, the woman often ends up falling for him. This is brought up as a sign of male insecurity about strong experienced women, as the man is sort of the master and gets to show the pleasures of sex to the woman who doesn't yet have any such experience. The opposite situation, the man being naive and inexperienced also doesn't happen that often at least so that the woman ends up falling for him, and when it does, the woman doesn't fall in love because of the man's childlike mind, but in spite of it.
so basically
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jasonng

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This has been something that I have noticed as well and is not too particularly fond of as well.

I'm surprised he never mentioned Firefly which had a far more interesting idea with the use of the trope.
 
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Contica

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read about the director and his second marriage for super creepy.

I mean, yeah? Ok, I see your point, but then my dad is 11 years older than my mum and she was 16 when they met. I get what you're saying, but if anyone called my dad creepy I'd punch their teeth in.
 

kswiston

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This Trope is so prevalent in Anime/Manga that he could have devoted the entire video to it.

Japanese media in general tends to infantilize women and adolescents. I can think of tons of late teen to twenty-something characters that act like young children for no apparent plot-driven reason. Look at Elise in Fire Emblem Fates for example.
 
Imo, neither is or isn't.

The rest of the video is well-argued and that just feels like an opinion tagged on at the end.

It's not really "tagged," it's more like summing up why the prevalence of this gross shit has persisted throughout genre fiction. It keeps getting in because people keep feeding the notion that "innocence is sexy," and the innocence is sexy because it speaks to the opportunity for a guy to mark that innocence. Leave a mark on it. Defile it, in some darker, more direct applications of it.

Stating the opposite is a way to sum-up the entire point of the video, which is to defuse that notion to some extent.

If the video is well argued and then that line makes you "cringe," it seems to say that the central idea of the video rubs you wrong, and probably didn't work the way the creator intended. You watched it all the way through and the plain statement of the idea made you "cringe."
 

JC Lately

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Anyone remember the 80's movie Starman? Would that count as a male example if this trope?

Never really thought about this before, but it is supercreepy. Seems to come up a lot in the Magical Girlfriebd trope too. Especially in anime. Chobits and Ah My Goddess spring to mind.
 

kswiston

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I mean, yeah? Ok, I see your point, but then my dad is 11 years older than my mum and she was 16 when they met. I get what you're saying, but if anyone called my dad creepy I'd punch their teeth in.

You need to remove yourself from the fact that it's your dad, and think about how you would feel if your grade 11 daughter was dating a 27 year old man. Plenty of those sorts of relationships have worked out in the long term, but people are still going to find them sketchy. Parents are still going to be against them (at least in North America)

Granted, I have no idea what culture you are from. That sort of age gap at a younger age is more common in some places than it is in others.
 
It's not really "tagged," it's more like summing up why the prevalence of this gross shit has persisted throughout genre fiction. It keeps getting in because people keep feeding the notion that "innocence is sexy," and the innocence is sexy because it speaks to the opportunity for a guy to mark that innocence. Leave a mark on it. Defile it, in some darker, more direct applications of it.

Stating the opposite is a way to sum-up the entire point of the video, which is to defuse that notion to some extent.

If the video is well argued and then that line makes you "cringe," it seems to say that the central idea of the video rubs you wrong, and probably didn't work the way the creator intended. You watched it all the way through and the plain statement of the idea made you "cringe."

Nah. I don't find fault with any of the video, just the end. I don't see it as an accurate summation of the preceding content.

Oh, well. No need to play armchair psychologist.
 
Nah. I don't find fault with any of the video, just the end. I don't see it as an accurate summation of the preceding content.

Dunno how you couldn't.

Weird, creepy men have been feeding the notion in genre fiction that the ideal woman is a hot, childlike rube who doesn't know anything about sex before you fuck the notion into her. It exists to pervert the notion of "innocence" in a couple ways. So that's why that closing line is there.

The closing line you "cringed" at.

Anyone remember the 80's movie Starman? Would that count as a male example if this trope?

Starman is weird territory for a couple reasons (I really like that movie a LOT, and Bridges is great in the role) the biggest being the naive alien isn't just an "innocent," he's occupying the body of a woman's deceased husband. There's a lot of shit tied up in that.
 
Dunno how you couldn't.

Weird, creepy men have been feeding the notion in genre fiction that the ideal woman is a hot, childlike rube who doesn't know anything about sex before you fuck the notion into her. It exists to pervert the notion of "innocence" in a couple ways. So that's why that closing line is there.

The closing line you "cringed" at.

I don't find fault with the bolded observation, but that's not what the final sentence says.

There's really not much else to say.
 
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