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Strip clubs are insane in other countries

Seesaw15

Member
Was this for a bachelor party or something OP? Everyone has fun in different ways but I just can't relate to people who go to strip clubs just for something to do.
 

Macka

Member
I have never understood the appeal of strip clubs. Why pay money to be sexually frustrated? OP paid $300 to go home and have a wank after.
 

Maximus P

Member
I've been to a few in the past with friends, normally on events like stags or birthdays. The worse was in Blackpool,uk. Got dragged in by my mates as it was my birthday and they paid a girl to give me a dance. Was one of the most akward moments of my life as I wasn't gestured to a private room or anything. She just stripped off right there in front of me while all my friends looked on and laughed at this girl trying her very best to get me aroused.

The best one was in Spain. I was on a stag iirc and I ended up talking to one of the girls who we found out knew some people I knew. She was a student from Nottingham who only went over to Spain during the summer to make some money. She bought me a drink and we talked for a while before she went off on her rounds. One of my friends got suckered into spending a fortune on one girl who he was convinced wanted to fuck him at the end of her shift, he even waited for her at the end when she clocked off but she shrugged him off and asked him to come back tomorrow.
 
I can see the appeal of going to a club where you drink normally and there's just attractive dancers with their clothes off around you, but I don't get the tipping/private dance thing.

Just wasting money being teased by something you can't have.
 

faisal233

Member
countdown to "I gave my foreign stripper girlfriend my life savings and now she won't respond to my texts"
Nah. This is a Russian strip club. More like, "it's been 5 years since I married the stripper, she moved back to the US, got her citizenship, drained my bank accounts and took everything in the divorce." Saw the same shit in Korea as a GI.
 

Shadybiz

Member
I have never understood the appeal of strip clubs. Why pay money to be sexually frustrated? OP paid $300 to go home and have a wank after.

Yeah I've been to a few...it's usually just awkward. The girls will try to sell you a dance by sitting next to you, flirting with you, etc. It just comes off as fake and uncomfortable (some people, like the OP, fall for the act, though).
 
???
Pretty much the entire sex industry in Europe, Asia and the Middle East is based on human trafficking and slavery. Dont know about the US, so ill leave that out.
There are exceptions but thats more on the high end escort side
I'd say $300 for a stripper is pretty high end though.
 

StarVigil

Member
NeoGAF: Come for the gaming section, stay for the off topic section.
Also, OP, for 300 bucks you could've had one nice pair of butt cheeks sitting on you for 30+ minutes. Your experience sounds more like a brothel visit by an Unsullied.
 

Symphonia

Banned
Uh I don't know but can we not automatically label sex work as some slave industry?
It does annoy me when people do this. I know a few cam girls who are labelled as whores and sluts, simply because of their line of work. It really grinds my gears, as they are some of the sweetest, smartest people I know. Same goes with some escorts I know. Sex shaming, slut shaming, and kink shaming does not have a place in society.
 
It does annoy me when people do this. I know a few cam girls who are labelled as whores and sluts, simply because of their line of work. It really grinds my gears, as they are some of the sweetest, smartest people I know. Same goes with some escorts I know. Sex shaming, slut shaming, and kink shaming does not have a place in society.
Is it sex shaming to be against the very real and horrific practice of human trafficking?
 
sex workers don't like talking and thinking about their sick/starving daughter when selling their body

they will say stuff Lil "i'm a student who want to make money in a fun way" or "i started as an apothecary but found out i could make more money having sex" to make both themselves and you feel better about what y'all're doing
 

vern

Member
Probably been said but try going to Thailand OP. For well less than 300 bucks you can not only spread the cheeks but also put your fingers inside their butthole.


Also China for not strip clubs exactly, but KTV with girls that can get naked and do choreographed dick rubs. Or go to the upscale ktv and pay 500$ to have a girl that is all plastic surgeried up to look like a supermodel sit with you and feed you fruit and alcohol and wipe your forehead with a napkin if you feel sweaty. You can touch their leg but can't spread the cheeks without an additional $1500 or so to take them home for the night.

Rich people don't become or remain rich by thinking $300 to look at three butt holes is a good deal.

But rich people have nothing better to spend their money on and 300 bucks is more like 3 pennies to them so might as well throw down some pennies to gaze into the abyss.
 

nded

Member
But rich people have nothing better to spend their money on and 300 bucks is more like 3 pennies to them so might as well throw down some pennies to gaze into the abyss.

I dunno, if I had that kind of money to spend I probably would have descended to such depths of depravity by now that I wouldn't think a whiff of ass and a friendly smile would even be worth mentioning. Maybe OP is new money or just really young.
 
It does annoy me when people do this. I know a few cam girls who are labelled as whores and sluts, simply because of their line of work. It really grinds my gears, as they are some of the sweetest, smartest people I know. Same goes with some escorts I know. Sex shaming, slut shaming, and kink shaming does not have a place in society.

Dude. There is a difference between someone talking about the sex industry as being predatory and full of human trafficking, and what you seem to be talking about, which is a completely different facet of it.

As it is, I actually know a few strippers. We go ogle guys at the gay bar together, it's always a fun time.
 
"These women that get more sexually aggressive and polite the more they're payed were very kind and flirtatious after I spent nearly $300 on them. Maybe I'll wife one of them up?"

Stay gold, OP. It's endearing.
 
So I've been laying low in here because it occured to me after I woke up and my henessy had worn off that I was taking an L and okay I accept that. Ls are part of life.

The one thing that irks me in here are the people saying "hur dur you should of bought an escort" or just dragging sex work in general. You can go to a strip club and not want to hire a prostitute. It is an amazing atmosphere to have a bunch of crazy lights, loud music and butt naked ladies walking around. It was a great club and I don't want to break the law and pay for sex nor potentially have her lose her job. I hate this idea how indulging in legal adult entertainment is automatically trashy.

I still think one of them was into me but whatever. You can be a stripper and enjoy dancing on a hot client with a lot of money. I'm not saying that she was down just that she liked me and thought I was cute. I'll go back and see her next weekend. She was fun to talk to but I'm not going to be some chump that tries to win her over. I realize it's entertainment and I respect those boundaries but I'm telling y'all she was into me.
 
So I've been laying low in here because it occured to me after I woke up and my henessy had worn off that I was taking an L and okay I accept that. Ls are part of life.

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The one thing that irks me in here are the people saying "hur dur you should of bought an escort" or just dragging sex work in general. You can go to a strip club and not want to hire a prostitute. It is an amazing atmosphere to have a bunch of crazy lights, loud music and butt naked ladies walking around. It was a great club and I don't want to break the law and pay for sex nor potentially have her lose her job. I hate this idea how indulging in legal adult entertainment is automatically trashy.

i agree that paying for sex is worse from an ethical point of view than going to a strip club

I still think one of them was into me but whatever. You can be a stripper and enjoy dancing on a hot client with a lot of money. I'm not saying that she was down just that she liked me and thought I was cute. I'll go back and see her next weekend. She was fun to talk to but I'm not going to be some chump that tries to win her over. I realize it's entertainment and I respect those boundaries but I'm telling y'all she was into me.

sounds like you about to take another l
 
So I've been laying low in here because it occured to me after I woke up and my henessy had worn off that I was taking an L and okay I accept that. Ls are part of life.

The one thing that irks me in here are the people saying "hur dur you should of bought an escort" or just dragging sex work in general. You can go to a strip club and not want to hire a prostitute. It is an amazing atmosphere to have a bunch of crazy lights, loud music and butt naked ladies walking around. It was a great club and I don't want to break the law and pay for sex nor potentially have her lose her job. I hate this idea how indulging in legal adult entertainment is automatically trashy.

I still think one of them was into me but whatever. You can be a stripper and enjoy dancing on a hot client with a lot of money. I'm not saying that she was down just that she liked me and thought I was cute. I'll go back and see her next weekend. She was fun to talk to but I'm not going to be some chump that tries to win her over. I realize it's entertainment and I respect those boundaries but I'm telling y'all she was into me.
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