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People in here getting hung up on the $300. That's not the point. The point is OP is under the illusion that the stripper has a thing for him past his money. That shit is sad whether you spend $10 or $100k.
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Strip clubs are insane in other countries
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LookAtMeGo
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One time when I was loser pissed at the peelers I was sitting in perv row and this girl comes on stage dressed like a cop in a leather outfit. Im like "hehe yeeeeahhh" and I held out my hands like cuff me baby! She pulled me up on stage and cuffed my hands around the pole and got me to get down on all 4s. Im thinking shes just going to ride me or something. She undoes my belt and I'm like wtf is going on? Then she sat on my back and whipped down my pants and started spanking me. My hairy ass was aimed out at the crowd with all my friends sitting there. I was screaming for her to stop. She laughed and pulled my pants back up over my ass and uncuffed me. My face was beat red from embarassment and I had to go outside for a bit.
LucidMomentum
Member
I would've resisted a bit more to see what happens...
Bits N Pieces
Member
She would have got the strapon out.
Monkeyball
Banned
Getting boners with your friends sounds like a great night out.
No, he just spread the butt cheeks.
LucidMomentum
Member
Y'all stop when the fun starts happening SMH.
eot
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Man, again, I say this not to make fun of you or anything. And again, I don't know your financial situation so maybe money's not a problem at all for you. And I'm also not trying to shame you for paying for sex industry stuff. Your business.
But this honestly sounds like you have a habit of spending way too much at these things. Once is fine. Twice can be okay. But adding this story to it?
Really ask yourself the honest question about how much all of that is really worth, and whether it's healthy to spend that much. I know you're just going to ignore it or blow it off probably, but I'm honestly worried when I read stuff like the stuff you're posting in this thread. Don't mistake affection you're buying for real human affection. They really are very different things. It's fine to enjoy the bought version, but if you want the other thing, the real deal, that's really not the way to get it. Allowing yourself to get fooled into that (like thinking there was something real with that stripper) has lead plenty of people in some very depressing financial pits before. It's really not worth it. And it sounds like you kind of have that habit already (spending a very large amount in that stripclub, thinking that resulted in real affection, planning to go back and do the same thing, and now the story of how you maxed out camgirl donations multiple times? And that's just the stuff you talked about).
Just try to be realistic about this. That's all I'm saying.
TheExecutive
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iPhone X = 9 butts
hodayathink
Member
Now this I will agree on (not that I've ever spent more than $20 on a cam site). $300 there maybe buys you a few videos and a personalized thank you message. At least $300 at a strip club actually gets you something tangible, at least for a while.
always crazy bacon
Banned
So you're spending money you could only potentially earn? I know how this plays out. He's only been in Russia for what? A week? I've seen this with many expats that local things are cheaper so they spend more money on them negating the fact that they were saving money. It only takes one or two unforeseen additional expenses and they are out of money. Not only that but homesickness could kick in in about 4 weeks compounding the issue.
I've seen Widdle Puppy's posting style and his next easy to solve "disaster topic" is quite rightly going to be met with "Isn't this the stripper guy" and "If only you'd saved $300 not looking at assholes".
Have you ever even had a girlfriend? Becuse it sounds like your spending a lot of money on sexual services to compensate. Get out there and find a nice Russian girl, I think the bar will be easier for you to get over there than in the US. Put that money into dating.
Widdle Puppy
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I was well off before I came here so what you're saying doesn't apply to me for your first point.
Yes I have however I've found adult entertainment fulfills my needs quite a bit over the last year or so that I've been single. Too focused on career and side hustles plus just general emotional drainage in starting new relationships with people (feeling jaded/apathetic).
I do think I could spend less though and put it towards something else. I would like to spend less on these services not because I think they're bad or anything but that they are an easy outlet for pleasure rather than forming relationships with others. I've recently been interested in going out and making friends because I'm in a new place so I'll try to do what you said.
I went out dancing last night and danced with quite a few lovely women but they were from other cities far away and only there for the night so I just enjoyed my time with them chatting and passed on getting numbers. I'll go out and do this more next weekend.
Bits N Pieces
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Widdle Puppy
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No I didn't ignore this post. I appreciate your point of view. I will say I've spent a ton of money and while I am still well off it would be wiser and perhaps a better use of my time to invest in real relationships outside of adult entertainment. I think I will go dancing next weekend again and try to meet some more women instead. I still think she thought I was cute (not saying that this somehow means I "had her" or that I was in a position to get her number or anything) but whatever. Probably a better use of my time to make real relationships elsewhere over potential but mostly false ones from an unstable environment like a strip club.
Yeah that all sounds good and healthy and cheaper, BUT, first go hard at this stripper that likes you. If it doesn't pan out then go the normal way, but don't leave her hanging.
And don't go in there and say you've got no money to test to see if she still seems interested after that like some here have suggested. It doesn't work like that, she's on the clock, she's got managers watching and needs to make her money.
Go again, be yourself, turn down the other women (preferably in the "one's" vision) and spend big on the one that likes you. Then put it out there, "do you get days off? What do you do for fun on those days?"
Earthbound64
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This is my rule of thumb when asking myself "Is her flirtation with me genuine?"
- Girl flirts with me in a public area like the dog park: "Probably"
- Girl flirts with me at the cash register at Arby's: "Maybe, but her boss probably tells her to be nice to all customers so don't get your hopes up"
- Server girl flirts with me at Chili's: "Doubtful, since she probably just wants a good tip"
- Server girl flirts with me at Hooters: "If she didn't flirt with me I would be concerned, unless I came in with family or something. Its in their job description to flirt with the male customers and they'll be rewarded with a tip much higher than what they would make at any other restaurant."
- Stripper flirts with me: "Again, if you're at a strip club, and none of the strippers are willing to talk you up, then something has gone terribly wrong. Just like Hooters girls, they get paid more depending on how well they flirt with the customers, only they can use their body parts to grind on a mans junk to really drive the point home."
- Prostitute flirts with me: "If Prostitute flirts with you, OMG, If A Prostitute Flirts with YOU!...............then she loves you and wants to get married and you'll live happily ever after
"
You have 6 thumbs?
Earthbound64
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CarpeDeezNutz
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Hahahaha, you shameful son of a bitch.
Beerman462
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Renegade Frost
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I mean thats what night clubs are like
Naked woman doesnt really change the dynamic lol
dreamcastmaster
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This is amazing! The sensual energy of sitting shirtless and spreading asscheeks to look at 3 strippers sweatty anuses.
The equivillent of claiming to have only brought a Playboy magazine for the articles just after you told people you had a thunderwank over every model in that issue.
I dont think anyone is hating over paying for sexual services.
You know, at first I was thinking $300 is an insane amount to spend every week for the feeling of being desired and a bit of sexual pleasure. But when I add up all the money I spend on my relationship (holidays, presents, dates, self grooming, time etc.) it probably isn't much cheaper. If it works for you OP, more power to you!
You shoulda let her spread em my man. You'd be $100 richer.
If anyone is wondering, 7575 tokens cost $600 at one of the larger cam sites.
dreamcastmaster
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You could pay less for actual sex with an escort for less.
It is like who buys tokens at cam sites? So many models show good stuff for free why buy a private session? I just don't get it. I am grateful people spend tokens to they keep doing their thing but I will never understand it.
Ironically I think it's easier to get a date with a prostitute than with a stripper.Prostitute flirts with me: "If Prostitute flirts with you, OMG, If A Prostitute Flirts with YOU!...............then she loves you and wants to get married and you'll live happily ever after
There is a degree of difficulty here, which is what makes it interesting.
17 Seconds
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you think it's weird that people would want more direct interaction and not have to rely on other people's requests? also not everyone is poor.
Sure, but not everyone is a sucker.
17 Seconds
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i'm not talking about being a dumbass and spending money because you're obsessed or being manipulated.
i'm laughing at the thought of somebody being baffled about why someone might spend money on a camsite, while also admitting they jerk off to the stuff other dudes are tipping for.
The fuck is this.
May as well say "like who buys video games when you can pirate them and let other people buy them for you"
These are real fucking people trying to make a living. You shouldnt be so damn proud of gleefully stealing what they provide.
It's free to watch, but it's their fucking job. They are playing a numbers game to try and make up for pirating dipshits who won't throw them a dime.
17 Seconds
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something tells me that guy has a reputation for being cheap among people he knows
always crazy bacon
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That's not what he said, he said there were models with free streams.
I know what he said, I know how cam sites work, I under stand the business of a bunch of entitled self righteous perverts priding themselves on treating performers as their own personal free pleasure machine and disdainfully laughing at the idea of ever paying them even a single penny for the job they are doing for them.
I know how economically and emotionally devastating it is for these girls to sit in their room as all these suave freeloaders just sit there masturbating and saying/thinking "why would I ever give you money, it's free"
Why is stealing porn and never paying performers for the services you consume so allowed and cheered?
I don't see many posts or threads devoted to how great piracy is and how only idiots/suckers purchase movies or games, etc. Yet stealing porn is a ok.
17 Seconds
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they're all "free", they make money off the people who tip them, otherwise they wouldn't be there.
Dr. Feel Good
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Not many people will appreciate that but I did. Thank you.
I paid $250 AUD for a stripper for a bucks (bachelor) party and that girl was insane she had the groom lying on his back with a dildo in his mouth while she fucked it and squirted on his face. Not in a strip club obviously.
Anyway strip clubs are lame I honestly do not understand the appeal.
Anyway strip clubs are lame I honestly do not understand the appeal.
Few reasons
1. Some guys/gals enjoy supporting the sex workers that provide them a service. Ethical porn is a concept sinking in for many viewers of sex work, which usually includes paying for the porn you watch. Though any sex work can be exploitive, supporting a cam girl setting her own rates can feel a little more ethical. And having a clear conscious about the porn you consume actually adds to the sexual pleasure. Might even help limit how much you decide to dedicate to watching porn if you have to budget for it.
2. Private sessions offer the possibility of having custom content provided for you. It can feel more exciting watching them act out your specific fantasy, while saying your name, for instance. And many cam girls really get into character and learn the ins and outs of various kinks and fetishes. Some are strictly niche or alternative, from cosplay to femdom to anything else you can imagine.
3. The possibility of chatting with them one on one and shoot the shit before, during, or after the sexy stuff. For some people they enjoy that aspect. So not just a pussy and tits, but a personality with opinions and jokes and stuff. Makes her hotter. And makes sure human connection is consciously tied to getting off with their porn.
4. Regulars may get more incentives, like access to a Snapchat, or custom videos and photos text to them, panties sent, etc.
Obviously even this can go overboard. Some of the payouts on these sites are shitty for the cam girls, so some may prefer off-site payments which can be a little dodgy. And then there are the obsessive types who want to buy love and attention from girls on the internet. Hopefully all buyers from camgirls understand that this is a transaction, not the beginning of a romantic comedy.
But just in general, a system where guys and gals enthusiastically buy content made from sex workers that more or less control what they produce is a good setup. I would hope it isn't hard to understand why.
hodayathink
Member
Because watching porn and touching a naked woman are exactly the same thing.
He said MFC, we don't have to be obtuse here. 10,000 tokens costs $800, and you have to do it by bank transfer, not credit card.
I've asked this question multiple times and never gotten an answer that was even decent.
theangrypirate
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Moved to SoCal a couple years ago. Only had one friend out here and it was his 30th. He was broke and his big 30th party weekend fell through. The dude really wanted to check out Tijauna so I said fuck it and ordered an Uber to the border. All I can say is check out the Hong Kong club in TJ. It's a massive 3 story strip club / brothel. I had no idea prostitution was legal in Mexico. Fucking great looking ladies and plenty of cheap beer and strippers. And if you want to roll the dice on getting an STD you can pay for sex too. Really incredible place, can't believe something like that exists so close to San Diego.
always crazy bacon
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You seem overly triggered for some reason. Are you white knighting your favourite cam girl by proxy? Why are you calling the subscribers perverts? Do they suddenly not become perverts once they've dropped some cash? Some streams are free with optional donations. So why are you segueing into media piracy?
There is something you are not disclosing.
17 Seconds
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uh oh, you're starting to reveal yourself here
This man has never tipped a stripper.