Thank you Platy for your input. The more info that I get from more people, I think it would help me to identify things within my mind, so I really appreciate it very much.
I rather have a mix of capitalism and socialism ... like capitalistic society but with huge focus on goverment help like basic income, free healthcare and other stuff.
I am with same line here (hence Bernie supporter). To Feminism to flourish, we need a lot of welfare, so heavy dose of Socialism is pretty much a necessary thing - including paid parental leaves for both mother and father and all. Thing is, the thing called "capitalism" and human greed, is always in the way. Honestly, I would pay gladly of 50% in Tax - if I could trust government and its running was transparent and fair. To feminist to succeed, IMHO, they should be united in the political front.
I think feminism has nothing to do with economic systems. In an ideal feminist world the effect women and men have on the workforce would be basically the same. This changes nothing in any economic system.
This I have to disagree. It is an economic movement in large. Feminists for a long time have been saying that all women should be independent from their oppressor. To do so, working and having a career is a must to self-support themselves. Thats why Feminists value women in work force. That's why Feminists bring up gender pay-gap. After all, without $$$, how can we achieve gender equality if one gender has to be dependent on another? Our society have changed from most women staying home to most women working. It's basically double the labor force. It changed everything in economic system, wouldn't you agree?
Same work options, no harassment at work, big maternity AND paternity leave (which lots of people don't think much, but equality in maternity/paternity leave actually helps women to be hired more!), no pay gap ... society not finding weird if men choose to be a stay at home dad.
100% agreed on all front.
As long as people understand religous texts were written thousands years ago and society changes, it is all fine. If some religious can accept evolution than they can accept to ignore the "don't sit next to a women who is on her period" they can accept even non binary people =P
I understand that you are urging the religion to adopt to the current society. Yes - such reforming has been going on, especially a new progressive Pope who seems to embrace more progressive ideas. Not sure of other ones. But in my opinion, they are super hard to move - because the values they believe in, constitute their existence. I think religious group, will probably step back and compromise their belief system as much as they can - but there's certain point that they cannot just go back anymore. I think a lot of anti-feminism, has to do with that. Not just bigotry or whatnot - but it's the core belief they hold dear, is not compatible with Feminism. Again, the reason I do think Feminism is political ideology is because it deals with "empowerment".
Work for some people, don't work for others. As long as the rules are clear and everyone is happy and consenting, people can do whatever they want.
Very true - I have to admit the question was pretty vague.
Prostitution is the only line of work that instead of asking for better work conditions people ask to ban it.
Objectification of the sexual act is not a problem.
The problem is when women is objectified, but with better working conditions it would be like saying that a plumber objectifies men.
Of course sexual act itself is not the issue - but the act of putting oneself out there, his/her sexuality on display and to be judged by the buyer - isn't it a very definition of objectifying a woman as sexual object, I wonder?
I feel like you're stuck on the idea that Feminist Equality means than men are the same as women, instead of the true goal which is men and women are equal.
Equality is that women has the same rights and treatment men receive and vice versa. Men can be rugged and "manly" as much as a woman can assume masculine traits, or feminine as they wish. A man doesn't have to, as you say, posses "Men with serene mind of zero masculinity" in a truly equal society, men would not won't allow that to turn toxic like our currently culture of toxic masculinity that spawns such thinking as "she was dressed like she wanted it", "you OWE me sex after I bought dinner", "she said no during sex when I wanted anal but I did it anyways, why is she saying it was rape?", "real men don't cry or have emotions", and so on.
Well, earlier Feminists - certainly 2nd gens got their criticism again on this point, and has made a lot of folks equating Feminism being bra-burning and armpit hair and all. In layman's term - while in the process of achieving equality, they acted "masculine" Some of them, in my understanding at least, have saw the gender equality = literal equal to each other - including male and female mentality.
As you know, that idea was opposed by 3rd gens - and 3rd gen included whole slew of other issues, including LGBT and minorities... on which, is actually where I am lost in feminist ideology front. (too varied, and looks like it's lost quite a bit of focus) - Can Beyonce, really be a feminist when she's selling her "sexual" image in front of millions people on national TV? I know modern feminists say it's okay to embrace femininity within themselves.
Yet, I've heard many times of this Toxic Masculinity and what they are.. but what exactly constitutes "good masculinity" without being oxymoron... Do feminists also fight "toxic femininity" if there's such thing? Many anti-feminist men, seem to find this therm is another ploy of feminists painting men as bad people, and encouraging men to "feminize" - open up and talk about their feelings (more feminine trait).
Things you've mentioned - such as expecting sex after paying for a date, or whatever - I personally never have done because it's not "decent" thing to do - so I don't really understand why men would do that - after all, I'm a PC Beta male.
- But I would love to find out what feminist has to say about "good masculinity" in terms of gender equality.