It's going to cascade from there into thanksgiving plans, Christmas, new year, meeting the family. Sometimes you've got to be the bad guy and just because she's sweet you're only sticking with her due to your own guilt.
While you're right that it's not validation, there are numerous benefits of a marriage that make it worth considering if you love a person long term.
As cold as it sounds, getting married for love isn't the only reason to do it
Man, why is everyone so thin in SoCal?
Joined Bumble and Tinder about two weeks ago. Zero matches. Had a match tonight on Bumble, before I could open the app they must have deleted me... Why did Rachel have to turn out to be a fucking racist? =[
Did I miss something with that comment? A random unmatch could just as easily be a bot that was deleted.
Just swipe yes to everyone on Tinder. Use up all your likes and repeat.
Oh it's you holy shit.
What a milkshake duck, huh.
But you know, in college, I was racist, homophobic, very capitalist, and extremely religious. My ex was completely opposite. He didn't dump me because power of pussy, but he definitely was like, are you serious how can you think that. It didn't happen overnight but that got me to consider that I was wrong (I loved and respected him) and maybe even kinda shitty--and I mean I'm not perfect and I still have problematic views I'm sure, but I definitely have a completely diametric outlook on all those issues.
I'm not saying that you should missionary date her back to the light, I just think that maybe you'll find she's a different person in a couple years thanks to you.
Are hot.
I'm in good company B)Thats my fetish
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C'mon dude you know how to react to this. Just push on the brakes a little with your actions. If she suggests it again, don't be ecstatic and say "yeah, sure". That'll let her know she's being intense.This girl who was over last night really wants to hang out again asap. I mean thats cool but she was throwing around things like "hey this is perfect, you could play your videogames while I just do my homework"
Thats great in theory but I dunno bout that. Like if she was my gf that would be cool but I dunno if spending that much time together this soon is guna work out for me, like I just met her. Homework at my place while I play videogames seems like it shouldnt be a big deal but it sounds like a marriage proposal to me at this point. Its like. How bout we go on some more dates first? I dunno, am I being ridiculous?
Merrrrr I dunno how to react to this.
You know, there's something called the eezy-breezy principle. If she's really into you and you're really into her, it's usually better to just be honest with that and don't bend over backwards to follow imaginary rules of dating.Yeah you're right milk. Im just stuck in a place where I know I want something but I dont want to rush anything with anyone while at the same time want to have something around lol. Just want to play my cards right.
Tell us more about your experience in China. My dad had the opposite experience, too, actually. White guy who married a Filipino twice.I found it was the opposite for me.
Man just can't catch a break when it comes to Tinder/OKC girls actually meeting up. This is after three dropsies in the meatspace with different girls. Guess my closing game blows, just gotta keep rowing the boat. XD
🤔 Are you super weird in how you talk to girls too?
I've been in the same situation, you'll be fine. In my experience, if you don't mention it neither will they.
Joined Bumble and Tinder about two weeks ago. Zero matches. Had a match tonight on Bumble, before I could open the app they must have deleted me... Why did Rachel have to turn out to be a fucking racist? =[
This is after three dropsies in the meatspace
I tried to set up used condomgirl with our mutual friend. Who was kinda my boss for a while. It was delightful.plus bonus golden showers!
... I also had to confess that I tried to set up used condomgirl with our mutual friend. Who was kinda my boss for a while. It was delightful.plus bonus golden showers!
Lol. Awesome.Its morning and Im still at her place and from here Im going to my moms birthday party.
Oh boy.
Like shes insisting she comes over with her homework on monday and I can play games for a while and she will cook dinner and we can watch a movie. I just dunno. I like the company but its like 3 dates in 5 days? Homework and and me ignoring her while I play vids? All too reminiscent of being in a relationship.
I just dont wanna be like "no"
Yeah the booze man. It can loosen ya up and make you feel comfortable. But sometimes it can make us a little too comfy and get us to do things we might otherwise not do sober. So when you're sober again you might have a little regret. Not that you did anything wrong. Just sometimes if things went past where they expected because of the booze, they might feel embarassed for sure.
Give it a few days and if you dont hear back you can reach out again and see if they still want to meet up but if nothing after that then just drop it.
She might also just feel like crap if you were all tipsy last night and just want some rest but doesnt want to shut you down.
Homework? How young is she?Just swipe yes to everyone on Tinder. Use up all your likes and repeat.
This girl who was over last night really wants to hang out again asap. I mean thats cool but she was throwing around things like "hey this is perfect, you could play your videogames while I just do my homework"
Thats great in theory but I dunno bout that. Like if she was my gf that would be cool but I dunno if spending that much time together this soon is guna work out for me, like I just met her. Homework at my place while I play videogames seems like it shouldnt be a big deal but it sounds like a marriage proposal to me at this point. Its like. How bout we go on some more dates first? I dunno, am I being ridiculous?
Merrrrr I dunno how to react to this.
Speaking of Tinder openers, what do you guys usually open with? I still use the ”hey girl dog" gif, but it doesn't always work... :'(
It works like a charm for the ones who do respond though!
Yeah, bars are one of the main places I've been looking - mostly out of lack of ideas about where else to look.You're not going to find what you're looking for in bars (you've not specified what places your looking). Single women in their 30's they exist but are probably divorced and not out there where your looking. But if she's not divorced, and hasn't found anyone I'd personally be looking at the reason for that.