Yeah, just like there's 'theft', and 'theft, theft'. Stealing a dollar from a loonie jar, and scamming a family for their entire life savings is an identical crime, with equal victimhood, because they're defined by a 5 letter word. What a genius you are.
You seem to be one of those people that refuses to think rationally, and loves throwing millions of different situations into a specific definition, then pretending all these situations are completely identical, then mocking anyone who suggests otherwise. Yeah, much more logical. A man kidnapping a girl and forcing his penis into her vagina while she's balling her eyes out and possibly causing her real, long term physical damage, not to mention the possibility of getting pregnant and the fucked up decisions that need to be then made because of this, on top of all the psychological and emotional stuff is EXACTLY THE SAME as a woman letting an underage kid fuck her in a consensual way. You're right, the amount of victimhood in both these cases is IDENTICAL, Because we can use a 4 letter word to arbitrarily define both of them, never-mind the actual facts of and context of both scenarios.