Yeah this bothers me as well....it seems like everyone that likes thicker/bustier women feels like they are making some kind of political point by liking those women with this "This is a real women" shit....:lol
I think that the truest feminist stance would be to just respect all body types and looks, keep your preferences, but the "this is what women are supposed to look like" shit is played out. I like both Beyonce and Zoe Saldana. I like both Megan Fox and Monica Belluci, some are skinny, some have curves, neither is more "real" than the other.