ZephyrFate
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We weren't honestly going to give you shit about it. We had many open bisexuals in the megathread and they didn't leave.Suairyu said:
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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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i suspect a few people will enjoy this video
plus the song is great!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4E4-9yKTv_I
plus the song is great!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4E4-9yKTv_I
Cosmic Dreams
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spindashing said:More love from NegroGAF. Do the damn thang.
I'm not gay, but I appreciate you guys and the many struggles you may/have gone through. Be strong and just be yourselves!
Co-signed!
I am also not gay, but I wholesomely support my fellow brothers & sisters who are.
I have gay & lesbian friends whom I also love being around, and their still my good friends regardless of who they choose to be with.
Keep up the love & increase da peace.
Most, not all.Mumei said:
And even if I didn't detect it on GAF, I'd still be cautious just because it is such an immensely rampant mindset. It actually shocked me. I went to an all-boys high school and they were generally more accepting of it than any gay-focussed group I've ever encountered. That speaks volumes.
BUT I SHALL BE SILENT NO LONGER!!!
... except regarding this!Mumei said:
There's plenty of reasons. None of them good, but there you go. I'll make a thread about it one day if I want to discuss it again, but I seriously doubt it. More frustrating than the (understandable) reactions of some of the GayGAF members was the flock of White-Knights who never read what I said and started accusing me of being homophobic
: /
ZephyrFate
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There's just an inordinate amount of bad experiences linked with bisexuals and people stretch that out to everyone, so you'll just have to work on changing that statistic.Suairyu said:
ZephyrFate said:
I'm not sure this is the issue (that there's an inordinate amount of bad experiences linked to bisexuals).
I mean, yes, I'm sure there are bad experiences with bisexuals. The difference is that, for whatever reason (probably existing stereotypes), there are people who have a bad experience with one or two bisexual guys and extrapolate that to all bisexual guys in a way they wouldn't if they had a bad experience with a gay guy. It's probably because there's a tendency to see stereotypical behavior as confirmation of a stereotype - so a bisexual guy who behaves poorly is seen as indicative of all bisexuals rather than just being representative of himself.
ZephyrFate
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I wish I had the ability to date more than just men, but I can't get it up for women, so I'm stuck in my limited pond of menSuairyu said:
It's more about people than gender, at least for me. Like, I can't get aroused by gay porn. I mean, gay porn is by large terrible, but even the good stuff just doesn't do it for me. I need my erotica to be straight. But present me with a cute guy with a great mind and I'm all over him like hungry wolf.ZephyrFate said:I wish I had the ability to date more than just men, but I can't get it up for women, so I'm stuck in my limited pond of men
I am much more picky about my men than women, though. It's like I'm straight most of the time and every once in a while a guy comes along who pulls me over "to the other side".
ZephyrFate
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Just so long as you don't tell your future gay boyfriends this, you'll avoid quite a bit of drama :lolSuairyu said:
Kaiser Dämmerung
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What is this shit what the fuck? :O
Damn it's amazing what you can miss in a week. Fucking work, man.
Damn it's amazing what you can miss in a week. Fucking work, man.
They could either interpret is as they're not the usual in my life, or they can think they're something special (which they'd have to be). Nothing gets dudes hotter than thinking they're top dog.ZephyrFate said:
And argh, screw you and your rotating avatar. Shit confuses me no end.
kitchenmotors
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Just a note, if you're sending me a request on Skype (motorde), please include that you're from GayGAF. I don't want to risk adding someone to the chat that might be from work or something. :lol
ZephyrFate
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My rotating avatar is a great success if it's doing that.Suairyu said:
ZephyrFate
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Cyan's making it soon.
This sexy, handsome, beast of a salt/pepper daddy and I have been talking online on/off for months. Man, he's good looking, and such a sweetheart, but I've learned the hard way that people just aren't what they seem in person compared to their web persona.
I'm tempted to meet him, even just as friends and see if anything goes anywhere. I'm also pretty much exclusively thinking with my cock tonight. Sigh.
I'm tempted to meet him, even just as friends and see if anything goes anywhere. I'm also pretty much exclusively thinking with my cock tonight. Sigh.
Oh, I totally would be smart about a first meeting, as I always have been with many others. I just felt like vocalizing myself on this one. :lol
How unethical would it be to post a grindr dude's photo in this thread? :lol
What's the consensus on how quickly to give a guy your phone number?
I definitely had a couple bad experiences with that in the past. One dude called me 41 times in one hour at work once.
How unethical would it be to post a grindr dude's photo in this thread? :lol
What's the consensus on how quickly to give a guy your phone number?
I definitely had a couple bad experiences with that in the past. One dude called me 41 times in one hour at work once.
ZephyrFate
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I would say get to know them over drinks or something before giving out the number.Magnus said:
Magnus said:
People have done it in the Gay thead before, but I generally find it distasteful, coming from NSA/discreet anonymous sex. *shrug* Your issue, though.
I wouldn't give it to someone you're talking to online until you REALLY good friends or going out, and even then I wouldn't give it to them until you're sure you want to give it to them. But that's a personal boundary thing for me.
krypt0nian
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Magnus said:
Daddy talk is killing me. *pant pant*
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
You should! Just keep it safe.Magnus said:
Also salt/pepper dudes = HOT. *flashbacks to friday*
fernoca said:
"Relationship" is just a wide umbrella to cover various topics related to it. The reverse of being in relationship is being single so if you want to talk about guys you're interested in or why you're single, I don't see why the mods will see it as a problem. Is finding guys hard in your area?
Yeah I know, I was just adding drama. :lol :lolReplicant said:
Well, finding guys is no problem since there are plenty. Finding good guys is the hard thing. And finding good guys that are also happen to be gay is even more difficult.
I just don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for. If I look I'm bad, because I'm not supposed to look for them. If I don't, I'm bad because I'm not supposed to just sit and wait.
Experience in discos, pubs, bookstores, online, offline...everything has just been either negative or disappointing. But at least there's experience out of it. I just don't know where else am I supposed to go, when even the community groups around, are full of the same guys that are fully naked and only looking for sex on Manhunt.
I've been trhough many weird situations. Like the guy I think I mentioned in the other thread, that basically wanted a relationship, but not with me because "I wasn't good looking enough" (up until that point we only talked online, for months; but never exchanged pictures). Or the one that didn't wanted anything to do with me, but was crying every time my friend (which he had a huge crush) ignored him and when I told him that "I was there for him", his replies were always a "lol". And those were just the recent ones. Or like the guy that everything was fine online, and we decided to meet in person and he saw me (even when he already had seen pics of me), and said "BRB"; and never came back (and happened 3 times with 3 different guys); and so on.
I've been planning to move to the US , so maybe I'l lhave better luck over there; or maybe not.
ZephyrFate
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fernoca has a long history of telling us that he has a lot of problems. =[Replicant said:
fernoca said:
PM me your photo, provided you want an asshole like me to be blunt/honest.
I'd say the same to Isaac given his gym-crush drama from a year ago, but I ain't going to push that
Granted, you can't be as ugly as some people I know in my life from high-school.
In any case, those dudes that bailed on you sound like pricks. Why commit to meeting up if you're going to bail after seeing the person in real-life?
On topic:
Oh the places I could go with this. But I think I'll go with: I have high-standards, low sex drive, and am an asshole. So, I've resigned myself to being alone for all my life and having to prostitute myself if I want sex when I'm in the mood.
krypt0nian
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julls said:
Ok now krypt0 needs Friday details.
fragilebroken
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I'm not the type to hang out in bars. They're loud and crowded and I'm trying not to drink. Where else can I go to meet people who might be interested? I haven't had much luck meeting girls on okcupid, either. And I'm crazy-insecure about hitting on random strangers.
krypt0nian
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All this hot daddy talk....
fap
fap
krypt0nian
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Koomaster said:
I'll tag team him with you.
ZephyrFate
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