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Girlfriend Says "Thank You"

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egruntz

shelaughz
Liu Kang Baking A Pie said:
It is. I can't figure out why this bugs OP. Can you elaborate, OP?
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I guess because it doesn't seem like it's her. She's always been pretty passive and chill when having sex. We'd just kiss, breath, and fuck. Maybe some moaning but never anything exuberant. She started watching porn recently, and I feel like she's trying to mimic some of the stuff she's seeing? And it just doesn't seem genuine to me, and it just kills the overall mood.

Liu Kang Baking A Pie said:
Maybe you're just not into her? Because all of that sounds pretty awesome.
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I'm really into her. =/ I'm gonna marry her. Just a small sex issue I'd like to work out is all.

I'm an expert said:
..?
Saying this after what. Like you're finished, you get off her, and then a minute later? Or what?
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Been trying not to go into detail, but in multiple circumstances. Two nights ago it was during oral. I busted in her mouth. She looked up, licked her lips, said "thank you [my name]", then giggled. I was like "...Heheh" and then I laid down. It may be when we're in missionary and I finish inside her. She'll just start scratching my back--she does this usually and I love it a lot--and then she pulls up my head and says it. I'm like why ruin it
 
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K.Jack

Knowledge is power, guard it well
egruntz said:
She's been saying this after. It just completely ruins the mood. Even if I've already finished, I don't know, something about it just turns me completely off, even though I'm already worn. She's been saying weird things, I don't know. Like "good boy" when I first get my dick in. And I'm just like, "....Yeah?" and start thrusting. And she goes "yeah! yeah! yeah!" and I'm like dear god woman shut up, I can't concentrate.

IDK.
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Maybe she's trying to talk dirty, and is just bad at it? Would you rather she just lay there like a limp noodle, so you can get off in silence?

Sounds like she's enjoying the sex more than you.
 
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Salsa

Member
I think one of my fantasies (even tho I.. kinda lived it once but it was disappointing) is being with a girl like that. That meaning being with a younger chick who doesnt really have experience and you kinda have to teach her shit

this fantasy probably developed from the fact that my GF is 8 years older than me and im the one who has to keep up, which, you know, also great, but I want it all I guess ;_;


what I mean, again, is that doing whatever you want with a girl that's learning and wants to impress you saying "thank you" looking up after sex sounds amazing breh
 
Nealand Liquor

Nealand Liquor

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egruntz said:
She's been saying this after. It just completely ruins the mood. Even if I've already finished, I don't know, something about it just turns me completely off, even though I'm already worn. She's been saying weird things, I don't know. Like "good boy" when I first get my dick in. And I'm just like, "....Yeah?" and start thrusting. And she goes "yeah! yeah! yeah!" and I'm like dear god woman shut up, I can't concentrate.

IDK.
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Dude, lighten up.
 
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Einbroch

Banned
She's trying. Either you need to let go or talk to her about it.

Sounds to me like you're being prudish. I'd recommend letting go.
 
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Cooter

Lacks the power of instantaneous movement
egruntz said:
I guess because it doesn't seem like it's her. She's always been pretty passive and chill when having sex. We'd just kiss, breath, and fuck. Maybe some moaning but never anything exuberant. She started watching porn recently, and I feel like she's trying to mimic some of the stuff she's seeing? And it just doesn't seem genuine to me, and it just kills the overall mood.
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I'm liking this girl more and more! Come on man. Go with it.
 
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Dead Man

Member
egruntz said:
She's been saying this after. It just completely ruins the mood. Even if I've already finished, I don't know, something about it just turns me completely off, even though I'm already worn. She's been saying weird things, I don't know. Like "good boy" when I first get my dick in. And I'm just like, "....Yeah?" and start thrusting. And she goes "yeah! yeah! yeah!" and I'm like dear god woman shut up, I can't concentrate.

IDK.
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I'm thinking maybe you just don't like sex with an actual person? If you have to concentrate to enjoy the sex, it may be that you are forcing yourself to do something you don't enjoy?
 
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xxracerxx

Don't worry, I'll vouch for them.
egruntz said:
Been trying not to go into detail, but in multiple circumstances. Two nights ago it was during oral. I busted in her mouth. She looked up, licked her lips, said "thank you [my name]", then giggled. I was like "...Heheh" and then I laid down. It may be when we're in missionary and I finish inside her. She'll just start scratching my back--she does this usually and I love it a lot--and then she pulls up my head and says it. I'm like why ruin it
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Dude...you are a huge prude.
 
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Sibersk Esto

Banned
OP:

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NotTheGuyYouKill

Member
Notes for the future:

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She'll give it up for a $1000 necklace.

Edit: Honestly, this is something you should either talk to her about or just leave it. Cause how the heck is GAF gonna help you here? You have an inexperienced girl that loves you, having sex with you on the reg, and she has some minor funny quirk.

Oh man, that sucks so bad. What next, ebola.
 
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Sober

Member
egruntz said:
I guess because it doesn't seem like it's her. She's always been pretty passive and chill when having sex. We'd just kiss, breath, and fuck. Maybe some moaning but never anything exuberant. She started watching porn recently, and I feel like she's trying to mimic some of the stuff she's seeing? And it just doesn't seem genuine to me, and it just kills the overall mood.



I'm really into her. =/ I'm gonna marry her. Just a small sex issue I'd like to work out is all.



Been trying not to go into detail, but in multiple circumstances. Two nights ago it was during oral. I busted in her mouth. She looked up, licked her lips, said "thank you [my name]", then giggled. I was like "...Heheh" and then I laid down. It may be when we're in missionary and I finish inside her. She'll just start scratching my back--she does this usually and I love it a lot--and then she pulls up my head and says it. I'm like why ruin it
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Maybe you should watch porn together or something.

I get the feeling she's trying. And you're just posting about her trying on GAF.
 
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Samara

Member
egruntz said:
She's been saying this after. It just completely ruins the mood. Even if I've already finished, I don't know, something about it just turns me completely off, even though I'm already worn. She's been saying weird things, I don't know. Like "good boy" when I first get my dick in. And I'm just like, "....,^Yeah?" and start thrusting. And she goes "yeah! yeah! yeah!" and I'm like dear god woman shut up, I can't concentrate.

IDK.
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Are you mad that she doesnt know how to talk dirty?
 
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Epsilon-delta

Banned
egruntz said:
She's been saying this after. It just completely ruins the mood. Even if I've already finished, I don't know, something about it just turns me completely off, even though I'm already worn. She's been saying weird things, I don't know. Like "good boy" when I first get my dick in. And I'm just like, "....Yeah?" and start thrusting. And she goes "yeah! yeah! yeah!" and I'm like dear god woman shut up, I can't concentrate.

IDK.
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You're fucking weird.
 
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Salsa

Member
so this is a complaint:

egruntz said:
Two nights ago it was during oral. I busted in her mouth. She looked up, licked her lips, said "thank you [my name]", then giggled.
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this sounds like a guy whose fantasies are completely free of ever watching porn, or something
 
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egruntz

shelaughz
JBourne said:
Are you a dog, by chance?
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Well funny you ask this cause this is exactly what I think of when I'm called "good boy". This kind of talk just doesn't sit well wit me. Even though I know she means well and is just trying to have fun. I think I would have less a problem with it if I thought this is how she inherently behaved during sex, but I know otherwise, cause she's behaved differently for such a long time.

But..uh..how do I tell her to stop without going about it harshly?
Also why am I a prude? :(
 
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Stet

Banned
If it really bothers you, try responding to her. When she starts doing the "YEAH" thing, counter with

MOCK


ING


BIRD


YEAH
 
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hateradio

The Most Dangerous Yes Man
SalsaShark said:
so this is a complaint:

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this sounds like a guy who's fantasies are completely free of ever watching porn, or something
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Well it is kinda weird.

Why would you want to get a thanks for sex? That's odd. Adding the name is a little strange, too.

I wouldn't like it.

It's like as if you just did a small favor for someone. I don't think of sex as a favor, I guess.
 
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IHaveIce

Banned
egruntz said:
I guess because it doesn't seem like it's her. She's always been pretty passive and chill when having sex. We'd just kiss, breath, and fuck. Maybe some moaning but never anything exuberant. She started watching porn recently, and I feel like she's trying to mimic some of the stuff she's seeing? And it just doesn't seem genuine to me, and it just kills the overall mood.
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I think you solved the case by yourself.

It probably is this,
 
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Sober

Member
egruntz said:
Well funny you ask this cause this is exactly what I think of when I'm called "good boy". This kind of talk just doesn't sit well wit me. Even though I know she means well and is just trying to have fun. I think I would have less a problem with it if I thought this is how she inherently behaved during sex, but I know otherwise, cause she's behaved differently for such a long time.

But..uh..how do I tell her to stop without going about it harshly?
Also why am I a prude? :(
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"Please stop trying to make sex exciting and titillating, I'm only in it for the procreation. From now on, if either of us feel the urge, I recommend manual stimulation instead. Please inform me when you wish to procreate, however."

Nothing will go wrong OP, I swear it.
 
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Salsa

Member
hateradio said:
Well it is kinda weird.

Why would you want to get a thanks for sex? That's odd. Adding the name is a little strange, too.

I wouldn't like it.

It's like as if just did a small favor for someone. I don't think of sex as a favor, I guess.
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I hardly doubt she means it other than being playful and trying stuff

why be such a prude about it if he opens up the whole subject saying they're really open and communicative when it comes to sex?
 
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hateradio

The Most Dangerous Yes Man
SalsaShark said:
I hardly doubt she means it other than being playful and trying stuff

why be such a prude about it if he opens up saying they're really open and communicative when it comes to sex?
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I don't think the OP's problem is sensing sincere giggles. It sounds like she's just making it awkward by saying thanks at the end.

However, that's true. Talk to your gf or whatever she is, instead of GAF.
 
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Salsa

Member
what's worse is that OP almost sounds mocky about her sex experience compared to his but the GF trying stuff like this is way more forward and cool/interesting

"ugh why do you try shit I already had sex a bunch I know this! lemme do it my way alone!"

just say that's not your thing, but also try to be open to the ways she enjoys it? y'know
 
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