Sixfortyfive
He who pursues two rabbits gets two rabbits.
I think you should stop reading so much into it and not criticize them for behavior and slights that you seem to have pulled out of thin air.There is a difference between "everybody is a winner" and congratulating somebody when they win. You fail to see the difference. In no other competition would one competitor be laughed at so much. If he's a novice, then he's a novice, we all start somewhere. But why do they feel the need to sit there and just snigger at this kids effort? Its elitist, simple as that. Its the ugly side of gaming most people don't want to see. How would that display encourage anybody to play in future?
At the end of the day its only a video game, were hardly talking about Bobby Fisher levels of skill here.
And not even good players get a "good job" after every single match.