Too much stress; find a girl who is down with side chicks. Problem solved.
This really should have been how you started the thread.I just wonder what people actually talk about or is it just sex. I've been cheated on before and at that time I wondered (although ultimately unhealthy) what was it? Was it normal conversation or purely physical lust?
Could you elaborate on thisI wouldn't want that as my main girl, I'm contradictory conservative in that regard and probably wouldn't respect her like that.
Depends on the situation but I kinda feel the opposite; it's pretty badass when a girl is turned on by their partner being with other women. And it often comes along with the opposite of what people think; they aren't doing it because they are doormats but because they are actually super secure with themselves and their relationship. If it comes along with confidence it's sexy as hell and gets nothing but respect from me.I wouldn't want that as my main girl, I'm contradictory conservative in that regard and probably wouldn't respect her.
Man, most of my friends are married now. Perhaps it's from being raised in a hyper masculine environment, and/or the ease of access to attracting woman and maintaining their interest, but I believe most of my friends operate on having a wife/girlfriend who they love, take care of, and treat right as a source of stability while having a side chick or two to reinforce their ego and sexual desires.
Really having your cake and eat it too.
I'm guilty of it myself.
Bu thats the defintion of an open marriage isn't it?
I wouldn't want that as my main girl, I'm contradictory conservative in that regard and probably wouldn't respect her like that.
You feel me lolYou talk to them like you talk to any other human being. The more talking you do the more likely you will jump ship.
Its the definition of cheating. He said afterwards that he doesn't want a girl that's okay with him doing that.
You seem like you have some mental illness.
what if you're the side guy and you don't even know it ��
Could you elaborate on this
Depends on the situation but I kinda feel the opposite; it's pretty badass when a girl is turned on by their partner being with other women. And it often comes along with the opposite of what people think; they aren't doing it because they are doormats but because they are actually super secure with themselves and their relationship. If it comes along with confidence it's sexy as hell and gets nothing but respect from me.
Bu thats the defintion of an open marriage isn't it?
Its disrespecful and also dangerous to keep your partner in the dark about that shit. Especially if youre the type to tell your partner "hey we dont need protection since were only having sex with each other."
You seem like you have some mental illness.
It's a pretty common attitude; not gonna accuse lightskin of anything because I don't know him but in my experience it's an insecurity thing. They'll claim it's about respect "I don't want the mother of my children being overly sexual".. but the real issue is the fear that a highly sexual woman is more likely to cheat.
I had a large group of friends who all cheated, and everyone single one of them was about as hypocritical as it gets. They cheated, but would flip out if their significant other so much as talked to another guy. Really transparent; all about their fragile ego.
Mostly it just sucks when you know you"re close but can't do a thing about it...