MikeOfTheLivingDead said:This isn't just a little mistake, she could have potentially put herself and several other people in the morgue. Also, if he is cohabitating and his insurer gets wind of this his premiums will go through the roof. Drunk driving aside, I would not be in a serious relationship with the type of girl who would go to a bar and get hammered without me. Hell, I wouldn't be in a serious relationship with the type of girl who gets hammered period.
I say dump her. It's just a girlfriend, you can get a better one.
MikeOfTheLivingDead said:This isn't just a little mistake, she could have potentially put herself and several other people in the morgue. Also, if he is cohabitating and his insurer gets wind of this his premiums will go through the roof. Drunk driving aside, I would not be in a serious relationship with the type of girl who would go to a bar and get hammered without me. Hell, I wouldn't be in a serious relationship with the type of girl who gets hammered period.
I say dump her. It's just a girlfriend, you can get a better one.
Seriously, some of these people are gonna have great fun when they get marrieddejay said:Yeah, a lot of people here with perfect partners that have never made a mistake apparently.
missbreedsiddx said:yes. do you not know the definition of mistake?
Socreges said:I bailed my brother out of jail yesterday because he shoved a $20 bill in his girlfriend's mouth. True story.
jamesinclair said:Why don't you go ahead and try it, and see if the court agrees with your "it was just a mistake" defense.
butts said:Fuck drunk drivers and anyone who acts like its not a big deal.
jamesinclair said:Why don't you go ahead and try it, and see if the court agrees with your "it was just a mistake" defense.
LOZLINK said:Seriously, some of these people are gonna have great fun when they get married
jamesinclair said:Actually, in most states, refusing to take the test is worse. In some states you will be held down and have blood drawn.
Immortal_Daemon said:You're totally insane for helping her with the money, though. This is 100% her fault, and she obviously knew it was dangerous. Three years is a long time(ish), sure, but it's not enough to take on the penalty for her crimes.
What he actually said: "You want your money? Here's your money."Borgnine said:This sounds interesting. Seems like there would be a cool one-liner that goes along with it, any idea what it was?
Rubenov said:GAF, what about if I'm at a restaurant and I have a glass of wine with dinner? Am I vulnerable to a DUI? -- serious question.
LOZLINK said:Seriously, some of these people are gonna have great fun when they get married
Rubenov said:GAF, what about if I'm at a restaurant and I have a glass of wine with dinner? Am I vulnerable to a DUI? -- serious question.
winjet81 said:If her job requires her to drive, are you going to have to chauffeur her around?
Fenderputty said:You're all approaching this wrong. They're not married, but if they act as a unit, he'll end out paying one way or the other. What about the next time he wants to go to the show? Leave her behind? He can't enjoy a nice dinner out with her? He'll have to help her financially at some point regardless and will end up indirectly financially supporting her through this regardless.
TONX said:I told her i was gonna get her but she said she was 2 minutes from home.
Immortal_Daemon said:There's a good chance he's relatively young, meaning close to my age.
At this current stage in my life, I would have no major qualms with telling a girlfriend of 3 years she won't get any help from me. I'd still be nice to her, of course; take her out to dinner and hang out with her, but I wouldn't help her pay for anything related to the drunk driving.
Immortal_Daemon said:There's a good chance he's relatively young, meaning close to my age.
At this current stage in my life, I would have no major qualms with telling a girlfriend of 3 years she won't get any help from me. I'd still be nice to her, of course; take her out to dinner and hang out with her, but I wouldn't help her pay for anything related to the drunk driving.
missbreedsiddx said:Your high horse rage is adorable.
I never once said a mistake is a justifiable defense. Mistakes can be little or huge, serious or inconsequential. Driving drunk is fairly serious mistake. But anyone on this board who claims to have never made, or that they never will make, some kind of serious mistake in their lives that affect the people around us is a liar or incredibly naive.
Samara said:Im still amazed how people don't have enough sense to call a taxi in that kind of situation. There's always plenty in front of the bars!
diunxx said:Guys don't be too hard on her, maybe she had a friend that needed to go to work.
Alcohol affects judgment and leads to more risky behavior. The mistake was made hours before, when they started drinking without a responsible DD.Kraut said:This. Driving drunk is understandably a mistake, but one that is so widely reported on that you have no excuse when cought. Why not learn from the mistakes of others who have ruined their own lives and the lives of others and avoid fucking yourself?
Kraut said:This. Driving drunk is understandably a mistake, but one that is so widely reported on that you have no excuse when cought. Why not learn from the mistakes of others who have ruined their own lives and the lives of others and avoid fucking yourself?
Fenderputty said:You're a fucking idiot. I'm not trivializing the offense in any way but, you act as if she's the scum of the earth and can't learn a valued lesson. I've had one and won't ever get another one. What if my now wife thought like you?
Get off your fucking high horse. Good people make stupid decisions sometimes. She's lucky this time no one was hurt. I say lucky because that's what she was ... lucky. Worth breaking up over? Worth "teaching her some lesson" by not helping her financially? Hardly.
samus i am said:I think his point is, even though it is illegal it is unintentional therefore a mistake.
Because most monogamous relationships aren't built around the principle that the other person won't get drive while drunk.jamesinclair said:Why is it standard to dump someone who cheated on you, but "unrealistic" to dump someone who did something that could have ended in multiple deaths?
NomarTyme said:Damn you're paying for everything? now you have to drive her around too.... drop her.
missbreedsiddx said:have you never been drunk? PSA's, GAF lectures, and friend's horror stories pretty much go out the window when you are drunk, tired, and wanting nothing more than to get the hell home. Even when you are aware that you are too drunk to drive well, your alcohol riddled brain tends to find excuses like, "i'm only two minutes away" or "it's late, nobody will be on the road."
And no, its not an excuse, it s a reason, a reason to keep an eye on your friends when they drink, and to mind how much you yourself consume.
Koshiba said:Well.. I just have to say bailing a SO out of jail is never fun. I had an ex BF I had to bail out of jail twice. Not for DUI though.
This.butts said:Fuck drunk drivers and anyone who acts like its not a big deal.
I hope you find that magical human being. I really do. The rest of us have to put up with people that are sometimes a drain on our emotions, or cause a little embarassment.MikeOfTheLivingDead said:For me it would not about "teaching her a lesson", and it has nothing to do with insecurity. I'd dump her for purely selfish reasons and not feel the least bit bad about it. I'm a grown man who doesn't want a significant other who is an embarassment, a drain on my finances or time or emotions, or stupid enough to do something get behind the wheel after getting trashed. If I'm in a relationship, not married mind you, just dating someone and they are causing me significant grief through their careless actions, out on their ass they go. I live a bullshit free existance and like to keep it that way.
Your aunt peed in his mouth? Was she drunk too? Cause that's pretty fucked up.Samara said:Funny story here. My cousin came home drunk, and my aunt proceeded to empty her bladder in his mouth for he was wasted and "not responding". He ended in the hospital from alchol poisining.
TONX said:DUI. She went out for a drink with her friends from work after she got off work, she called me around 7 yesterday absolutely trashed and on the phone. I told her it was a stupid idea to be driving, let alone on the phone and driving in her condition... didnt hear from her for hours afterwards.
Got a call at about midnight from her at the police station, crying and saying she got arrested.
Shits gonna be hard for her (and for me) since her job requires her to drive to different areas daily.
In a way i think its a good thing because she did have a drinking problem, but now i paying bail and court costs and all that shit, money's gonna be tight. Going later to pick her up from jail. Ugh.
Any similar DUI stories?
What the fuck :lol :lolSamara said:Funny story here. My cousin came home drunk, and my aunt proceeded to empty her bladder in his mouth for he was wasted and "not responding". He ended in the hospital from alchol poisining.
Wickerbasket said:Your aunt peed in his mouth? Was she drunk too? Cause that's pretty fucked up.