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You don't need to be coy, roydesh said:Make a new plan, Stan.
You don't need to be coy, roydesh said:Make a new plan, Stan.
Samara said:I envy you men, I take 2 beers and I'm a mumbling idiot. Got totally wasted on a Pina colada once!
Funny story here. My cousin came home drunk, and my aunt proceeded to empty her bladder in his mouth for he was wasted and "not responding". He ended in the hospital from alchol poisining.
silverbullet1080 said:What the fuck :lol :lol
you know all the years I've been going my favorite bar I've only seen a taxi out front maybe a hand full of times.Samara said:Im still amazed how people don't have enough sense to call a taxi in that kind of situation. There's always plenty in front of the bars!
just got home with her, but shit like this, fuck it. im out.charsace said:Your gf is a reckless bitch. She could have killed someone.
charsace said:Your gf is a reckless bitch. She could have killed someone.
charsace said:Your gf is a reckless bitch. She could have killed someone.
Kentpaul said:Ah op unlucky your GF cought drink driving , happens to the best of us buddy , should be a good 18 months till shes clear
missbreedsiddx said:Driving drunk is a stupid reckless mistake, but calling his girlfriend a bitch is uncalled for.
grandjedi6 said:Oh look, its moral outrage gaf. A "great" group when there is something to actually be outraged about, but in all other cases just turn out to be a mob of jerkasses. Case in point: people painting the GF as the next Hitler and arguing that the op should dump her for a DUI (I guess moral outrage gaf and girl-age gaf must have a high crossover).
Zeke said:I'm blown away with some the responses in here. Dump her over this? Seriously?
jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
its already been answered for youaoi tsuki said:Because most monogamous relationships aren't built around the principle that the other person won't get drive while drunk.
Edit: i wouldn't say it's unrealistic to dump a girl for driving under the influence, but i wouldn't take a singular incident as grounds to do so.
Not like she could have run someone one over or hit a car. My Aunt got hit by a fucking idiot drunk driver in thr 80s and still has to see specialist for her neck, back and left leg. She didn't break anything, but since that time she has had pain in her back and numbness in her leg.missbreedsiddx said:Driving drunk is a stupid reckless mistake, but calling his girlfriend a bitch is uncalled for.
jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
Zeke said:its already been answered for you
jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
A DUI is vehicular manslaughter, not murder.jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
Aselith said:YOU'RE the victim, jackass. (You being the person being cheated on obviously) That's why it's worse. It's something that actually happened to you and not something that might potentially maybe happen to someone else.
Ugh. Cheating is not a "mistake". You cheat and the harm is done. It's a problem with the relationship itself, not something entirely external. Driving drunk is a bad judgement call....and not that it justifies it or anything, but obviously one made when your judgement is impaired. Everyone makes mistakes in their lives, some worse than others, and I'm sure there are many here who've made at least one that put someone else in danger in one way or another. It's up to their partner to determine if that mistake--completely unrelated to their relationship--is worth ending the relationship over. To compare it to cheating, regardless of the severity of the mistake, is flat-out retarded and completely nonsensical. Cheating is a breach of the very thing that is holding the relationship together in the first place. Seriously, do I of all people need to fucking explain this to you?jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
This. I hope every one of you calling for the OP to dump is 'bitch' girlfriend completely cuts every one who's ever driven recklessly in any way out of their lives.Would you dump your gf from driving whilst tired? Would you dump her for driving whilst texting? Both can be just as dangerous as drink driving.
But..she didn't! She made a mistake. What happened, happened and she needs to learn from that mistake. You really shouldn't dwell on hypothetical situations.jamesinclair said:What if the GF had hit and killed the OPs mother? Just a mistake? Or is it different now because the op knows his mother but not the family of 5 down the street whose minivan was pushed into a tree?
jamesinclair said:Yeah, because my feelings are so much more important than the LIVES of other people.
What if the GF had hit and killed the OPs mother? Just a mistake? Or is it different now because the op knows his mother but not the family of 5 down the street whose minivan was pushed into a tree?
And this.Aselith said:Again, it's potential versus reality and you versus someone else. You should feel cheating more deeply because a. it actually happened it isn't a hypothetical and b. it happened to you personally and things that happen to you are always going to be felt more deeply than things that happen to other people.
Are you really going to tell me that millions of people dying in Haiti would affect you more deeply than your dad dying?
Moving on from that. You'll react more strongly to what you feel more deeply. Make sense?
dejay said:Would you dump your gf from driving whilst tired? Would you dump her for driving whilst texting? Both can be just as dangerous as drink driving.
TONX said:In a way i think its a good thing because she did have a drinking problem
very well said and I couldn't agree moremissbreedsiddx said:Nobody is saying what she did was ok, but the blind rage over a stupid decision is hypocritical. We all make stupid choices throughout our lives that may affect others. A stupid decision at work could result in someone getting fired and losing their livelihood. A spilled cup of coffee could end up with you broadsiding another car. A nasty comment made out of frustration could push someone over the edge. A moment of distraction could end up with a child injuring or killing himself when you aren't looking.
We aren't perfect, we make stupid ass decisions every day, from little ones to severe ones. Just because you are strong in your conviction to not drive drunk, doesn't mean you wont or dont make other piss poor choices in your life that have the potential to hurt others. She deserves whatever punishment she receives. She does not deserve to have her entire worth as a human being judged by one mistake. If we do so, then every single one of us are pieces of shit as well for our poor decisions.
Samara said:Apparently, it "cures" them from intoxication. Peeing in your son's mouth when he's passed out. I could not believe it either :lol
This is a video game message board, the closest thing some Gaffers have been to a relationship is Mass Effect. They always play paragon, why wouldn't their hypothetical girlfriend?VGChampion said:GAF is ruthless sometimes. I wonder about some of you sometimes. I would help out my girlfriend in a heartbeat and she would do the same for me. You don't just drop someone you care about because you made a mistake.
:lol :lol WHAT??!?AFreak said:Me: "Sorry officer, we were just driving around and about to go out to eat. Do you need to see my trunk or anything?"
Context is important here. If this was an isolated incident then dumping her over it would be harsh but if this is just a highlight in a string of similar fueled incidents then it might be time to cut the strings. No one that values you as a person would put you through that on a regular basis.cwmartin said:surprised by how many "dump her" comments are going on. I know most people cant put themselves in the shoes of a 3 year relationship (not a stab at the GAF populace but certainly wouldn't be uncommon), but it seems extremely selfish and you would be a complete douche if you refused to help someone you even knew for 3 years, much less were in a relationship with. I know if any of my friends called me, or my girlfriend, I'd be there as quick as I could. I hope there are still some stand up guys, instead of the selfish ones out there.
Thaedolus said:Ding ding. In fact, just talking on your cell phone puts you right about at drunk driving level of distracted, and texting is like double. Both are incredibly common, and just as stupid, but nobody's getting their panties up in a bunch about them.
slidewinder said::lol :lol WHAT??!?
jamesinclair said:So why dont you answer my question?
Why is it common to dump a gf if she cheats on you, in which there is no physical harm caused, but DUI, which can end in the murder of various innocents is ok?
Cheat: It's just sex, nobody gets physically hurt. No victims.
DUI: Potentially can lead to the death of the gf and several innocent bystanders.
Both are "mistakes". One has no victims, except your sad little self esteem.
Why is it unreasonable to dump someone for getting a DUI but dumping someone for cheating is the thing to do?
Don't forget the people who will now wheel out the white knight thinggie.grandjedi6 said:Oh look, its moral outrage gaf. A "great" group when there is something to actually be outraged about, but in all other cases just turn out to be a mob of jerkasses. Case in point: people painting the GF as the next Hitler and arguing that the op should dump her for a DUI (I guess moral outrage gaf and girl-age gaf must have a high crossover).
EvaPlusMinus said:Nobody is perfect, after all.
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