lulz, she has gotten too drunk before = alcoholism?HappyBivouac said:People seriously don't understand the concept of "It's unhealthy to be in a relationship with a moron"?
This isn't just a one time fuck-up. She's had drinking problems before. This proves she hasn't made much effort to fix it. The OP is enabling her.
Drunk drivers are fucking scum-of-the-earth assholes. I've been drunk before. When I'm drunk I fucking know that I'm drunk and it's pretty apparent that driving is a retarded idea. It's people that think "shit only happens to other people. it won't happen to me" that end up killing other innocent people on the road. So fuck those people. No sympathy from me.
It's not a mistake when you damn well know what you're getting yourself into, but figure nothing bad could happen to you. This isn't a matter of being on a high horse. If I told you I had relatives killed by drunk drivers, would you still tell me "get off your high horse?" Because people have that shit happen to them all the time.
cubanb said:lulz, she has gotten too drunk before = alcoholism?
Lighten up guys. Live life a little and you will realize people make many mistakes and if you throw them out for something like this, you will end up discarding everyone.
HappyBivouac said:OP said she has a history of drinking problems.
It's not always the answer to "lighten up" about things dude. I'm not constantly freaking out about everything in life, but people get killed by drunk drivers all the time and it's sad shit. I don't like people acting like it's not a big deal. Acting like it's not a big deal and "everyone makes mistakes" is what leads to terrible stuff happening.
And no, not everyone makes mistakes that severely threaten their own lives and the lives of others.
I wouldn't put it past these crazies.pjberri said:You guys talking about dumping the girl are fucking hilarious. Would you get a divorce over a DUI?
:lol :lol :lolHappyBivouac said:If I were enough of a dumbass to drive drunk I hope my girlfriend would leave me. Loving someone doesn't mean accepting them being a terrible person.
What a peculiar outlook.HappyBivouac said:If I were enough of a dumbass to drive drunk I hope my girlfriend would leave me.
HappyBivouac said:I can live with that. Drunk drivers are assholes. If you don't think so, you're an asshole-enabler.
TheKyle07 said:All I'll say is that I would not want to have such an irresponsible person raising my children.
HappyBivouac said:If I were enough of a dumbass to drive drunk I hope my girlfriend would leave me. Loving someone doesn't mean accepting them being a terrible person.
demon said:Ugh. Cheating is not a "mistake". You cheat and the harm is done. It's a problem with the relationship itself, not something entirely external. Driving drunk is a bad judgement call....and not that it justifies it or anything, but obviously one made when your judgement is impaired. Everyone makes mistakes in their lives, some worse than others, and I'm sure there are many here who've made at least one that put someone else in danger in one way or another. It's up to their partner to determine if that mistake--completely unrelated to their relationship--is worth ending the relationship over. To compare it to cheating, regardless of the severity of the mistake, is flat-out retarded and completely nonsensical. Cheating is a breach of the very thing that is holding the relationship together in the first place. Seriously, do I of all people need to fucking explain this to you?
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:lol There is no reasoning with you people, you deal only in extremes.jamesinclair said:Thats exactly where Im coming from.
I'd rather have my gf get drunk and "accidentally" cheat on me than "accidentally" drive drunk. Both are huge errors in judgment. And IMO, both will ruin a relationship.
Shaka said::lol There is no reasoning with you people, you deal only in extremes.
Shaka said::lol There is no reasoning with you people, you deal only in extremes.
You know nothing about me. You know nothing about whether drink driving has affected my life or not. Never once did I say "lol it's just drinking" if that's what you're implying. The fact of the matter is she fucked up, she had a stupid moment. She could've killed someone but she didn't. She must definitely pay for her mistakes, she should walk away with a lesson learned. But the number of people in this thread acting like they're better than her, calling her bitch and whatnot and telling the OP to dump her are just...pathetic to say the list. Truthfully I don't even know what the fuck I'm arguing about, I hate it when people drink and drive. It's fucking selfish.jamesinclair said:And there's no reasoning with the "lol it's just drinking" crowd.
50 years ago they didn't exist, in fact, we were designing road to accommodate drunk drivers, by cutting down trees near the sides that they could kill themselves with. Getting caught was a tap on the wrist.
Ever looked into DUI laws? There's a trend. They're all called something like "Meagans law" or "Jennifer's law", named after people (usually children) murdered by drunk drivers. All these drunk driving laws have been created AFTER the fact. It's all just a hypothetical situation until your daughter gets killed. Until then, it's not a big deal, people make mistakes right? Unfortunately, we still have a bunch of 70 year old law makers that haven't been touched by a drunk driver. And by touched, I mean had a family member killed. They're still in our government watering down penalties, because to them, it's just a mistake.
So that's the problem. The laws only deal in extremes too. Like in new york last year, when 8 or so people were killed when a mother drove drunk on the wrong side of a highway. Guess what happened shortly after? The laws got stricter. Why didnt that happen 10 years earlier? Because it was just a hypothetical situation.
Shaka said:You know nothing about me. You know nothing about whether drink driving has affected my life or not. Never once did I say "lol it's just drinking" if that's what you're implying. The fact of the matter is she fucked up, she had a stupid moment. She could've killed someone but she didn't. She must definitely pay for her mistakes, she should walk away with a lesson learned. But the number of people in this thread acting like they're better than her, calling her bitch and whatnot and telling the OP to dump her are just...pathetic to say the list. Truthfully I don't even know what the fuck I'm arguing about, I hate it when people drink and drive. It's fucking selfish.
(And no I don't know about drink driving laws in the states.)
I believe with a mistake like this where nothing terrible happened, It's best to learn from it and move on. No point needlessly dwelling on the past. It was definitely a dumbass move. But hey that's just what I think.jamesinclair said:The reply wasnt just aimed at you, this thread is littered with "it was a mistake, mistakes happen, whatever" replies.
Shaka said:I believe with a mistake like this where nothing terrible happened, It's best to learn from it and move on. No point needlessly dwelling on the past. It was definitely a dumbass move. But hey that's just what I think.
What list?Shaka said:You know nothing about me. You know nothing about whether drink driving has affected my life or not. Never once did I say "lol it's just drinking" if that's what you're implying. The fact of the matter is she fucked up, she had a stupid moment. She could've killed someone but she didn't. She must definitely pay for her mistakes, she should walk away with a lesson learned. But the number of people in this thread acting like they're better than her, calling her bitch and whatnot and telling the OP to dump her are just...pathetic to say the list. Truthfully I don't even know what the fuck I'm arguing about, I hate it when people drink and drive. It's fucking selfish.
(And no I don't know about drink driving laws in the states.)
I'm minimising the consequences? Sorry, didn't mean to do that.Zaptruder said:By minimizing the consequences, we reduce our ability to learn from actions.
That's on a need to know basis dood.Wrath2X said:What list?
Anyway I'm sure it was just a mistake, we all make them. She'll learn from them and move on.
Well I need to know, so there.Shaka said:That's on a need to know basis dood.
GTFO with that shit shiningwhiteknightGAF.Deku said:girlfriend appears to have found her solution to shirk responsibility
If she gets drunk and kills someone next time around, consider yourself an accomplice.
Sealda said:What is wrong with USA?
missbreedsiddx said:Driving drunk is a stupid reckless mistake, but calling his girlfriend a bitch is uncalled for.
BloodySinner said:I strongly believe a zero tolerance for drinking and driving should be in place. However, I'm pretty sure the majority of AlcoholicGAF will disagree.