How do you mean?Alright, then how is it rewired, and how do you not, well, enjoy yourself during 'the journey' without screwing up whatever it is you say need to be rewired?
It's just another way of saying "don't pound away like a jack-hammer chasing your orgasm". Focus only on the sensation and the enjoy the moment. Don't chase the end goal. Don't scratch the itch, basically.Also, is fucking inherently different from love-making, in that it is more or less passionate? I assume you mean doing it for the sake of it, but once again, why isn't that just another way to cultivate a relationship with your partner?
But really, if at all possible, just give your partner amazing head and be done with it. If they're understanding, they'll be cool with that.
This isn't about "masturbation and porn are evil". They aren't. Post my 'reboot', I now use porn and masturbate. Nothing wrong with it. This is all about if you have a problem and how to fix it.Animals masturbate. Are we different?