How to participate on NeoGAF during high volume, high tension circumstances
-Don't attack people for their positions, attack the positions. If someone says something you disagree with, disagree with the argument and describe its shortcomings, don't attack the person presenting the argument. No matter how inflammatory an argument is, if they're justifying it and you're responding with a "you're a moron," you're likely going to get banned, not them.
-If you're presenting an inflammatory argument, justify it, but don't derail a thread around yourself. Holding an inflammatory minority opinion may lead to strong reactions, and for good reason. If you're not justifying yourself, you may be banned for drive-by trolling, but you can also go too far in the other direction by trying to justify yourself to everyone else on NeoGAF separately, and not shutting up just because there are still people around wanting to argue with you. If 100 people respond to your point in the same way, address the point, not the mass of 100 people, or otherwise you're suddenly in 100 separate arguments and no other discussion is going to be possible in the thread. Say what you have to say, back it up appropriately, but then get out; don't dominate the discussion.
Banned Sites, Inappropriate posts, and memes
- Thread Whining / Respect to Others. It's not that "Haters gonna hate" is a banned meme, it's that it's often used to be flippant and dismissive to other posters. If someone is trying to explain what they think about something, either treat them with respect or don't reply at all. So when you post "u mad", "deal with it", "haters gonna hate", "the GAF hivemind", "the usual suspects", "but GAF said x and now they're saying y!!!", "entitled whiners" or anything else that suggests that you don't care what other people think, you may be banned if it is taking away from discussion. This is getting to be a pretty big problem, and it's probably the single largest category of bans these days. If you don't want to discuss something, you don't need to post.
- Console War. Obviously arguments about consoles, platforms, and publishers are going to get heated. Don't make things worse by calling out "xbots" or "ntards" or "fanboys" or "sdf" or "xdf" or insulting someone else by calling them one of those things. Clearly some people get a bit too attached, but the best thing you can do is try to improve conversation, not make it worse by dragging it down in the mud. It's also important to make sure you aren't getting too attached. If you find yourself getting super defensive about something or claiming that everyone other than you is "biased", chances are you should probably take a little break from the thread. Don't worry about calling out others--if moderators seem to be missing the thread, just call it to our attention via PM.