I didn't say men don't use feelings at all, or that women don't use logic. It is just weighted less in the decisions they make. Even for stuff that goes beyond relationships.
You say that although it's scientific fact.
So? Where are my receipts?
I didn't say men don't use feelings at all, or that women don't use logic. It is just weighted less in the decisions they make. Even for stuff that goes beyond relationships.
Let's hug it out bro.
Let's hug it out bro.
I haven't read the posts before this page, but you seem like you were deeply hurt,
and made a generalization as to how to act to all women from that point on. There is nothing wrong with that. It's part of your survival instincts.
I do disagree with the conclusions you drew though. There exists a woman, or more than one out there, who will love you and who won't lose their respect for you just because you cry in front of them.
The Odyssey said:there on the headland, sitting, still
weeping, his eyes never dry, his sweet life flowing away
with the tears he wept for his foiled journey home,
since the nymph no longer pleased.
The Aeneid said:"With sighs and tears I leave my native shore,
And empty fields, where Ilium stood before."
The Iliad said:"But the woman went with them reluctantly, whilst Achilles, weeping, immediately sat down, removed apart from his companions, upon the shore of the hoary sea, gazing on the darkling main"
Beowulf said:"Then kissed the king of kin renowned,
Scyldings chieftain, that choicest thane,
and fell on his neck. Fast flowed the tears
of the hoary-headed. Heavy with winters,
he had chances twain, but he clung to this,
that each should look on the other again,
and hear him in hall."
Le Morte d'Arthur said:"THEN Sir Launcelot sighed, and therewith the tears fell
on his cheeks, and then he said thus: Alas, most noble
Christian realm, whom I have loved above all other realms,
and in thee I have gotten a great part of my worship, and
now I shall depart in this wise."
I didn't say men don't use feelings at all, or that women don't use logic. It is just weighted less in the decisions they make. Even for stuff that goes beyond relationships.
A woman will not respect you as a man if you cry in front of her, unless she is your wife, mother or sister etc.
You are lying to yourself if you think this isn't true, its biological. Why would she want to have sex with a weak man who can't even handle himself or his own problems? How is he going to protect her and her potential children?
Word of advice, do not treat women as a monolith and use your anecdotal evidence to paint a wide brush on women as a whole and realize what this woman did to you was solely her own doing and it had nothing to do with her being a woman. Treat people as individuals regardless of gender.
I appreciate the support man. But my beliefs were reinforced after I was done with her. I have been much more successful in getting laid with the new knowledge I gained.
^^^^And maybe you should expand your anecdote beyond "women I slept with."
I appreciate the support man. But my beliefs were reinforced after I was done with her. I have been much more successful in getting laid with the new knowledge I gained.
I appreciate the support man. But my beliefs were reinforced after I was done with her. I have been much more successful in getting laid with the new knowledge I gained.
I appreciate the support man. But my beliefs were reinforced after I was done with her. I have been much more successful in getting laid with the new knowledge I gained.
The only negative consequences I have received has been the backlash I have gotten in this thread. It has helped me in the real world. Makes decision making quicker and easier when you have a reliable framework to paint someone with so you can anticipate their actions and be prepared.
PUAs are disgusting human beings.
A woman will not respect you as a man if you cry in front of her, unless she is your wife, mother or sister etc.
You are lying to yourself if you think this isn't true, its biological. Why would she want to have sex with a weak man who can't even handle himself or his own problems? How is he going to protect her and her potential children?
Until you have a moment of weakness and have no one to rely on
Yup, real men don't cry, it's just how it's always been...
Until you have a moment of weakness and have no one to rely on
The only negative consequences I have received has been the backlash I have gotten in this thread. It has helped me in the real world. Makes decision making quicker and easier when you have a reliable framework to paint someone with so you can anticipate their actions and be prepared.
The only negative consequences I have received has been the backlash I have gotten in this thread. It has helped me in the real world. Makes decision making quicker and easier when you have a reliable framework to paint someone with so you can anticipate their actions and be prepared.
PUAs are disgusting human beings.
The only understanding that one can glean from your incredibly narrow-minded view of women is that you inherently don't understand women in anyway shape or form.I have you, right gaf? Even tho we disagree we can still be understanding of each other's opinions.
I don't read the nonsense they come up with but I engineered my own solution that works for me. I don't purposefully hurt women or do any fucked up psycho shit like that.
I've read articles about how men tend to take break ups harder than women because they have little to no emotional support network. See it in action all the time on GAF. It honestly saddens me =/
I have you, right gaf? Even tho we disagree we can still be understanding of each other's opinions.
I've read articles about how men tend to take break ups harder than women because they have little to no emotional support network. See it in action all the time on GAF. It honestly saddens me =/
That's actually amazing. I've been triggered before by writing on the internet, but...... tears?I talked to one woman who didn't respect her boyfriend from crying.
He would consistency cry over hurtful reddit comments towards him.
i know this isn't adding anything of importance to the conversation, but if i had a boyfriend who also cried at stuff i'd be pretty happy because i always feel real silly when i cry at the end of games/movies/tv shows, even if society dictates it's okay for me to do so. i wouldn't have to feel dumb anymore because he'd get it!!
I saw my father cry once in my life.
It's something that's seared into my memory.
One of the most uncomfortable/stressful things I've ever witnessed.
Yup, real men don't cry, it's just how it's always been...
I didn't say men don't use feelings at all, or that women don't use logic. It is just weighted less in the decisions they make. Even for stuff that goes beyond relationships.
I don't read the nonsense they come up with but I engineered my own solution that works for me. I don't purposefully hurt women or do any fucked up psycho shit like that.
my bullies in elemental school (figuratively) stamped all the crying out of me when i was a kid
my teachers (and therefore parents) told me to try to stop crying because it was making me a target
Was going to mention something like this, the past is filled with literary works of leaders, kings and mythical heroes who've all shed tears for whatever reason.
Is this a recent thing? I grew up being taught that ''real men don't cry'' but the more I read the more I thought that was utter bull.
Same, it was when my mother was in the hospital and we thought we were going to lose her. My Dad's a pretty tough dude, so I'd never seen him just completely break like that before.
Me on the hand - I'm a naturally emotional person & while I wouldn't say I'm a frequent crier, I also don't hesitate to show my emotions. Last show or movie that me cry was the San Junipero episode of Black Mirror. My mom & I were both sobbing messes lol
Also I cry at sad bits in anime. Or happy bits as well.
The second episode of My Hero Academia is scientifically proven to make me teary. Every time, without fail.
Also I cry at sad bits in anime. Or happy bits as well.
What I think could be the reason is this- if you're a king or a hero, you're expected to be dealing with the heaviest of shit like saving the world. So it's okay for them to cry.
Alternatively it humanizes them so people can go "he's one of us"
I've only loved one woman and she crushed me like a bug. I showed her my softer and vulnerable side, and then she lost respect for me. She lost all of the attraction she had for me.
Maybe pointless seeing as you're banned, but I call bullshit on this.
Something else happened here, it's probably your general behaviour and possibly how you treated her, but instead of doing some introspection and assessing your behaviour, you've decided she dumped you because you were vulnerable (which is complete bullshit) around her and now use that to justify holding some extremely questionable opinions.
He usually move his head left to right has sign of disapproval and leave the room without saying anything XD
Fighting spirit I guess, someone that let it go in one rage scream and prepared to take action seems stronger to me than someone crying and doing nothing else.