CapNBritain
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Not, the Vietnamese population tend to live in other cities (Garden Grove, Westminster). We have a lot of Koreans, Chinese, and Taiwanese here (relatively speaking).
Orange County, the county, is pretty equally split, but as for specific ethnicity there's a pretty good "grouping" in each city.
& yeah, the whole Asian men are too controlling is always surprising for me to hear. I don't know any American-born Asian men that are like that at all, or even ones that were raised here in the US. I wonder if it's more of a new immigrant thing?
I had no idea that OC was like that. Pretty interesting and I bet studies done among its different Asian populations would yield amazing data.
I blame 90s TV for the feminization of Asian men. We were so used to being beaten with fly swatters that our hearts forever melted when we saw how a real (white) family interacted.
Fobs who have no clue what Full House is are simply the black-hearted monsters that Oriental culture has molded them into.
I have noticed this among some of my asian friends, quite the catch 22 huh?
Made for a confusing time in my 20s.
I don't really feel comfortable speaking about my experiences sometimes... �� cuz I tend to be guilty as charged on some things. Like preferring white men (during my rebellious years) and all that. Haha. iBad
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I'm going to assume that you discovered your love of women and Asians at the same time.
Interracial couples I know:
Vietnamese male, Japanese female
Bengali male, Chinese female
Indian male, Chinese female
White male, Chinese female
Chinese male, white female
It's a mix of first- and second-generation Asians, so upbringing/culture doesn't seem to matter much.
I don't think I have any racial preferences but almost all the girls I've dated have been Chinese, which probably is a result of the type of people I hang out with and online dating algorithms.
As a second-generation Chinese male, I don't think I could date a first-generation Chinese female due to a language/culture barrier. My Chinese is so bad.
Twinkies and Fobs are so distinct that they probably need to be represented as separate data entries. Of course, Asians encompasses everything from Indian to Chinese to Filipino, so maybe such fine granularity is asking too much. I suspect the numbers would look much different upon closer inspection.
So did you marry her because she is white?
He did it to pave the way for all Asian men. God bless you, brave soldier.
Maybe it's just peculiar to my area/generation. When I was in high school 50% of my class was from HK. It might be different for kids who were a lot younger when they came. But the area I live in (Markham/Richmond Hill is ~50% Chinese) with Asian shopping areas everywhere. In university clubs were also segregated east asian / everyone else
Is the new wave of Asian immigrants (specifically Chinese) not assimilating like the wave from the 80s did?