• Hey, guest user. Hope you're enjoying NeoGAF! Have you considered registering for an account? Come join us and add your take to the daily discourse.

LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

F

Frodo

Member
When you really like someone but you're both tops.



giphy.gif
 
F

Frodo

Member
Bladenic said:
Is nobody willing to try sitting on it?
Click to expand...

It is more like nobody actually likes doing it.

Aarglefarg said:
Or there are other things to do.
Click to expand...

Sure. And I'm okay with doing other stuff most of the time, to be honest, so it doesn't bother me much. But I can't imagine being with someone if they don't feel completely satisfied, or if I'm always going to second guess if I'm enough.

Golnei said:
Enlist a third party. Or improvise by buying something double-sided.
Click to expand...

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
 
C

chronos4590

Member
daripad said:
I'd say focus on dating the one you like the most.

Tbh, if your relationship with date 1 looks toxic, it might not get better tbh, specially since it has been only a year of doing it
Click to expand...
Im trying to figure this out also who I like and enjoy the most yet I feel like I'm reducing them to a "choice" which feels wrong and off to me

Yado said:
I'd go with guy #2,relationships aren't supposed to be stressful. Unless you and guy #1 have actually dealt with the problems that have prevented you from being together I don't see the point.
Click to expand...
Yeah the stress with the first guy is making it harder. We dealt with a lot of the problems and I don't mean to paint the first guy as a bad guy He's truly an amazing person though.

Bladenic said:
Something goes even slightly wrong and causes a little stress? It's over, time to hop on the apps again.

However, gay #2 sounds like the better pick in this case.
Click to expand...
I'm keeping this in mind also beause yeah I don't want to be the person that finds an issue and then runs away out of fear. My problem with the first guy is that we've had conflicts, we resolved them, and then the conflicts happen again due to the same issues ( like communication) so even when we say we resolve them it feels like they truly really haven't been or else it would've been squashed.

I wish the second guy lived a tad bit closer and showed a bit more affection like when we first met ( since it makes me doubt how serious he is, but then he'll invite me to personal things like our wedding date and a family BBQ and so far no issues)
I think I'm also like just being extra cautious because he's also insanely handsome and I'm still thinking this is a joke or idk how serious this truly is, but then we do stuff and its not..
think doubt is a big problem I have in general.

to make things worse guy 1 does know of guy 2 in my sight because when we went to the wedding and I said I was out at one he put two and two together. He doesnt know WHO he is or what he looks like though.
Guy 1 recently poured his heart out again and said to me that " if I realize you don't want to be in a relationship with me because you're in love with another guy then I don't know what I'm going to do.." and started crying intensely. He truly loves me, and to be frank I dont know why he loves me even more than before after all we've been though. Maybe thats why.. idk

I appreciate the replies so far.
I sound like a fuckboy and I'll accept that tbh. :/
 
P

Palmer27

Member
I'm sure it will right itself but who else put up with siblings/family acting jealous of your relationships?
I wonder whether it's more an at 19
just about
young adult thing of experiencing push-back from becoming independent
 
A

Alcoremortis

Member
There's this local theater group that performs horror plays in a nearby cemetery every year throughout the fall. Most are adaptations of short stories (they do a lot of Lovecraft) written specifically for the group and the space they have available. It's become a tradition of mine to go to a performance for my birthday.
 
U

umop_3pisdn

Member
Gibbs said:
If only I could have pizza. When I'm angry and upset like I am now I want to destroy myself, but I can't.

I'm 2 pounds away from my main weightloss goal.

Started at 300+
Main Goal - 150
Current - 152
Click to expand...

You could maybe go on a ketogenic diet and make fathead pizza. I've had some and it's pretty legit. It would mean giving up sugar, grains, starchy vegetables, and legumes though.
 
K

KmA

Member
Scruff is so interesting this hot daddy was talking to me for a minute then sent a screenshot of a plane ticket of the city where I live... like he was literally ready to fly over here to fuck.

This tells me two things:
1. He's loaded
2. He's crazy

Do the pros outweigh the cons???
 
Gibbs

Gibbs

Member
umop_3pisdn said:
You could maybe go on a ketogenic diet and make fathead pizza. I've had some and it's pretty legit. It would mean giving up sugar, grains, starchy vegetables, and legumes though.
Click to expand...

I could eat pizza if I chose to, but I'm extremely strict on myself and will easily pass. When I hit 150 i'll probably have pizza actually.
 
U

umop_3pisdn

Member
Gibbs said:
I could eat pizza if I chose to, but I'm extremely strict on myself and will easily pass. When I hit 150 i'll probably have pizza actually.
Click to expand...

I'm just saying that there are some fat loss diets that let you eat a lot of delicious fatty stuff, you just have to give up the carbs at the same time.
 
Gibbs

Gibbs

Member
umop_3pisdn said:
I'm just saying that there are some fat loss diets that let you eat a lot of delicious fatty stuff, you just have to give up the carbs at the same time.
Click to expand...

Oh true and I agree with what you are saying. Personally I am terrified of trying something different and then things go haywire with my diet. Oddly I found something that works and it's gone well.
 
V

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
KmA said:
Scruff is so interesting this hot daddy was talking to me for a minute then sent a screenshot of a plane ticket of the city where I live... like he was literally ready to fly over here to fuck.

This tells me two things:
1. He's loaded
2. He's crazy

Do the pros outweigh the cons???
Click to expand...
Let him shower you with gifts but never let him see where you live.💁

But really sounds crazy af be careful
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

  • Locked
FOX: Trans game developer launches first person shooter where players kill anti-trans villains, including priests. 'Terfenstein 3D'
2
70
6K
Faust replied
StudyInternational: Don’t be a J.K. Rowling. Combine your game degree (or any degree) with gender studies.
40
3K
Arioco replied
LGBTQIA+ |OT| This week's thread is sponsored by the letter...
2 3 4 5
229
17K
Meicyn replied
LGBT+ [OT]
2 3 4 5
232
26K
Star-Lord replied
Danish TV show that pairs kids and naked adults slammed as depraved
2
99
10K
G-Bus replied
Top Bottom