She deserves better.
You don't know that. She could be Theresa May.
She deserves better.
You don't necessarily have to act on your attractions.
OP's girl when hes on the dancefloor and when hes off the dancefloor
I take it that you're the kinda guy who will put up with literally anything because he's happy just to have a girlfriend, huh?
hahah the projection here is insane
If Im drunk and see another guy dancing with my girlfriend I usually start grinding against him to weird him out.
Lol what if he starts grinding back😂
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i still do not know how to correctly receive twerk
hahah the projection here is insane
Lol what if he starts grinding back😂
OP's girl when hes on the dancefloor and when hes off the dancefloor
Sounds like your culture has some serious problems with toxic masculinity, then.
Is there a buzzword for the female version of this? Like how one of my buddies had to have a shitty bachelor party since his fiance/wife gets jealous.
Right but man you never know what can happen.
I mean, when I was at the airport with my girl we hit up the bar past security and some dude had the audacity to buy a drink and have it sent to her when I was right there.
Then all of a sudden she left me outright, went over to him and ducked underneath his table and blew him like, right there. Then she went on a week long vacation with him, got knocked up, and here I am raising his kid.
All because I didn't like, pee on her to mark my territory of something.
This sort of thing happens. It's really real life. It can happen to you.
what the fuck
"Toxic masculinity" is comparing a man being upset with his girlfriend dancing with a stranger for 20 seconds to a woman feeling jealous about her fiancée paying to be surrounded by naked strippers
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i still do not know how to correctly receive twerk
She twerks on a fourth count, you kinda grind to the half count and maintain butt to dick contact (you can 2 step a bit or dip shuffle too). But I'm from New Orleans where twerking is a 20+ year activity and it is taken very seriously. YMMV depending on the ability of the twerker.
Edit: Might be an 8th and a 4th, shit, I don't know. I can't read music. Just...grind to every other beat that she's popping to lol
Right but man you never know what can happen.
I mean, when I was at the airport with my girl we hit up the bar past security and some dude had the audacity to buy a drink and have it sent to her when I was right there.
Then all of a sudden she left me outright, went over to him and ducked underneath his table and blew him like, right there. Then she went on a week long vacation with him, got knocked up, and here I am raising his kid.
All because I didn't like, pee on her to mark my territory of something.
This sort of thing happens. It's really real life. It can happen to you too, OP.
That's one of many ways to give examples of it.
Another is the idea that a guy should be upset/jealous with his girlfriend dancing with a stranger for 20 seconds at all to begin with.
That very notion is toxic masculinity, without needing to compare it to anything else.
If that makes me toxic, then so be it. If not being ok with my partner dancing with other men is a sign of masculinity, then I'm the manliest guy there is. That shit isn't ok, and if you're cool with your girl dancing with other men, then I wish you two all the best of luck in the future.
Again, would you dance with other women in front of your girlfriend?
Club grinding is sexual, even if it's also just fun, (I assume that's what the OP was talking about, the kind of dance where you're basically rubbing up against each other with clothes on.)
I've literally never had a girl I was with dance with other dudes while we're out. That doesn't make any sense to me.
yo like real talk
i still do not know how to correctly receive twerk
I live in Atlanta, so the average skill level may vary widely depending on where you are. see the issue is that i'm relatively tall. so most girls will initiate the twerk, but basically be grinding on my thighs, which only contains a fraction of my 12" Gaffian phallice
Which means I have to actually change how I stand, which isn't easy, since there's already so much space as it is
Which is just made even more difficult by the girl herself...you know, the one who just wants to throw her hair back and go crazy, vs. the one that will try for a while until she realizes she's bad at it and will just switch to something else, vs. the girl who's literally trying to knock you off balance with her ass, which is surprisingly easy to do considering my high center of gravity
its a science lol
edit:
oh and when they are REALLY into it and start feeling themselves, they'll start tryna do fancy shit like dipping to the ground or whatever. Now the effort is indeed sexy, but now you're literally approaching my knees and even if I were dipping down to reach you all bets are off now and i just have to wait for you
Some people enjoy dancing with a variety of people for the fun of dancing. I dont get this attitude that dancing with someone inherently signals romantic or sexual interest. Maybe thats the only reason some of you dance, but dont project that on others.
I love dancing, and dance in physically intimate ways with a lot of people when I go out, but I dont want to fuck every person I dance with. Its just a way to socialize.
OP needs to lighten up and realize not everything his girlfriend does while out is about him, nor is it a signal of interest in someone else.
Where exactly do you think Bowser Jr. came from?
Why aren't you dancing with random woman? Capitalize on that situation.
So dancing like dancing? Or she grinding her ass on some other dudes dick
Right but man you never know what can happen.
I mean, when I was at the airport with my girl we hit up the bar past security and some dude had the audacity to buy a drink and have it sent to her when I was right there.
Then all of a sudden she left me outright, went over to him and ducked underneath his table and blew him like, right there. Then she went on a week long vacation with him, got knocked up, and here I am raising his kid.
All because I didn't like, pee on her to mark my territory of something.
This sort of thing happens. It's really real life. It can happen to you too, OP.
Or OP is over reacting a bit. Cool off. The way you handle these kinds of things can make you look better or worse. This...ain't gonna end with you looking better unless you shrug it off.
Next time she dances with someone ask if you could use the phone briefly to call someone saying your battery is dead, then call yourself. Now you know who they are and you can track them down.
/S, see that other thread
If that makes me toxic, then so be it. If not being ok with my partner dancing with other men is a sign of masculinity, then I'm the manliest guy there is. That shit isn't ok, and if you're cool with your girl dancing with other men, then I wish you two all the best of luck in the future.
Again, would you dance with other women in front of your girlfriend?
I've seen this kind of horrible attitude turn to domestic violence so often it's not even funny.
I've seen this kind of horrible attitude turn to domestic violence so often it's not even funny.
Holy shit, you are defensive AF.
It might be best if you do break up with your GF. She deserves better.
hahah the projection here is insane
Ton of assumptions in this post:
1) that I called you toxic (I didn't)
2) that 'manly' is somehow laudable or immediately worth respecting
3) that your definition of what's acceptable matters
4) that I'm straight (I'm bi, so I could have a straight or gay relationship)
5) that I'm currently dating anyone
6) that you think I'm insecure enough to be with someone who overreacts to simple dancing the way you and the OP do
breh shut your ass upI've seen this kind of horrible attitude turn to domestic violence so often it's not even funny.
You guys are clowns and you know it
breh shut your ass up