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Is refusing to date people of certain races racist?

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mckmas8808

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Even having race preferences in partners is racist, though a more socially accepted form of racism because of how common it is w/ everyone.

I think this is a very narrow-minded view on what some people in this thread are actually saying.

Quick question..... Do you want to live in a colorblind Society?
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Conjecture: Segregation is a self perpetuating phenomenon as the isolation creates cultural rifts between the segregated peoples which in turn acts as a further barrier to them intermingling which in turn means they drift further and further apart by each generation.
Mhm.

Conjecture #2: Equality in rights does not equal equivalence. We differ from one another and classify one another as such, if it were not so, there would be no need to have this kind of discussion. This isn't limited to appearance of course. Humans have segregated themselves in arbitrary lineages and castes for years after all even within their own race.
Yes.

Conjecture #3: If you are raised in that environment, this kind of mentality is ingrained in you and you will develop preferences based on your early experiences. This will typically be a passive and not conscious effort, I don't think there is real malice intended and I think the expectations that people should date people they aren't attracted to is... Bizarre?
Mmm. We're getting into "product of environment" territory and this is kind of muddled because in some sense all racists are products of their environment, some of them intend significant malice, some don't. A conservative Christian who votes against gay marriage because of their adherence to scripture and the church but would happily befriend gays in person is not outright malicious but they do materially contribute to the oppression of gays.

In the sense that it was ingrained in me from a relatively young age to avoid areas that are predominantly black, and that my father was once the victim of a mugging by a black man, and that the same is true of at least two of my close friends. A third friend was sexually harassed on the train by, again, a black man. I've also been self-segregated to an extent, being Chinese and having always lived in, shall we say, "the good neighborhoods".

I've had very few positive experiences with black men in person and many negative ones. I could easily generalize this/internalize this to just swear off blacks as a group, either as platonic companions or romantic ones.

I do not, because I recognize the patterns of mental complacency and consciously resist it. I believe everyone has this responsibility in modern society, though they may not recognize it, or accept its burden.
 
Definition of

Racism:

1.a person who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another:

Discrimination:

3. the act, practice, or an instance of discriminating categorically rather than individually

Discriminate:

2. make an unjust or prejudicial distinction in the treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, sex, or age:

Prejudice:

1. preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience:

Your friend fits these definitions.

Can you provide a counter as to why you would think differently that is objective and not subjective.

Now let's look at actual experience. He could say well I dated 2 black woman and they all act the same. So by dating two black woman he concluded that 20,000,000 black woman are that way? Would he come to the same conclusion after dating 2 white woman that gave him a horrible experience that all 160,000,000 white woman are like that?
 
On the street I find some races more attractive on average, but that doesn't mean I find everyone part of any race unattractive. At the end of the day all I have is a preference towards pretty people and as such I will date people I find pretty regardless of race.
 

Pizza

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Refusal is yes. Acknowledging you have a type or preference of attraction is one thing. Refusal simply based upon skin color is by definition racist.


Yeah, this. I have my preferences but not any prejudices. I'm not overly attracted to most people /in general/ it's not at all a race thing
 
That's what I'm saying. I created this thread as a social experiment to see how gaf would react to it. The reactions have been interesting. The funniest thing is that the whole scenario was made up.

To be frank that sounds more like baiting than a social experiment. If you wanted to see how gaf reacts you could have searched for one of the numerous threads on this exact subject.
However I will not dispute that peoples opinions, no matter how far right or left, are interesting and provoking.
 
No. Not at all. Sometimes it's about culture and wanting to be with someone that shares that intimate experience with you.

Doesn't make someone racist. Thinking some people are inferior due to ethnicity is racist.
 

Seesaw15

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That's what I'm saying. I created this thread as a social experiment to see how gaf would react to it. The reactions have been interesting. The funniest thing is that the whole scenario was made up.

How sad is your life OP?

Edit:
*Looks at past Supast4r threads.*
As someone who has gone through a lot in the past few years. (graduating super late due to mental illness, having a job that pays me very little for the work that I do, living with my parents until I can find a job that actually pays me while I work this one, not having any good fortune with the opposite sex, Trump being president, all the racism that I have to deal with on a daily basis as a black male, etc.), I was just seeing if there are others out there who are truly happy with their life. How many are you are out there?

Yep makes sense.
 

D i Z

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That's what I'm saying. I created this thread as a social experiment to see how gaf would react to it. The reactions have been interesting. The funniest thing is that the whole scenario was made up.

Called that a while ago, but this ain't about you and your see thru bullshit (like this last post) anymore.
 

Not

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That's what I'm saying. I created this thread as a social experiment to see how gaf would react to it. The reactions have been interesting. The funniest thing is that the whole scenario was made up.

Might wanna read those GAF ToS one last time
 

Bronx-Man

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Lmao I've never seen this before. But yeah, OP you don't have anything else better to do than fake racist stories? Lowkey sad.
LOWKEY????

Well, it would be "lowkey" if it were true.
More likely, the OP is the "friend" in their post, and they're just playing it off now.


If not he can be tagged with something like "See guys! I was only pretending to be stupid and racist!"

That tag would fit well.
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Well, it would be "lowkey" if it were true.
More likely, the OP is the "friend" in their post, and they're just playing it off now.

I would've stuck with the friend story like why would you call out attention to yourself like this?

But trolls are morons so whatever.
 
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