I've been slowly moving myself to "stud" status over the year.
Left pics - June, 2011, 210 pounds.
Right pics - April 2012, 202 pounds.
here yah go...
I've been slowly moving myself to "stud" status over the year.
Left pics - June, 2011, 210 pounds.
Right pics - April 2012, 202 pounds.
Height is supposed to help in life? I guess I'm living in a different universe.
It's not exactly a big secret that the bulk of society treats taller people with more respect. This isn't as applicable for women, but short guys are - and pardon the literal pun - really looked down on.
I was a short, chubby, awkward kid. As an almost-middle-age adult, I'm still very short, still in poor shape despite years of trying to lose my gut, but at least I'm not as awkward these days. Now I just have a host of other seemingly insurmountable issues... Would be nice to go back, say, 15 years and "reset" myself for a second try.
Have you ever been labeled unattractive
only to end up a stud later?
You sound like one of them ugly people.If you label yourself a stud then you probably turned into a jerk. Just saying.
Yes, my body changed. I worked hard for it. But I didn't change. The world around me changed.
I always thought I was a mega dork at school but I keep finding out that girls used to have crushes on me, not any more though.
If you label yourself a stud then you probably turned into a jerk. Just saying.
Yes, my body changed. I worked hard for it. But I didn't change. The world around me changed.
The good news is that I think there is some sort correlation between being a dork or geek and having a big dick.
I used to be. Now I'm sure I'm normal enough to not to be called that. But as I said, I didn't change. Gaining confidence doesn't mean I have to apply a superiority/inferiority aspect into my life.You sound like one of them ugly people.
I just don't like people who think they're superior in some way. Everyone has their good points. Everyone can improve. There can be good changes and there can be bad changes.It's like you are implying that change is bad?
Normal enough? So ugly people aren't normal? Are you saying you're better than me? Wow you're a jerkI used to be. Now I'm sure I'm normal enough to not to be called that. But as I said, I didn't change. Gaining confidence doesn't mean I have to apply a superiority/inferiority aspect into my life.
I just don't like people who think they're superior in some way. Everyone has their good points. Everyone can improve. There can be good changes and there can be bad changes.
I just don't like people who think they're superior in some way. Everyone has their good points. Everyone can improve. There can be good changes and there can be bad changes.
Back then they didn't want me, still not hot, and they still not on me.
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I know you're trying to be funny, but I'm not enjoying this. When I used to be fat and small (200+ pounds @ 5") and hear conversations discussing ugly people, it would imply me. Now when I hear it, it wouldn't apply to me, but I would still get aggravated by such a conversation, because it makes some people miserable for narcissistic reasons.Normal enough? So ugly people aren't normal? Are you saying you're better than me? Wow you're a jerk
Oh yeah, I'm not saying that. If you're overweight, try your best to lose that weight in a healthy manner. But I'm not the one who's going to say that that person is ugly in any way. But if they decide they want to lose weight, I will encourage them.Well sure. I just see a lot of the "apaptation and changing are for the weak" mentality in people. It's just fear and lack of confidence and it pisses me off when it gets spread around like herpes.
The good news is that I think there is some sort correlation between being a dork or geek and having a big dick.
Probably not the thread for you, no? Let people celebrate their improvements and call themselves studs if they want to. Unless there are people in here saying they are now superior to ugly people now, I don't think your high horse is warranted. My opinion.I know you're trying to be funny, but I'm not enjoying this. When I used to be fat and small (200+ pounds @ 5") and hear conversations discussing ugly people, it would imply me. Now when I hear it, it wouldn't apply to me, but I would still get aggravated by such a conversation, because it makes some people miserable for narcissistic reasons.
You should write a book on this method in this exact same manner.All of you who consider themselves unattractive should hit the gym and pick up all the weights and put them down again. It owns, and with every pound of muscle you gain your confidence will go up. And after a while you get girls complimenting your legs or arms and you will be like ''hell yeah baby'' and go and have awesome sex with them. True story.
I'm telling you guys, clothes make the man. If you're dressed nicely and well bathed the only thing you need to be attractive after that is a palpable aura of confidence.
Nothing makes a difference in sexy like being someone who is confident. Confidence is not however the same as egotism. Come off acting full of youself or talk a lot about yourself and your dead where you stand. Also don't be crude. Talk like you have enough respect for someone not to either say something gross or opinionated to the point of sounding like a ragin asshole over various things. Listen, smile, and sound confident and unafraid of what others may think when you talk. Speak in a manner that is reassuring and playful and if conversation moves to things you don't go for joke about how its not your thing and respect that others can like something you dont. Do this and you are the man.
Pay attention to the person you meet and not to your inner thoughts. You panic and "whats his problem" is all anyone thinks of and no one wants to find out. You sound confident and "this guy is fun" is what they will think. If you dressed the part by this point you've reached sexy level.
Think about it...90% of those rich popular dudes in school growing up had the girl. Most weren't even that attactive. It was because they were confident and dressed nice. The ones that lacked confidence or who were crude jerks lost the girl everytime. The ones who didn't kept them.
Its as simple as that. Don't overcomplicate things for yourself.
You definitely have to lose that neckbeard.I've been slowly moving myself to "stud" status over the year.
Left pics - June, 2011, 210 pounds.
Right pics - April 2012, 202 pounds.
He has to get rid of pretty much everything in the picture. Its actually the perfect example of Doing It Wrong.You definitely have to lose that neckbeard.
I'm working towards it right now. Wouldn't call my self a stud but at least a few ranks up on where I was.
Haha, it's hard to imagine you as the "angry moon," either, sheesh.
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I'm working towards it right now. Wouldn't call my self a stud but at least a few ranks up on where I was.
Haha, it's hard to imagine you as the "angry moon," either, sheesh.
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I just noticed your avatar is upside down. Has it always been like that?Sigh, I'm still unattractive
I just noticed your avatar is upside down. Has it always been like that?
I also can't read your tag very well, this isn't looking good for you.Yes, do you think that's part of it?
In lieu of the fashion comments above, ditch the bow, it's out of styleYes, do you think that's part of it?
In lieu of the fashion comments above, ditch the bow, it's out of style
I've been slowly moving myself to "stud" status over the year.
Left pics - June, 2011, 210 pounds.
Right pics - April 2012, 202 pounds.
My feelings as well. I'm not the best dresser but a change of clothes can make a huge difference. Ditch the beard. If that's how you wanna dress though then whatever, that's coolOh boy. You know, im all for being yourself and dressing the way you like. But the problem with your choices is that they're probally the most horrible ones ever.
Im pretty sure you would look a thousand times better with a good shave and different clothes. And if you ever want to get laid again, dont post those pictures on Facebook, trust me.
Swords and sunglasses really?