30 seems pretty high
That's not what I typed, though.
Just a heads up all you gaffers.
What you do in bed with your SO, cumin on her face, filling her mouth, ass, vagina, pulling her thong so hard that it snaps, she has probably done it with all the other different chaps... and enjoyed it!
The whole idea that someone who has slept with lots of people can't ever be in a committed relationship is absolutely absurd.
You do realize that sex is different with everyone, right? Even with someone who has multiple partners. Humans like sex. It feels good. So we like to do it. I've been with a number of women, and I've also been in committed relationships (two of them were 5 years each) in which I've never been unfaithful.
So just because I enjoy casual sex in between relationships means that I can't form a healthy and faithful relationship? That's fucking ridiculous.
Even hookups can feel different. I have a really good girl friend that I've been friends with for years. Whenever we're single, we hook up. We don't date, and we have an understanding . That's a casual hookup, and I care deeply about her.
There's also the reverse here that people saying it's gross are putting a spectacular spin on the meanings of sex. So you're going to be with someone forever just because you have sex with them? What if you like them, start dating, sleep with them and then find out you don't like them anymore (or God forbid they don't like you!). Stop the sex with anyone else because it's gross?
I understand people have different morals and values, but I'll go ahead and put my "blanket statement" on it: In my experience, the people who have this kind of view are insecure, young or just shy and instead of accepting this, they convey this "slut shaming" as an outlet for their jealousy.
30 dudes each one breaking a pair of underwear. If I was the girl I'd just stop wearing underwear. Sounds expensive and dangerous.
30 dudes
It's not even 30. It's 30 "+", whatever the hell that means. She's 24, and assuming she started getting knocked down in her late teens, that's like a different penis every 3 months. Tell your friend to run, OP.
It's not even 30. It's 30 "+", whatever the hell that means. She's 24, and assuming she started getting knocked down in her late teens, that's like a different penis every 3 months. Tell your friend to run, OP.
It's not even 30. It's 30 "+", whatever the hell that means. She's 24, and assuming she started getting knocked down in her late teens, that's like a different penis every 3 months. Tell your friend to run, OP.
Right, and from your experience, sexually active college kids are not the pinnacle of "maturity", presuming you're equating maturity to using protection.Only it is.
Number of partners doesn't have to have jack to do with sexual health. Maturity does.
30 seems pretty high
It's not even 30. It's 30 "+", whatever the hell that means. She's 24, and assuming she started getting knocked down in her late teens, that's like a different penis every 3 months. Tell your friend to run, OP.
Well I have an extremely average sized dick, you might even call it slightly below average -
So of course I am insanely worried about the number of sexual partners any girl I sleep with had.
The more guys she banged prior to me the higher the chance she screwed with bigger toys.
I might not act so insecure about the sexual past of a girl, if I had a bigger dick, but fact is my penis is just that tiny.
Obviously I also worry about porn she might have consumed as the average porn wang is 2-4 inches above the national average size. (the more you know)
It makes me feel really inadequate.
So does any object larger than a particulary small pencil.
So the next time a man is worried about the number of his SO's past sexual encounters please dont kneejerkingly jump to the conclusion he is bigoted or even a sexist.
No. Just assume he has a tiny tiny dick.
Like me.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.She's 24. How is that high?
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
Ten is the average!? I think I need to take a hot shower I might be a whore.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
You wanna back that up with some numbers ?
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
Ten is the average!? I think I need to take a hot shower I might be a whore.
You and me both brother. I'm a male whore
You wanna back that up with some numbers ? I concider myself an easy going guy who happens to stumble into things, and stumbling into 10+ vagina's has been an effortless excercise so far. Seriously.
Just a heads up all you gaffers.
What you do in bed with your SO, cumin on her face, filling her mouth, ass, vagina, pulling her thong so hard that it snaps, she has probably done it with all the other different chaps... and enjoyed it!
I managed to read a few pages and this thread is somewhat odd. Basically it is a bunch of people arguing for a "right" answer for something that is inherently an opinion. I don't sleep around and never did even in college. Yes I have turned down anonymous sex before with girls at parties. It isn't my style. The number of girls I've slept with is four. I don't wear it as a badge of shame nor do I gloat about it. It is simply who I am. If I'm not in a relationship with the girl nor if I see a relationship with her going somewhere I don't engage in sex with them. Again, this is who I am. It is something I hold valuable. It is something I'd look for in a future partner. It doesn't mean I judge or "shame" girls who sleep around -- I just have no interest in dating someone who trivializes sex with others. It means something to me and I didn't want to make it less by constantly sleeping around. Again, that is me. That is not gospel for everyone. If someone is bothered by the number of sexual partners their BF/GF has had I fully get it. If someone doesn't care about that number I see that side of the argument as well. There is no "right" answer here. There are only right answers on a per person basis.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
im not the person you quoted but i like you too
Of course, everyone has the right to choose whatever they want in their partners. Really when we boil it down, everything is personal when it comes to choosing a partner. I mean we can criticize somebody if they are racist, superficial, materialistic, etc but in the end it doesn't really matter because you can't define nor control who other people should be attracted to. And in the end everything goes, from feet to finger nails, there's really no way you can change what people are attracted to. And it's not even fair to say they are wrong, however you can form your own opinion of them because of it, and that is fair.
In the end though, it is a fact that by having such a narrow and selective attitude, you are most certainly depriving yourself of meeting amazing girls. Not only that, you might even be limiting your own growth.
I simply don't see how being so close minded is an advantage at all, and wouldn't be surprised if one day it backfired on you and someone you really want rejected you because of it.
So the fact that some people get diseases despite having a small number of partners invalidates the scientific finding that a higher number of partners correlates with a higher likelihood of catching an infection?This is not a legitimate worry at all.
I worked in an STD prevention clinic while in college, and I can't tell you how many cases of "b-b-but I've only been with 1-2 people!" we got.
The second you start having sex you're at risk, and it's incredibly foolish to think that perceived number of partners is any sort of protection.
You can shout "I don't buy this!" or you can read up.Less than 10 in a LIFETIME?! What the fuck. That is insane. There's no way that's true.
Truthfact, I would rather know my GF slept with 10 guys in a month than knowing she willingly fucked her cousin at a funeral.
Know what I'm sayin?
Of course, everyone has the right to choose whatever they want in their partners. Really when we boil it down, everything is personal when it comes to choosing a partner. I mean we can criticize somebody if they are racist, superficial, materialistic, etc but in the end it doesn't really matter because you can't define nor control who other people should be attracted to. And in the end everything goes, from feet to finger nails, there's really no way you can change what people are attracted to. And it's not even fair to say they are wrong, however you can form your own opinion of them because of it, and that is fair.
In the end though, it is a fact that by having such a narrow and selective attitude, you are most certainly depriving yourself of meeting amazing girls. Not only that, you might even be limiting your own growth.
I simply don't see how being so close minded is an advantage at all, and wouldn't be surprised if one day it backfired on you and someone you really want rejected you because of it.
Oh please, wake up. What is this? The 40s? lol
You act like the first thing I ask a girl when I meet them is how many dude's they've bedded. I didn't miss out on missing anyone because I'll get to know someone and figure out if we're compatible. Generally I found myself not compatible with girls who sleep around. I mean at a party you pretty much know who the easy girls are and they're always the ones being loud, annoying and always demanding attention from the entire room. Just not the kind of people I like to be around. That isn't to say every girl who sleeps around is like that. I honestly have no idea how many guys my fiance has slept with and it doesn't matter to me. We're compatible. Knowing her and her personality it probably isn't that many, though. But many guys are just fixated on getting their dick in vagina that they don't even really care if they actually like the person on the receiving end or not. And that is cool if you don't care and view sex differently than I view it. But I don't think not giving into every desire I have somehow makes me "narrow minded." I also don't go around punching every person who annoys me even though I'd like to.
This is nonsense. So if you don't sleep around with random people you won't meet amazing girls and limit your growth? Get the fuck outta' here with that shit! What if you meet an amazing girl, get to know her, date her then sleep with her and decide you want to be exclusive with her. Your're somehow less mature than somebody who fucked a bunch at parties!? Rubbish!
Edit: Actually I feel the exact opposite is true. The friends I have that "get around" and don't get into serious relationships, are actually much less mature than those of us who have chosen to not hook-up with every random girl who is "down to fuck" at a party. We also don't have the shame of screwing people we wouldn't be caught dead with in public the morning after.
Logical! I love it!It is just an opinion no more... If I were you I will break up with her cuz 30+ means that girl is cheap. In my opinion 3 or 4 men is more logical.
It is just an opinion no more... If I were you I will break up with her cuz 30+ means that girl is cheap. In my opinion 3 or 4 men is more logical.
In the case that you are serious, how would you describe a man that has 30+? A man that normally gets one girl a month for a period of 2 and a half years?
It's times like these that I think of some important words from the artist and poet Jay-Z
"Ladies is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off."
I'm only 20% joking when I say those lines are the greatest influence on the way I treat and react to women.
Those averages are across the whole spectrum. If you've been to university, and you're relatively good looking. You can sleep with a different person every time you go out.
Those averages are across the whole spectrum. If you've been to university, and you're relatively good looking. You can sleep with a different person every time you go out.