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How many sexual partners for girls is too many?
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I wonder if people would feel that way if we humans had an extra set of fingers or toes?
Only it is.
Number of partners doesn't have to have jack to do with sexual health. Maturity does.
30 dudes each one breaking a pair of underwear. If I was the girl I'd just stop wearing underwear. Sounds expensive and dangerous.
Pretty much this.
See, then it is a good thing she has been with 30 dudes, nothing hotter then a pantieless girl!
Alligatorjandro
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breakfuss
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It's not even 30. It's 30 "+", whatever the hell that means. She's 24, and assuming she started getting knocked down in her late teens, that's like a different penis every 3 months. Tell your friend to run, OP.
I managed to read a few pages and this thread is somewhat odd. Basically it is a bunch of people arguing for a "right" answer for something that is inherently an opinion. I don't sleep around and never did even in college. Yes I have turned down anonymous sex before with girls at parties. It isn't my style. The number of girls I've slept with is four. I don't wear it as a badge of shame nor do I gloat about it. It is simply who I am. If I'm not in a relationship with the girl nor if I see a relationship with her going somewhere I don't engage in sex with them. Again, this is who I am. It is something I hold valuable. It is something I'd look for in a future partner. It doesn't mean I judge or "shame" girls who sleep around -- I just have no interest in dating someone who trivializes sex with others. It means something to me and I didn't want to make it less by constantly sleeping around. Again, that is me. That is not gospel for everyone. If someone is bothered by the number of sexual partners their BF/GF has had I fully get it. If someone doesn't care about that number I see that side of the argument as well. There is no "right" answer here. There are only right answers on a per person basis.
evilernLeGG
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But what if it's a really good relationship? What if she really cares about him? What if she's the best person he's ever been with? What if they are really compatible? What if they could be together for a long time and be happy?
Oh, sorry, fuck that. I forgot that she slept with 30+ people.
To run to the pharmacy to get some condoms because this girl knows how to handle a dick. I mean most of us have only messed around with the one attached to us. She probably knows how to do things to a penis that none of us have ever even thought of.
Getting a lot of wang = loose vagina ? If you truly believe this, you are either too young to be in this thread anyway, or just kind of stupid. Vast volumes of dick might lead to more experience in controlling their vaginal muscles, either to relax or tighten them, but that is a good thing. It is in fact, most awesome, just as awesome as lots of puss often leads to good stamina for men.
Right, and from your experience, sexually active college kids are not the pinnacle of "maturity", presuming you're equating maturity to using protection.
Besides, I was going at it from an "all sex is an inherent risk" angle - "safe" sex doesn't guarantee 100% protection. More partners = increased risk.
PorcellainThrill
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Well I have an extremely average sized dick, you might even call it slightly below average -
So of course I am insanely worried about the number of sexual partners any girl I sleep with had.
The more guys she banged prior to me the higher the chance she screwed with bigger toys.
I might not act so insecure about the sexual past of a girl, if I had a bigger dick, but fact is my penis is just that tiny.
Obviously I also worry about porn she might have consumed as the average porn wang is 2-4 inches above the national average size. (the more you know)
It makes me feel really inadequate.
So does any object larger than a particulary small pencil.
So the next time a man is worried about the number of his SO's past sexual encounters please dont kneejerkingly jump to the conclusion he is bigoted or even a sexist.
No. Just assume he has a tiny tiny dick.
Like me.
So of course I am insanely worried about the number of sexual partners any girl I sleep with had.
The more guys she banged prior to me the higher the chance she screwed with bigger toys.
I might not act so insecure about the sexual past of a girl, if I had a bigger dick, but fact is my penis is just that tiny.
Obviously I also worry about porn she might have consumed as the average porn wang is 2-4 inches above the national average size. (the more you know)
It makes me feel really inadequate.
So does any object larger than a particulary small pencil.
So the next time a man is worried about the number of his SO's past sexual encounters please dont kneejerkingly jump to the conclusion he is bigoted or even a sexist.
No. Just assume he has a tiny tiny dick.
Like me.
Can Crusher
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She's 24. How is that high?
What?
Jesus christ man, live a little for christ sakes. Ugh
captainnapalm
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I wouldn't mind being no 31 in some situations. Marriage probably wouldn't be one of them, though.
Big dick doesn't automatically get you women, and many women actually don't like bigger dick because their vag is too shallow and they're not into cervix punching, or other reasons.
Don't worry about your dick size. Dudes with micropenis have women.
When the average for men/women in their lifetimes is less than 10, 30 at 24 is definitely high.
Ten is the average!? I think I need to take a hot shower I might be a whore.
You wanna back that up with some numbers ? I concider myself an easy going guy who happens to stumble into things, and stumbling into 10+ vagina's has been an effortless excercise so far. Seriously.
You and me both brother. I'm a male whore
This is, by definition, statistics lagging the trends by 50 years. I have no idea how it could be relevant.
travisbickle
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Those averages are across the whole spectrum. If you've been to university, and you're relatively good looking. You can sleep with a different person every time you go out.
Ain't no shame, players do yo' thang
Just be sure you ahead of the game
Azzurri
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Sloots gonna Sloots bro.
Can Crusher
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Of course, everyone has the right to choose whatever they want in their partners. Really when we boil it down, everything is personal when it comes to choosing a partner. I mean we can criticize somebody if they are racist, superficial, materialistic, etc but in the end it doesn't really matter because you can't define nor control who other people should be attracted to. And in the end everything goes, from feet to finger nails, there's really no way you can change what people are attracted to. And it's not even fair to say they are wrong, however you can form your own opinion of them because of it, and that is fair.
In the end though, it is a fact that by having such a narrow and selective attitude, you are most certainly depriving yourself of meeting amazing girls. Not only that, you might even be limiting your own growth.
I simply don't see how being so close minded is an advantage at all, and wouldn't be surprised if one day it backfired on you and someone you really want rejected you because of it.
Oh please, wake up. What is this? The 40s? lol
Less than 10 in a LIFETIME?! What the fuck. That is insane. There's no way that's true.
Can Crusher
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Truthfact, I would rather know my GF slept with 10 guys in a month than knowing she willingly fucked her cousin at a funeral.
Know what I'm sayin?
Know what I'm sayin?
MemoryHumanity
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Haha, thanks!
You act like the first thing I ask a girl when I meet them is how many dude's they've bedded. I didn't miss out on missing anyone because I'll get to know someone and figure out if we're compatible. Generally I found myself not compatible with girls who sleep around. I mean at a party you pretty much know who the easy girls are and they're always the ones being loud, annoying and always demanding attention from the entire room. Just not the kind of people I like to be around. That isn't to say every girl who sleeps around is like that. I honestly have no idea how many guys my fiance has slept with and it doesn't matter to me. We're compatible. Knowing her and her personality it probably isn't that many, though. But many guys are just fixated on getting their dick in vagina that they don't even really care if they actually like the person on the receiving end or not. And that is cool if you don't care and view sex differently than I view it. But I don't think not giving into every desire I have somehow makes me "narrow minded." I also don't go around punching every person who annoys me even though I'd like to.
readLeader
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So the fact that some people get diseases despite having a small number of partners invalidates the scientific finding that a higher number of partners correlates with a higher likelihood of catching an infection?
You can shout "I don't buy this!" or you can read up.
maquiladora
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Meh, I don't think sex between cousins is a huge deal. Consenting adults from different parents, if people are happy so what? Not my cup of tea but I wouldn't vilify anyone because of it.
Fonz72
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This is nonsense. So if you don't sleep around with random people you won't meet amazing girls and limit your growth? Get the fuck outta' here with that shit! What if you meet an amazing girl, get to know her, date her then sleep with her and decide you want to be exclusive with her. You're somehow less mature than somebody who fucked a bunch at parties!? Rubbish!
Edit: Actually I feel the exact opposite is true. The friends I have that "get around" and don't get into serious relationships, are actually much less mature than those of us who have chosen to not hook-up with every random girl who is "down to fuck" at a party. We also don't have the shame of screwing people we wouldn't be caught dead with in public the morning after.
Can Crusher
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If you're the kind of guy that simply goes from relationship to relationship, and you're happy with it then good for you. All I'm saying is that in the same way you are judgmental of others, others will be judgmental of you.
That 30 seems pretty high for you when she's 24, speaks more about you than her. That's all I'm trying to convey to you.
I understand that reading comprehension is at an all time low in the world, but no that's not what I said. You came off as really insecure there.
What I said is that by having such a narrow minded view with the type of girls you would like to meet and date, you are boxing out a ton of women and the possibility of meeting some amazing ones. And in that sense you really are limiting your growth, because you are boxing yourself within your perceived standards. You reject to expand your experience past the ones you feel comfortable with by default.
Yeah, I knew the insecurity was coming from somewhere.
Sanky Panky
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In the case that you are serious, how would you describe a man that has 30+? A man that normally gets one girl a month for a period of 2 and a half years?
He must spend a lot in condoms.
But the question isn't for me, so I'll wait and watch.
Or from Drake, who bathes in milk and indulges in the softest, sensitive lotions:
"Women wanna fuck like they're me and I'm them"
This.
Just speaking from personal experience, but it was so easy to get laid in college (still us), and often you don't even realize it. You're just going out, having fun, meeting new people, and not being afraid to let things play out as they will.
There just seems to be this idea that people who engage in casual sex obsess over it, and I don't think that's the case. The vast majority of hook-ups I've had have been the result of hanging out with cool people that I vibed with and just letting things naturally progress. Heck, I'm more likely to hit up one of my good friends if I'm in the mood for just a straight up fuck. In all honesty, it seems like the people who place so much value on not having sex obsess over it more than the people who are actually out there getting laid.
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