So, Im a pornographer. I have written pornography, produced it, published it, edited it, sold it, bought it, reviewed it, modeled for it, narrated it, read it publicly, and performed in it.
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I am sick to death of hearing that feminists are sex-hating prudes because we dont want imagery of women in video games to be overwhelmingly sexual. Im sick of hearing that were sex-hating prudes because we want conferences to have rules and guidelines about sexual conduct at conferences, so people are not harassed and groped and assaulted against their will. Im sick of hearing that were sex-hating prudes because we think there are times and places where explicit sexual imagery is not appropriate [...]
The idea that sex-positivity and sexual liberation means everybody expressing every sexual thought and acting on every sexual desire, the minute it pops into our heads this is bullshit.
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Women in our culture, in case you havent noticed, are routinely reduced to purely sexual beings. We are routinely treated as if our brains, our talent, our imagination, our inspiration, are useless and trivial unless theyre applied to sex and sexual attractiveness. And the sexist treatment of women in STEM (science, technology, engineering, and math) is legendary, and very thoroughly documented.
So doing an interview about your teams big science achievement while wearing a shirt with scantily-clad pinup girls does not say, Sex is awesome! It says, Women are for sex.
Making video games where all or most of the female characters are helpless victims or scantily-clad sexual prizes does not say, Sex is awesome!