The "Hot Ryu" Meme: Sexiness vs. Sexual Objectification
This is a big article but Maddy is literally arguing for R. Mika to be fleshed out enough to get the "Hot Ryu" treatment.
"When people talk about "Hot Ryu," they humanize and personify him, because he is already treated like a human by the game and by society. But there is no meme about cuddling with R. Mika on the couch while watching Netflix with her, because she is perceived as a sex object, not a person. And that is really too bad! Because R. Mika would probably be a very hilarious and delightful girlfriend, based on what we know about her so far. Also, that meme sounds like it would be extremely cute!
Seriously? So snuggle fantasies 'humanize', but sexual fantasies 'dehumanize'? How convenient that falls completely in line with the very many studies that show mens fantasies tend to be explicit, whereas women's fantasies tend to be far more dependent upon emotional connection and romance [ie, snuggling on the couch]. So, hey, men, you are wrong. Stop fantasizing about booty and start thinking about neck rubs.
Worth noting, research also shows men tend to like visual stimulation, wheras women tend to like mental. That couldnt possibly explain why men might like porn mags or scantily clad babes while women love reading about orgies and more via romance novels, right? No, its just because men are wrong. Ignore romance novels, please, because thier complete and total objectification of men is a non-issue.
Heres one article, there are many more not to mention historical data on sales of porn, romance novels, film, and tv which highlight the differences.
https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2012/2/29/how-do-mens-and-womens-sexual-fantasies-differ.html
So you're saying its a double standard because no one is telling the woman dressing sexy not to dress sexy, but they are complaining about video game women being sexy? Do you understand though how one group is choosing to dress a certain way ("girls in IRL") and one is being presented as dressed a certain way? I noted in a previous comment that I like fanservice (though not in everything) so I assume I'm not the "they" you're talking about (well, I'm sure I partly am), but I think you're simplifying the position you're arguing against.
While i agree the pic he put up is in bad taste, its just a picture.
More important however, is that you are making a rather silly distinction between 'choosing' and 'being presented' and missing the much, much more important distinction of 'real person' verses 'booty pixels'. 1s and 0s.
Not to mention, this sudden importance of presentation seems an absurd and impossible standard to me in this modern world. Everything is presentation. Magazines, film, ads... everything is carefuly crafted presentation. And of -course- some presentation is intentionally sexy. I mean, would you want to live in a world where no artist could present 'sexy'? I sure as hell hope not. And given that, and given people get turned on by different things, doesnt it make sense we get some bikinis here and speedos there?
Since when did the hardcore religious right convert to being so-called progressives? Our artistic freedom has been fought for long and hard over the centuries. People have been executed for creating art some felt obscene or offensive. Sorry, but i'll take 'over sexualization' over prudish authoritarianism any day. This progressive movement claims to be on the right side of history but i'm pretty sure they failed history class or else they'd realize what team they are actually on.
This is coming from someone who doesnt even generally appreciate it [or at least, doesnt seek it out, ever]. My favorite genre is drpgs and i dearly wish they were all medieval like wizardry and bards tale, or even stranger of sword city and not anime or filled with fan service. But whatever, its just pixels.