Can't believe the Tony hate.
He is a billionaire philanthropist, Mr Avenger himself. His contribution to the MCU society FAR outweighs the rest. He fucking self-lessly took a nuclear arrow to his knee. You gotta forgive him for his stress, and the fact that he is the most remorseful among his peers for their collateral damage, shows how real a hero he is.
Unlike Steve, who simply brush aside and psychopath Wanda that collateral damage is part and parcel of their job, they have lost 1 but saved a 100. But of course by the end of CW, it shows up Capt as a fucking hypocrite. In his desire to save his old war buddy, he gives the L to society, brings his loyal friends along down the hell hole. Capt asking Hawkguy out of retirement is far far worse than Tony recruiting Spidey. Im sure Tony has tons of super-hero viewfinder cams across the globe. He can see Spidey stopping a flying car in mid air, and all he asked of Spidey is to stay back and webbed down Capt. How about Hawkguy? He is just mere mortal family man, with bows and arrows, and a newborn kid, why did Capt want him along to fight against the UN, cross path with Ironman, and then duke it out with 4 deadly Winter Soldiers? Cos' he is a selfish hypocrite, weakling and coward to do it himself.
Tony did not draft the accords, it is the world governments and they are coming right up the Avengers doorsteps(funded by Tony btw). A wise hero would think through and true, while a selfish daft would choose to punch his own ways around. Tony did the smart and right thing. He knows it is something that needs to be done now, but his character in MCU was never going to give away the Avengers rights. The ending of CW, Tony gave the middle finger to Ross, while the shitty Captain tried to take the higher ground by writing a snarky letter to Mr Stank.
Tony did not send out his Iron Men to hunt down Winter Soldier did he? If the tables were turned and Tony had killed WS, would Capt really decapitated Tony? I feel based on his MCU character arc, Capt would have done so and then.
Why did Tony and Capt acted this way? We just need to look at their growing up days. Tony lost his loving parents, he had to continue the Stark legacy on his own. He learnt of compassion and grief. What about Steve? He grew up being bullied and trolled, and his only relief was his BFF Bucky. No wonder he has that passive-aggressive streak, and his ingrained conscious is forever indebted to Bucky. In this way, he would rather save 1 Bucky and doomed the 100 others, which is what he went with. :/
People just loved Steve because of how prominent his passive side is during peace-talky times. However his actions are just of a selfish soldier out of his times. Capt is the hero the fans loved but do not deserved.
Tony might have a starky mouth, but the golden warmth of his heart keeps everyone snugly at night. #wubTony