So we've moved on from trying to figure out who's most to blame, Sony or the intruders to telling other people how they can and cannot feel about the situation?
Lets make this real simple ...
1. Criminals breached Sonys security and stole information.
2. Sony's security is a joke, its very much on their shoulders to secure consumers sensitive data. They failed on a catastrophic level.
3. 100 million+ users data was compromised.
1+2=3
Feel as you may about either, but in addition to the evil hackers ... Sony is very much to blame for lackluster infrastructure here. I would be just as pissed at my bank if thieves were to have easy access to my money and personal information.
As a consumer, every single last one of us is allowed to feel as we choose about either Sony or the hackers. We speak with our wallets and nobody here really has any justifiable reason to tell someone they can only blame the hackers or that Sony isn't to blame at all. I suspect though that most of the bickering still going on is a direct reflection of just how frustration Sonys customers are ... 2 and half weeks of complete failure and its starts to wear on people.
Gamers turning against gamers, instead of focusing attention on the real problem.