Shamrock7r
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I would imagine that's how most felt after reading such a stupid article lolexcuse me while I bash my head into a wall
I would imagine that's how most felt after reading such a stupid article lolexcuse me while I bash my head into a wall
From my experience with women, they consider it rather more "toxic" if the man has no regard at all for his partner's pleasure. This shit is ridiculous.
this is the way to be folks
congrats on the sex and good relationship
It's a strange conclusion to draw since you ask any guy if they feel a measure of masculine pride they're going to say yes. Primarily because it's considered masculine to be good at sex and secondary in order to FLEX or whatever term you want to use. If your primary motivator with sex is to make a woman orgasm for the purpose of self-adulation, then your issue is pathological.
I love it when my partner orgasms because it makes me feel awesome and it makes her feel awesome and she's awesome and we're awesome together. How is this bad? This is the dumbest thing I've ever read.
Okay but did any of ya'll actually read the article?
It states that there's nothing wrong with giving a woman an orgasm, the results of heightened masculinity are problematic because there's a deep seated cultural belief that without men, women cannot orgasm. My lesbian friends always get asked how they make each other orgasm, this is absolutely a problem wherein men try to form stupid conclusions about "owning" female orgasms as their own.
Hold the damn phonemen derive satisfaction and pleasure from making their partners climax? Absolutely disgusting.
Somebody has to stop these sick pigs, even if it means storming their bedrooms and manually removing their jackhammering members from their orgasmic victims.
Orgasms are amazing and we should all strive to give more of them to our partners, no matter the gender.
Get fucked Cosmo.
I've not achieved this level of woke.
It's not that deep fam.
Enjoy it, but don't enjoy it like this cause that's bad, you have to enjoy it like [this].
at first I thought this was crazy writing but after reading through the thread lots of posters have seen a point of the article I did not on first read. Don't make the sex about you and your ability to give her an O or your inability to. Sex is not like donating to charity. be glad that she feels good, don't feel like you granted her the gift of an orgasm.
at first I thought this was crazy writing but after reading through the thread lots of posters have seen a point of the article I did not on first read. Don't make the sex about you and your ability to give her an O or your inability to. Sex is not like donating to charity. be glad that she feels good, don't feel like you granted her the gift of an orgasm.
Same. Cumming is nice and all but come on I've cummed so many times, its kind of samey. But seeing her cum (preferably from me going down on her) never gets old. Arousing, satisfying and I feel it makes me feel more masculine - I can make my partner feel good. Its also nice when she comes from masturbating when we have sex. Nice because I love when she feels good, and also nice because it also means she enjoys the sex we're having, just like I am.I actually enjoying when she cums more than when I do. Us guys only get a few seconds of orgasm. It's all about the journey.
You sure YOU read the article? Or did you just want to come in here and write stuff in all caps about how people in here hate feminism? Cause the article isn't good. See my first post in this thread.Alright, let~s be honest, how many in this thread have actually read the article? Because I was going "What? Idiots!" at first, too, since those awful anti-feminism men's-right-activist sites used it as the most recent "FEMINISM AND SEXISM IS FUCKING RIDICULOUS, AMIRIDE BOYS? Look at what they are going on with about now!"
But actually, that study is pretty interesting. Because it finds that most men don't actually want to see their sexual partners orgasm because they want them to feel the pleasure, but mainly because they want to feel accomplished and more "like a man". It's not about their partner, it's about themselves. It's a show of masculinity and it's ultimately about himself, turning the female orgasm into somethingthing having to be achieved and claimed by men.
How is that not worth talking about at all? Or rather: How is reporting on this so fucking awful and inexcusable? I'm of the opinion that pleasuring your partner has to be number one, the study makes a point of saying that most men actually care more about pleasuring their own ego.
Yeah I'm not going to let Cosmo's masturbatory philosophies about feminist discourse get in the way of pursuing orgasm. Third Wave Feminism was a mistake. And I say this as a staunch feminist.
But then again, in my experience, a woman getting an orgasm from a man is the biggest lie anyone ever told anyway so. ayyyy
Alright, let~s be honest, how many in this thread have actually read the article? Because I was going "What? Idiots!" at first, too, since those awful anti-feminism men's-right-activist sites used it as the most recent "FEMINISM AND SEXISM IS FUCKING RIDICULOUS, AMIRIDE BOYS? Look at what they are going on with about now!"
But actually, that study is pretty interesting. Because it finds that most men don't actually want to see their sexual partners orgasm because they want them to feel the pleasure, but mainly because they want to feel accomplished and more "like a man". It's not about their partner, it's about themselves. It's a show of masculinity and it's ultimately about himself, turning the female orgasm into somethingthing having to be achieved and claimed by men.
How is that not worth talking about at all? Or rather: How is reporting on this so fucking awful and inexcusable? I'm of the opinion that pleasuring your partner has to be number one, the study makes a point of saying that most men actually care more about pleasuring their own ego.
I been trying to tell her for months that she didn't like riding my face like a fucking animal.
What.Yeah I'm not going to let Cosmo's masturbatory philosophies about feminist discourse get in the way of pursuing orgasm. Third Wave Feminism was a mistake. And I say this as a staunch feminist.
Yeah I'm not going to let Cosmo's masturbatory philosophies about feminist discourse get in the way of pursuing orgasm. Third Wave Feminism was a mistake. And I say this as a staunch feminist.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third-wave_feminism
You think all that... the past near 30 years of feminism was a mistake?
I mean as a trans woman... it's disheartening to hear someone say the wave that explicitly sought to include me was a mistake especially since the previous wave is made up of some of those who would love most to deny me my identity and womanhood
I mean hate this article all you want but to go to Third wave was a mistake is a little absurd
It's obvious that you, like so many other people in this thread, did not properly read or digest the actual point of the article. Pursue orgasms all you want to, but keep in mind that it should be about the fun of both partners involved, and not about accomplishment and feeding one's ego. I think that's an entirely reasonable thing to ask of folks, yeah?
Umm. Its not justifying. Its about explaining where you're coming from, so people know. Can be very important in some cases. For example if I talk about the hardships of being homosexual and gives accounts on how it can feel, it makes a huge difference if I myself am homosexual or not.People need to stop trying to justify their arguments with " I disagree and I say this as a ____________"