BronzeWolf
Banned
It's time to move out man. Make that your one primary goal
It's time to move out man. Make that your one primary goal
Things get better even before that. When I lived at my parents, the mere fact that I was so focused on moving out helped me better deal with things...
I'll be graduating sometime in 2013. Probably in the Fall. I'll be able to move out by then.You might have to make the best of a bad situation until you can afford to get out. Things will get better once you've moved to a good area.
Girls that can't even send a grammatically correct email are such a huge turn off.
Is an intelligent girl too much to ask for?? lol
She is smart and has good grammar/spelling. It was just a personal message. I won't hold that one line against her
Girl I sidelined the whole week (the one I talked about in my post) now whatsapped me:
her "R U OK?"
me "?"
her "well... it's just that you left twitter...and your facebook post that you hated summer from 500 days of summer"
me "...I never liked summer and I needed some time out from twitter"
her "OK."
then radio silence. Is she getting the message that I won't stand flakes? I think she was not brave enough to ask why I haven't talked to her for more than a week
If you want anything out of this girl, don't be passive aggressive. Just mention it - "I was pretty disappointed that you kept cancelling on us" - more nuanced for the person and how you talk to her etc, but just firmly say that her flaking sucks, that you'd be interested in seeing her again, but you don't want to deal with flaking anymore - if she doesn't think she can make the effort, that she should just let you know.
Oh This is step 2 on my plan. Problem is she not only flaked, I stand flakes but she also ignored me quite a fucking lot last 2 weeks. Like, blatantly. I won't accept that shit. This is me making her know that I won't stand for that.
Now that she knows that, I plan to come on strong. Like "I really like you as more than friends. Would you go have ice cream with me?"
Yes, Ice Cream. The big finisher. Works all the time
Am I the only one that doesn't see this as anything more than a gesture?Anyways, end of the class happens, I pick up my stuff, she's still in her place, she glances at me opens her eyes O_O very wide, then pretends to be looking at the laptop.
Was she expecting me to talk to her, why wait behind me when you're alone in the whole row lol?
Same thing happened with the other girl, she was talking on the phone, opened her eyes wide, and I just passed her and went to the bathroom, then she waited on me, but I avoided her.
I'm not getting the O_O trend, am I missing something?
Why do they open their eyes wide on the second meeting?
This, so much. Though sometimes I think I'm just spoiled by GAF and people who talk via the internet frequently.Girls that can't even send a grammatically correct email are such a huge turn off.
Is an intelligent girl too much to ask for?? lol
Ew, no no no. Don't say that.Oh This is step 2 on my plan. Problem is she not only flaked, I stand flakes but she also ignored me quite a fucking lot last 2 weeks. Like, blatantly. I won't accept that shit. This is me making her know that I won't stand for that.
Now that she knows that, I plan to come on strong. Like "I really like you as more than friends. Would you go have ice cream with me?"
Yes, Ice Cream. The big finisher. Works all the time
That seems very awkward to say. I can't really put my finger on it, but part of what bugs me, personally, about saying something like that is it's a straight-up confession of your feelings.
So what's it gonna be? Want to talk about it?
I mostly am like this because I think there is hope still. Her breaking up with me was a hard decision that she thought over a lot. I now feel like if I could travel back to friday and tell her what I understand now things would be ok.
I know we have to give each other space for a little to let the feelings dissipate. I don't want them to and im not sure if she even wants them to. I really loved her and now i am missing all my motivation and drive that I had built up.
Most of the time it's because dudes say it without establishing attraction first. This is not the case this time. We have already made out and cuddled. We never talked about it though and she started acting weird at the last steps of courtship.
I don't think you need to "have a talk," really.
I think asking her out again on another date is better. If she says yes, you know she's (still) into you. Then you go, have fun with eachother, and continue to escalate things if you like her.
If she says no, well then you saved yourself a lot of time, energy and awkwardness. You know that she's no longer interested and you don't have to "have a talk."
I still stand by my opinion that confessions of feelings are awkward ultimatums if you think things aren't going smoothly. It's kind of a last ditch effort that makes you look desperate.
I don't know your entire situation, so take what I've written with a grain of salt.
Reading your post, she's not interested. Sorry, broski. The signs are there -- you even bolded them yourself.My situation is here, bottom paged http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=34673743&postcount=849
A yes for date won't cut it since we are good friends, it could get muddled with "just a going out with friends". I need to let my intentions be perfectly clear and understood before asking her out. I could do that with body language though. I know there was attraction at some point, it's just she has not let herself be available for any escalation whatsoever. That's why I sidelined her.
I could grab her hand and ask her out while holding her hand. Come to think about it, that's what I'm going to do. Explicit enough
Reading your post, she's not interested. Sorry, broski. The signs are there -- you even bolded them yourself.
Even if she was, would you really want someone who's putting you through such mindfuckery?
Move on and spare yourself the games. Seriously.
Cute Geek Girl wants to meet me. We've pushed our flirting to the brink, next step is outright saying how badly we want to fuck each other. ARRRGGGHHHH.
Is this flirting happening over email/facebook/sms?
OkCupid messaging. It's more than just a physical attraction, though. I think things could lead somewhere if everything pans out like it should.
Sorry to break your bubble but private messaging flirting =/= real life flirting
What this means is that even if you had cyber sex with a girl, once it's real life, you have to start all over again. It's excellent rapport though, just be aware that you have to start the physical attraction.
SMS flirts will go home cowering if you try to outright kiss them if you think that just because you flirted over the internet, it transfers to IRL
Sorry to break your bubble but private messaging flirting =/= real life flirting
What this means is that even if you had cyber sex with a girl, once it's real life, you have to start all over again. It's excellent rapport though, just be aware that you have to start the physical attraction.
SMS flirts will go home cowering if you try to outright kiss them if you think that just because you flirted over the internet, it transfers to IRL
I'm not saying sexting does not help. I am saying that it won't do all the work for you
Sorry to break your bubble but private messaging flirting =/= real life flirting
What this means is that even if you had cyber sex with a girl, once it's real life, you have to start all over again. It's excellent rapport though, just be aware that you have to start the physical attraction.
SMS flirts will go home cowering if you try to outright kiss them if you think that just because you flirted over the internet, it transfers to IRL
I'm not saying sexting does not help. I am saying that it won't do all the work for you
I'm not sure what's going on here, but during the last couple of weeks, I've had girls start messaging me out of the blue on POF. And I didn't even change anything on my profile.
Since I got no replys on my last post ill ask again short and sweet.
This girl I know told me she has no interest in being with me. I say ok. We remain friends. Fast foward about 2 weeks. We chill together. She acts completely different. Texts all day. When I don't answer she says my friend wants to know something but I was with him. Why lie? She asks me if she can spend the night next weekend. She's moving in a month.
I just do not understand her motives. My other post was Much more detailed. Sorry if this one is not enough.
See? It really is that easy. Sometimes it's just a numbers game, keep going till you get the answer you're looking for.Haven't posted here in awhile, but I finally made some progress today. There is this really hot chick in my class, but I haven't got the balls to ask her out. Basically blew my opportunity in class so I was pissed off at myself.
For dinner, I went with one of my buddies to the dining hall. I noticed this cute girl who was sitting by herself and I was like fuck it. So I go up to her and ask her if she wants to go out this weekend, she says she has a boyfriend, I tell her my name and she tells me hers and she gives me a handshake. I tell her to have a nice night. So fucking easy. About goddamn time too. I really don't care that I was denied. Just feels good going for it.
#firstworldproblems brother.Cute Geek Girl wants to meet me. We've pushed our flirting to the brink, next step is outright saying how badly we want to fuck each other. ARRRGGGHHHH.
Happy to hear it man, I knew she'd come around.My GF is enjoying oral a lot more now. I kind of figured out exactly where to lick. The kissing on thighs helps a lot too.
Thanks for the advice guys.
One night we were just sitting in my car talking and I ended up asking her to be my gf. She started saying how for some reason she never looked at me as a bf but just someone she's real comfortable with. So I'm in my head saying friend zoned. Then that's when she changed.What prompted her to tell you she has no intrest?
One night we were just sitting in my car talking and I ended up asking her to be my gf. She started saying how for some reason she never looked at me as a bf but just someone she's real comfortable with. So I'm in my head saying friend zoned. Then that's when she changed.
1/24
Here I am, once again. That's all I have at the moment, since I just recreated this, I'll need a minute or 1440 to update... but trust me, it's gonna be legen... wait for it.
1/25
Well, I've captioned my images at least! I suppose I should get started on my actual profile. What is there to say about me? I guess first of all, what exactly I'm doing here. Well, this is my 2nd go around on here. Signed up a while back and thought I had met someone worth getting rid of my account for, boy was I wrong. Enough about that though, I'm back, so here's your chance, heh.
Likely going to reword that
If I'm not at the movies, you can usually find me hanging out with friends or watching football or basketball. Otherwise, I'm usually either working on work, or other projects online or on my computer. Trying to get more into webdesign, and also like to mess around with photography and video editing. It's a fun hobby, and finding great subjects to photograph is always fun. Buildings, scenery, art, people, animals, it's all awesome to capture.
I'm all over the place with music, but I tend to stick with either rock/alternative, or 80's new wave. Don't judge, Depeche Mode is the shit. If you say otherwise, we'll have problems. TV I have a few select shows that I will watch any time they're on. Dexter, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, Community, Californication, otherwise, I'll usually record anything else and watch it when I finally have a few minutes to set aside. Movies, mystery and action movies are usually my type of movie. Dark Knight, Inception, Memento to name a few, all Christopher Nolan of course, but also The Rock, Drive, American Psycho (woo 80's music), among others.
If I haven't totally bored you yet and you have anything else you want to know, shoot me a message, or you can do like some people have done in the past and stalk me and find me on facebook. It's only illegal if you start camping outside my window and looking for me. And only if I press charges, so if you're feeling lucky, go for it.
1/31
...DARY!
So a girl I was taking to dropped the vegetarian bomb, I literally have some sort of meat with every meal. How do I handle this?
stuff
As long as she doesn't attempt to lecture or guilt you, or make you eat her crappy grass food, it should be fine.
However, vegetarians are pretty preachy so that won't happen.
Btw whats POF?