I'm not having a problem with anything. However, the joy of consoles, for me, are their (supposed) simplicity. You buy the game, slap it in, then bang on with it, having a universal experience with everyone else. An immediate one. Nowadays, you need day-one patches, pro-patches, and everything else in between, before deciding, what resolution to play at, what frame-rate to play at, whether to play in VR etc etc.
I don't care what anyone says, it *is* becoming more like PC gaming, in that you spend as much time tinkering as you do playing the damn games. All the comparisons between PS4 Pro games and their PC equivalents, only serve to emphasise the point.