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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Phonomezer
Banned
Be there soon.
Mystic Theurge
Member
Oh well, of course I'm not closed to having sex. I am a sexual person, just not promiscuous or willing to have it with just about anyone. I really just use the app to get to know some new people
And well, I decided it was better to stop talking to the guy. We had some nice conversation and he was really attractive but the age factor bothers me a bit. He was really pushy about getting to know me more but eh, I guess it was better to stop it there.
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Am I doing this right?
Ugh, I'm developing a crush on one of the guys in my workout video. It's making Cardio Recovery really distracting to get through.
King Endymion
Member
Looks like breakup is heading my way. :/ Been spending every weekend with this guy since I met him 2 months ago, and he's constantly nagging me that I don't text him as often as I should and it makes him sad... Ugh, he can't take it that I'm not that kind of guy, always asking if I have someone else... First relationship with a guy down the drain I guess, hehe... :/
Wish that were true though!
The Abominable Snowman
Member
Hola Bitches!!!
My Friend is planning on opening on Alternative club during the summer! Anyone have anything they'd like to see in a club/lounge/bar or suggestions on night themes, or stuff to get a quick start or anything?
My Friend is planning on opening on Alternative club during the summer! Anyone have anything they'd like to see in a club/lounge/bar or suggestions on night themes, or stuff to get a quick start or anything?
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
You can view it as Mystic being an asshole, but he's basically right.
Ask yourself this: what are you looking to gain from announcing your homosexuality? If it's simply for general knowledge among classmates, you will likely be met with a series of "Okay." and "Cool." responses before conversation continues like normal. Generally speaking, most twenty-somethings these days see someone coming out as kind of a non-issue; closer friends would find themselves in a more supportive position, but you claim not to have any friends, so... Also, I feel like you're disregarding the intuition of people. It's hardly uncommon for folks to just know (or at least have a very strong sense about it) that comes from subconsciously observing body language, behaviors, and so on.
If this is more to open the playing field, as it were, and see if there are other gay classmates or maybe suddenly find that someone has the "perfect guy" for you to meet, then there are far more naturalistic ways of introducing the matter rather than, er, coming out swingin' that blunt bat.
Freestyler
Member
So my workout last night almost turned into a porn story. Me in the steamroom with a 50 year old man, whose eyes were transfixed on my dick. He then attempted to jack me off (after first asking if I'm American since I'm cut [I'm not American or Jewish, I got circumcised by choice about 18 months ago]), to which I said "not here mate, sorry..". Cue more of his staring at my dick and eventually motioning for me to join him in the showers.
What to do if I see him again? Not sure how I wanna play this!
What to do if I see him again? Not sure how I wanna play this!
Whoa, hold the phone... you chose to get circumcised? Was it for medicinal purposes?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Hawt. What country are you in? Were you guys alone in there? Were you both naked? Was his dick big? Is he hot?
If yes, then fuck him.
If not, then don't fuck him.
Mystic Theurge
Member
Why can't you just text him more?
I would not pay attention to him unless he gets into my personal zone and I would probably just raise my voice first as a warning and if he touches even after the warning he'll get either knocked out or I'll scream my lungs out and probably make him look bad.
Freestyler
Member
It was slightly for medical reasons (health insurance paid for it), but I didn't really need it. I just prefer them cut visually, and good lawd has my sex drive & pleasure increased since doing it.
I'm in New Zealand. Yea we were alone and I was naked, he was only naked when he used the shower that's right there in the steam room. I didn't get a good look at his dick so can't comment. I don't find 50 year olds hot, but if I had daddy issues (lawl) or was into older guys, he'd be a treat.
Oh, it's not like I didn't like the attention. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist and I love showing off my goodies so I didn't have a problem with it! I kinda wanna go ahead with it just for the hilarious story I can dine out on for years to come..
Curious. If you don't mind me asking; how painful was it and how long did it take to heal?
I watched this today, and I couldn't help but laugh at the mix up.
I purposefully didn't use "{movie name} soundtrack" because I didn't think it had one. Now I feel derpy.
However, I may need assistance with another song from a movie that doesn't have a soundtrack.
You can always make a new account.I can't sign in since getting banned for uploading a copyrighted BBC video, heh.
No, I just googled "Strapped movie soundtrack" and the movie's Facebook page was one of the first results. It was listed right on there!
I purposefully didn't use "{movie name} soundtrack" because I didn't think it had one. Now I feel derpy.
However, I may need assistance with another song from a movie that doesn't have a soundtrack.
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DR2K
Banned
So did you do anything with him?
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Hit me.
King Endymion
Member
Haha, he wants me to constantly write "I miss you, thinking about you", and he just gets angry and sad over these little things, jealous of my friends if I want to meet them. I already said I'm not gonna stop seeing my friends just cause I have a bf and he can't understand that for some reason.
Maybe I'm in the wrong here, but I can't be the guy he wants, so it would probably be better for both of us.
One more time? (PM)
Freestyler
Member
Don't mind at all! There was only one moment of actual pain, which was when one of the stitches popped when I was peeing the day after the surgery. It was like 3-4 seconds of sharp pain followed by some intense bleeding, but then all was well. The only other pain was getting used to the head being exposed all the time (rubbing against underwear etc.), but that was just discomfort not actual pain. I was out of action (solo and otherwise) for about three weeks, and then after about a month or six weeks I think I was fully healed and getting it on again.
Nah, it was too dodgy as the changing rooms/showers etc. were pretty busy. I don't see the harm in letting him jerk me off if he's keen though.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
You should try everything at least once. ;3
That's one of the most disturbing GIFs I have ever seen.
I watched this today, and I couldn't help but laugh at the mix up.
WOW!
What movie is it?
That script is Oscar worthy... the line deserves to be someone's tag!
You know, there is someone who calls you "derpradio"
You guys and your cute nicknames...
DR2K
Banned
Well you could try telling him that you're not interested.
Okay, I have to admit that's a bit too clingy for me.
King Endymion said:
I wouldn't stop seeing my friend just because my BF is jealous but maybe it's worth asking why he's jealous, what prompts this jealousy? Are you flirty with the friend? Does he have any reason to be jealous? You need to communicate that he has no reason to be jealous whatsoever.
King Endymion said:
Well, if you think you have tried your best to communicate this with him and things are not moving/changing then maybe yeah. But it's a good idea to talk to him first, tell him why you don't do such and such and why he has the need to feel jealous, etc.
King Endymion
Member
He's jealous of all of my friends, that I'd "rather" be with them than him, even though I've never chosen between them even once... I was gonna meet my friend who I only see a few times a year this Wednesday, but he thought i should go to him and stay there all weekend, since Thursday was a holiday here, thinking I can just take today off just like that...ugh, drama...
He can't take the fast that I have male friends, he thinks I want too fuck them all, even though all of them are straight... :/replicant said:
It's not like I'm flirty or anything...
Interesting. Isn't as bad as I thought it would be. Thanks for sharing.
I dated a girl like that. I say run - run as fast as you can.
CHEEZMO;37978317 said:
Can't be as bad as my pancake ass.
Though a guy I semi-one-night-standed with seemed to enjoy my ass since he said it was "cute." :3
Also I love the Ezio/Leo dynamic that Assassin's Creed is playing up. It's a shame it only comes to full fruit in a mini-DLC episode and we (probably) don't see Leo at all in Revelations since it's all Constantinople. (SHUT UP I'M GOING THROUGH IT RIGHT NOW. SHHHH.)
And then AC3 goes to America. So BAWWWWWW I'M GOING TO MISS MY SEX MUFFIN EZIO AND HIS BUDDY LEO. ;___;Can't be as bad as my pancake ass.
Though a guy I semi-one-night-standed with seemed to enjoy my ass since he said it was "cute." :3
Just do some squats.
Also I love the Ezio/Leo dynamic that Assassin's Creed is playing up. It's a shame it only comes to full fruit in a mini-DLC episode and we (probably) don't see Leo at all in Revelations since it's all Constantinople. (SHUT UP I'M GOING THROUGH IT RIGHT NOW. SHHHH.)
Is that Leonardo da Vinci? I'm going through the second one now. Also, do I have to see da Vinci every time I get a new codex page including the random ones found on the map that are generally guarded by three guards?
DR2K
Banned
It's be easier to get ass implants.
Yes. And yes, if you want the ending. Otherwise you get one part of the ending and that's it. You have to decode the pages for later. You'll see.
Unfortunately, your complaint is why Leonardo was toned down IMMENSELY in Brotherhood and so you only see him anytime you need to get your upgrades back. Which is like 3-4 times. Otherwise he isn't significant until "the Da Vinci Disappearance" DLC pack. In which he's still minor but the writing between him and Ezio is just D'awww. :3
Hm, I wish they had his place marked on the map then. That's unfortunate about the DLC too. I'll probably just watch it on youtube.
DLC is short and if you like AC already it's worth the $2.56 (well $5 normally) that I paid for it on the PSN sale that is this week. Though Ubisoft randomly puts their content on sale now and then so you may luck out if you miss it this week.
And Leo is marked on the map with that "L" but he's only in Florentine until you go to... forgetting the name. And he moves there in AC2.
And Leo is marked on the map with that "L" but he's only in Florentine until you go to... forgetting the name. And he moves there in AC2.
The Morgi... something estate?
That would be convenient. I'm 9 hours in but it feels like I'm still in the tutorial portion so that could be part of it. Unfortunately, I have it on the much less ideal PC and I'm not sure if it goes on sale on Steam. I haven't noticed it at any rate. It isn't a particularly good port either and would definitely recommend it on consoles.
A) I can't remember the name, but I'll look it up. It does remind me of "How can you say you love her if you can't even eat her poop."WOW!
What movie is it?
That script is Oscar worthy... the line deserves to be someone's tag!
You know, there is someone who calls you "derpradio"
You guys and your cute nicknames...
B) Pft.
Freestyler
Member
But I'm not not interested, that's the thing!
DR2K
Banned
Then give him the tip and nothing else.
So I have a question guys.
There's a guy stopping in my hometown on the way to a temp job. He hits me up and asks if I'd be willing to show him around. Let him get a little taste of the city. I looked up his profile, and it said he was into casual sex. Personal red flag for me (nothing against it, just not for me). But since I thought he was moving originally, I thought nothing big of it. But when he clarified that he's moving to a different city in the state, he mentioned that he's only passing through and didn't want to be alone for the night.
I took this as a sign that he was perhaps hoping for a little more than just a nice tour of the town. So I told him that he should find another person to show him around because I didn't want to be put in that kind of situation (the guy is insanely hot, and I knew that if it came down to it I might not stop myself).
I get a message from him this morning and he's irate. He blows up, calling me the most stereotypical over-dramatic gay guy ever. That he never expected anything sexual and just wanted to make a new friend. He cusses up a storm, completely blowing his lid -- seemingly taken offense. Then he proceeds to insult the state I'm in and rubs in the fact that he'll be in Cali while I'll be stuck in nowheresville (which is funny, because I actually do intend to move there in 4-5 years -- nvm the fact that I don't think I'm in nowheresville and I love my hometown).
I feel a little hurt, but at the same time wonder if I should take this seriously. Am I right to just ignore this? Or should I really listen to what he has to say? I told him before he blew up that maybe I was reading between the lines, and still... that happened. Was it warranted?
Sorry for the huge post in advance, but I felt like maybe you guys could help me out. Am I just jumping to conclusions and being a dick? : \
There's a guy stopping in my hometown on the way to a temp job. He hits me up and asks if I'd be willing to show him around. Let him get a little taste of the city. I looked up his profile, and it said he was into casual sex. Personal red flag for me (nothing against it, just not for me). But since I thought he was moving originally, I thought nothing big of it. But when he clarified that he's moving to a different city in the state, he mentioned that he's only passing through and didn't want to be alone for the night.
I took this as a sign that he was perhaps hoping for a little more than just a nice tour of the town. So I told him that he should find another person to show him around because I didn't want to be put in that kind of situation (the guy is insanely hot, and I knew that if it came down to it I might not stop myself).
I get a message from him this morning and he's irate. He blows up, calling me the most stereotypical over-dramatic gay guy ever. That he never expected anything sexual and just wanted to make a new friend. He cusses up a storm, completely blowing his lid -- seemingly taken offense. Then he proceeds to insult the state I'm in and rubs in the fact that he'll be in Cali while I'll be stuck in nowheresville (which is funny, because I actually do intend to move there in 4-5 years -- nvm the fact that I don't think I'm in nowheresville and I love my hometown).
I feel a little hurt, but at the same time wonder if I should take this seriously. Am I right to just ignore this? Or should I really listen to what he has to say? I told him before he blew up that maybe I was reading between the lines, and still... that happened. Was it warranted?
Sorry for the huge post in advance, but I felt like maybe you guys could help me out. Am I just jumping to conclusions and being a dick? : \
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
If his message was as you describe it, it's certainly ironic that he's calling you the drama queen. Of course you should ignore it and continue with life like normal. You'll never see or hear from this twat again.
Took the words right out of my mouth.
Seems weird that he was just "looking for a friend" when he didn't have any intentions of living in the area anyway. Also seems really weird to blow up about this. I can understand being disappointed but his message seems over the top.
No, he doesn't go to the Auditore Villa/Monteriggioni.
Venice. You'll go there if you haven't finished Florence yet. He'll follow
actually, he'll be the one that helps you "tour the city" in the first place
ETA: In fact, if you have all the weapon upgrades you can simply find all the codexs and then give them to him in one go and he'll decode them all. So you really don't need to travel to him often unless you want to.
MidnightScott
Banned
Eh I'm in my first real relationship but I still feel like there is something holding us back. The fact that he isn't out to his family (and me not out to everyone in my family) prevents us from being intimate unless we wanna go spend money on a hotel somewhere. He is also afraid of PDA. Our schedules don't align up so we don't get to see eachother all that much either. I'm just gonna go with the flow I guess.
But don't worry about it, there are plenty more to come. You are going to learn that people can be really clingy (that's how I was with the other people I was "in love" with) and you might just have to tell him the truth to calm down and get a hobby or something. When all someone has in their life is a relationship, that is all their life becomes so they will start trying to be involved with every little thing you are going to do.
I mean I'm not trying to give advice, I just understand the other side since I have been there before. I now have a really close friend who I have seen every weekend since we have hung out and there hasn't been one day where we text each other, even if it's just to say hi and see how our day is going. Your boyfriend or whatever you call him probably just needs to get some friends or something.
Ah, I see. Here I thought the treasure maps were only for those chests strewn about the city randomly. I may actually consider buying them now.
Nah, man. They're for the treasure and the codexes since they're in the box.
In fact, Brotherhood one-upped on this and provided you find 15-20 (forgetting) flags on your own, you can finally see all the flags from buying the treasure maps to find all the ones you missed. Same for the feathers if you don't get those (of which there are only ten in Brotherhood, WHEW!).
I didn't mind the collect-a-thon in AC2 but it being less in Brotherhood (and IIRC it's dropped completely in Revelations) was a nice change for the better. Let me focus on the killing sidequests and main story. Less on having to hunt things down for upgrades.
@Basch: Dude sounds like a total dick and you can safely ignore him. If you don't want to do that and offer him the olive branch of showing him around, I'd suggest doing it completely in public and then return him to his hotel and book it out of there with no offer of him staying at your place. You think he wants sex and while he doesn't want to admit it, lord knows he probably does.
In fact, Brotherhood one-upped on this and provided you find 15-20 (forgetting) flags on your own, you can finally see all the flags from buying the treasure maps to find all the ones you missed. Same for the feathers if you don't get those (of which there are only ten in Brotherhood, WHEW!).
I didn't mind the collect-a-thon in AC2 but it being less in Brotherhood (and IIRC it's dropped completely in Revelations) was a nice change for the better. Let me focus on the killing sidequests and main story. Less on having to hunt things down for upgrades.
@Basch: Dude sounds like a total dick and you can safely ignore him. If you don't want to do that and offer him the olive branch of showing him around, I'd suggest doing it completely in public and then return him to his hotel and book it out of there with no offer of him staying at your place. You think he wants sex and while he doesn't want to admit it, lord knows he probably does.
Thanks for the kind words guys. It means a lot. And I don't think I'll be taking him out after this. I'm afraid it's irreparable, even if he had no intention and was all just a result of poor communication.
Not meaning to extend this any further, but I PM'ed you the actual message. I was too embarrassed to post it on here. But just wanted to give a fair representation of the actual message.
Not meaning to extend this any further, but I PM'ed you the actual message. I was too embarrassed to post it on here. But just wanted to give a fair representation of the actual message.
LOL. Some guys I swear. He's probably not used to being told no. Good for you and of course ignore that idiot.
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