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Cosmic Bus

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Naked Snake said:
Kissig, licking, and sucking armpits (hairy or not) is one of my favorite things to do in bed.
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It never seemed appealing until someone said that's what they wanted to do to me (among other things), and then suddenly, the idea became really, really hot. Salty, sweaty hair-tugging, bite marks, scratches, tongue-lashings... man I want all that shit now. :\
 
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beje

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I've just met a guy that can put one of these through his prince-albert and his septum:

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Spiritreaver

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_Isaac said:
That's cool, man. How'd you meet him?
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Kind of a funny story. I went out the clubs Saturday night. I dressed up as a lifeguard (sort of to show off I guess :lol) and needless to say I did get a lot of attention. But there was one guy there who had caught my eye early on that icouldn't get the nerve to talk to aside from a "hey". To which he seemed pissed and only say "hey" back so I kinda cowered off, lol.

Well the next day I got a message on a dating site and it just so happened to be that guy. I didn't realize it until we started chatting and I told him the story about the guy at the club. He was like "um... that was me." At which point I freaked out lol.

But yeah, we decided to go out, things went great. We had dinner and talked about a lot of things. Never felt awkward really except for the usual "end of the first date" business. lol. We kissed. Was great, no plans for a second date just yet but I'm hoping to soon as I'm nervous about that lol. Until we set one up I'm trying not to get giddy, lol.
 
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Alcoori

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DarthWufei said:
Until we set one up I'm trying not to get giddy, lol.
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Judging by the amount of lol in your post I'd say that's already too late, ha.

Hope you'll get a second one though ;)
 
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i_am_ben said:
also darthwufei how did that guy track you down?
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On a dating site, well actually more of a hookup site. :lol (I know more lol). He said I had clicked his profile recently and he checked mine and was like, "whoa, small world" and messaged me.

Second date is set for Friday/Saturday depending on his work schedule. So until it happens, I'm gonna be nervous. I've had guys bail on second dates before, it sucks.
 
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Magnus

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Grats Darth! Have fun, go crazy, be safe, fuck your brains out and report back!

Any of you out there who've experienced a three (or more) way? I'm interested not so much in the fun that was had, but in how it came about.

I've decided to go a little crazy and meet this hot couple who's expressed an interest in me, and we'll get to know each other, and agreed that if we like the chemistry, we'll all probably go for it. Safely, obviously.

Any advice? Haha
 
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okno

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Magnus said:
Grats Darth! Have fun, go crazy, be safe, fuck your brains out and report back!

Any of you out there who've experienced a three (or more) way? I'm interested not so much in the fun that was had, but in how it came about.

I've decided to go a little crazy and meet this hot couple who's expressed an interest in me, and we'll get to know each other, and agreed that if we like the chemistry, we'll all probably go for it. Safely, obviously.

Any advice? Haha
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I've been in a threesome! A friend and i were chilling in his hotel room with a friend of his and drinking like crazy. I was "straight" at the time, and my friend made it a goal of his to get in my pants. I was dating a girl at the time, so I told him no, but eventually I relented into my drunken horny state and we started fooling around. The funny thing is we had smoked a ton of weed earlier, and his friend got horrifically sick and threw up (spins and everything), so he was passed out, but my friend forced the kid awake and made him join in. It was weird. Horrible sex, too. At one point the three of us crammed into a one man shower, it was awful.

So, me and hickey boy are now an item. We hung out last night for the third time and ended up fucking like crazy for about two hours. First time I've ever had proper anal sex with someone, and it was awesome. Halfway through he was all, "you know, I really like you, I don't just want to fuck you...", it was cute. So yeah, he's my first ever boyfriend, too.

The deal breaker? He branded me on both sides of my neck. I'll have to take a picture to show how bad it is, they're shining beacons of sex. There's nothing I can do to cover them and people have been making comments about them all day at work ;_; He's 28! He should know better!
 
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Cosmic Bus

pristine morning snow
Magnus said:
Any of you out there who've experienced a three (or more) way? I'm interested not so much in the fun that was had, but in how it came about.
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My one sexual experience was in a gay threesome. I knew they had an open relationship (which, generally speaking, I don't really approve of, but that's neither here nor there) and that they both fancied me, but I had no intention of helping fulfill that little fantasy... until we ended up really, really drunk one night and fell into bed against my better judgment. It's not something I would've ever chosen to do had I been thinking clearly.

Your potential threesome obviously sounds like a much different situation, so if that's what you're into, knock yourself out.
 
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yursnhere

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I lost my virginity in a threesome when I was 16. It was arranged by a creepy old man who watched the whole thing... Definitely a regretful experience.
 
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beje

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All the threesomes I've made both with my (at that time) bf and a stranger, and me with another couple have been really fun, no regretful experiences at all. Then again, I rarely have any bad experience with men in general.
 
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Magnus

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I met these guys the other night, and they were really awesome. Hit it off in style. It was so unbelievably bizarre having two hot dudes (a couple no less) giving me sex eyes at the same time over a table and some beers. :lol So who knows, maybe this weekend.

Fortunately I can see a good friendship out of these two and not just sex. But man if I'm not craving the sex right now.

Edit- saw the gents again tonight. Still just hangin out but at their place. Man. My attraction is evolving into jealousy; their home is amazing. I think they'd qualify as a power gay couple, haha. It's so on too. They've opened the door and I just have to walk through. I thought it was too soon to tonight and pussied out though, haha; next time.

What the fuck's the etiquette here by the way? Do I refrain from kissing them? Is it assumed anal is only between the couple? Man. :lol
 
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So, gay-GAF relationship age, do you ever get nostalgic about your exes? Not saying that I would ever get back with my ex, but I was going through some old pictures and got all nostalgia-y and a bit sad. I recognize I'm in a much healthier and much better relationship now, but damn it if I don't remember some of those times I had with Rob.

Perhaps it's because I was ready to propose before he dropped the 'we're over' bomb? Perhaps it's just that it's getting to be winter and I always get this way during winter? Not entirely sure, but it's kind of annoying.

At least I can say that my boyfriend is hotter than my ex. *grin*
 
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Naked Snake

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excelforward said:
So, gay-GAF relationship age, do you ever get nostalgic about your exes? Not saying that I would ever get back with my ex, but I was going through some old pictures and got all nostalgia-y and a bit sad. I recognize I'm in a much healthier and much better relationship now, but damn it if I don't remember some of those times I had with Rob.
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Yeah I get what you're saying, I feel the same way once in a blue moon, and almost always while looking at photos. It's not a "I wish we could go back" kinda thing, but more like "That was great, I miss that feeling."

I've been single for the past 3 years.

At least I can say that my boyfriend is hotter than my ex. *grin*
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Wait, you currently have a boyfriend and you're moping over your ex?? :/
 
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Alcoori

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Come on guys, he's not mopping, he's nostalgic while looking at pictures. There's nothing wrong with that. But then just think about all the shitty things he did to you, that's a sure remedy to nostalgia the best way to make you go all "hell no, uh uh".

I was talking with my ex-now-just-friend and he was telling me he had a date this weekend (he's now living 5500miles away btw). I admit I felt a tinge of jealousy for a second or two. I know he had sex with other people, so did I, but neither of us have really "dated" someone and been romantically involved since we broke up a year ago.
Also, my dating life has been fairly calm these past few months, so I guess I felt jealous of that too. I did get over it pretty quickly and proceeded to ask for a pic of the guy, which is not as hot as I am, so I felt better :D
 
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that would piss me off. if he just went and down-graded it means it was my personality that was the issue.

bam.
 
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Alcoori

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Rez said:
that would piss me off. if he just went and down-graded it means it was my personality that was the issue.

bam.
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What are you talking about? Ha


Also Magnus, just saw your edit, I don't think there's an etiquette really, depends what they agreed to and such. I don't see why anal would only be between them, no reason you don't get your fun too :D
 
i_am_ben

i_am_ben

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:lol :lol :lol :lol

damn, Rez, that comment came out all wrong


edit: Curse you Alcoori beating me to the punch!
 
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Deleted member 30609

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*bitch finger snap left*







*bitch finger snap....







right*
 
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Deleted member 30609

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I'm just doing my hateradio impression.
 
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excelforward

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Naked Snake said:
Yeah I get what you're saying, I feel the same way once in a blue moon, and almost always while looking at photos. It's not a "I wish we could go back" kinda thing, but more like "That was great, I miss that feeling."

I've been single for the past 3 years.



Wait, you currently have a boyfriend and you're moping over your ex?? :/
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Nah, not moping over him. Just got a bit nostalgic over a vacation we had that was really fun. Then I remembered what a jerk he was.

It was definitely a short-lived, 'Oh, that's what that was like' and then I stopped being a little bitch and realized how great things are for me now. I was just curious if anyone else got all nostalgia-y about past boyfriends/girlfriends regardless of how the relationship ended.
 
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fernoca

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Well, I cant' get nostalgic at something I never had. :p
Though I get "similar feelings" when I see babies and people in relationships and all happy and stuff... :/ ...either that or jealousy. :p
 
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okno

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I'm remembering now why I hate being in a relationship. Communication issues. Before he confessed his feelings towards me, he was texting and wanting to hang out constantly. The day after the confession, he'll text me once a day, maybe, and is now suddenly too busy to even get lunch for 30 minutes (considering he lives not 5 minutes away from my work, distance is not an issue). Were supposed to hang out later tonight, but I get the feeling he'll tell me he's too tired at the last minute and bail. I don't play games and this dude is pissing me off.
 
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Magnus

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Alcoori said:
Also Magnus, just saw your edit, I don't think there's an etiquette really, depends what they agreed to and such. I don't see why anal would only be between them, no reason you don't get your fun too :D
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Yeah, I've since learned that etiquette really varies from couple to couple in group situations. But I've also learned it's common to keep anal between just the couple, and that's the case with the couple I'm tango-ing with now. I'm grateful they're turning into good friends real fast and not just hunks of meat I can forget about next month.

I guess they've been on my mind a lot lately; had a vivid dream about them last night. :lol Stuff may go down this week, we'll see. :D


Okno - Sorry to hear that man. I've only been in the one short relationship myself, but those feelings are so achingly familiar. :(
 
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Magnus

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No fucking, but just about everything else. Charming, gentlemanly couple, great hosts, expert oral, beers and pizza, emphasis on expert oral, and did I mention they're the hottest dudes I've ever messed around with? :lol. And getting a conpliment in bed is like, the greatest turn on ever for me; so hearing that I was hitting the jackpot on something just revved me up.

My ego's through the roof, lol

Man it was tough to concentrate though; all I could keep thinking was 'this is a porn', 'how did I get here', 'there are so many arms and legs', but man, fun times. Would do again.

No replacement for good one-on-one though. It was just plain fun, no real hardcore lustiness, you know? I really miss that now; the kissing, the cuddling, the relationship part of it. This was just wildness, which definitely has its place. :D
 
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daemonic

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So a guy I've been hanging out with regularly the past few months asked me a couple nights ago if we could take things to the next level and start dating. We have great chemistry, a shitload to talk about, and he's pretty cute. I've gotten to the point where I don't want to rush into a relationship (based on a quite a few past relationships I've jumped into without thinking) until I've gotten to know the guy well, so I mentioned this to him and he was cool with it.

That said, there are a couple other guys I've been getting to know as well for the same duration. Both who also great and I think there could be potential for a relationship with either one of them as well.

All in all I'm still kind of just seeing what's around before I make any kind of commitment and getting to know these guys without the rush. I enjoy their company and don't really want to choose right now.

My problem is, tonight I hung out again with the first guy I mentioned and when we were saying goodbye he tried to kiss me. I kind of dodged him unintentionally as I wasn't expecting it at all.

I'm not sure if I should be truthful with him and just say I'm playing the field or if it's best to just keep it as wanting to stay friends and not give a specific reason. I don't wanna want to make him wait but at the same time I'd hate to fuck things up and put him off for good.
 
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some people hate feeling like they're being auditioned.

make a choice or tell the truth.
 
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teiresias

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So yesterday was the 8 month mark with my BF. Been great so far. We haven't even really had a big fight or anything - sometimes I'm not sure if that's good or bad. Still, it's the happiest I've been in a while and all of my friends and family adore him, so that's something.

Only hitch is that a job opportunity may make him move about three hours away in a few months, so we'll just have to play it by ear at that point.
 
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demonix69 said:
So a guy I've been hanging out with regularly the past few months asked me a couple nights ago if we could take things to the next level and start dating. We have great chemistry, a shitload to talk about, and he's pretty cute. I've gotten to the point where I don't want to rush into a relationship (based on a quite a few past relationships I've jumped into without thinking) until I've gotten to know the guy well, so I mentioned this to him and he was cool with it.

That said, there are a couple other guys I've been getting to know as well for the same duration. Both who also great and I think there could be potential for a relationship with either one of them as well.

All in all I'm still kind of just seeing what's around before I make any kind of commitment and getting to know these guys without the rush. I enjoy their company and don't really want to choose right now.

My problem is, tonight I hung out again with the first guy I mentioned and when we were saying goodbye he tried to kiss me. I kind of dodged him unintentionally as I wasn't expecting it at all.

I'm not sure if I should be truthful with him and just say I'm playing the field or if it's best to just keep it as wanting to stay friends and not give a specific reason. I don't wanna want to make him wait but at the same time I'd hate to fuck things up and put him off for good.
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Like Rez I think you should just be frank about it.

You said yourself you hung out with him quite a bit so if you were to date him that wouldn't qualify as jumping into a relationship. However, if you're still unsure it's probably because it's not meant to be. Either way, you can't just keep dodging his attempts while making sure he doesn't take it the wrong way, so that he'll still be here in case it doesn't work out with the other ones.
No one likes to be strung along so if you care even a little about him, you know what you gotta do.
 
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Magnus

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I'd been talking to a guy online for about a year. He's witty, sharp, hilarious, tons of mutual interests (he's a huge nerd too), and naturally, he's a motherfuckin' adonis. Like, Abercrombie & Fitch-scale. Naturally, he's taken. Whatever, I've always known, just gonna be friends, right. For some reason, we could never wind up meeting in person (scheduling conflicts, whatever), until last night. I win a bet and he's like, "I'm comin over to deliver your prize!" (a case of beer, we're juvenile :lol) and I'd forgotten that I'd drunkenly texted him my address once a month ago, lol. He's a little down because his dude is always on night-shifts and well, I guess he's lonely. Always more fun to hang with a friend than drink alone at home.

Bam, out of nowhere, a guy I've only known as a voice and words is in my place, and we're just chillin. He's 41, looks 32, I'm 26 (just to lay the numbers out :lol), I am keenly aware just how married he is. But maaaaaaaaaan, the fucking chemistry. AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH. In another life I would marry this man. He's brilliant, chiseled, gorgeous, playful...I think we tickle-wrestled for a few minutes, but I was so tipsy and out of it, fuck.

When he leaves, I stand in my doorway to watch him out to the elevator half a hallway away (it's like 2am), and when it arrives, he sees it's empty, dashes back to me and plants a kiss on me. I'm just blown away. :lol

I absolutely get it, I cannot get involved with a happily married guy. And his guy is great. I have no bad intentions. But goddamn if he isn't making it clear that he would dig some affection. Or is he? Man, are kisses just thrown around like candy in the gay community? I'm still so naive about this shit. :lol

This man is like a fucking dream. God damn. You should only see him.

Was so bizarre to have this all happen last night considering what happened to me the night before. What a week.

I can't do this to myself, but man if I only keep experiencing chemistry with attached guys, I'm so doomed. WTB a guy for me and me alone, goddamn.
 
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