I've spent the last 30 years of my life as a child of divorce, always feeling like extra baggage at every family function. I married a child of divorce, now we spend our holidays and birthdays running from one place to another, trying to make everyone happy and nobody happy all at once. I made my overall peace with it, but there isn't a day that goes by that hasn't been impacted by it.
I know we live in the age of instant gratification, but it isn't all about you. Please think of your kid.