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Moderation has had issues I won't deny that but to attribute all the failings solely on them is some bullshit especially when policy has been so fluid.

There is a lot of misinformation about what ******** is and who is running it. It isn't solely old mods running it.
Yeah its mostly -not- old mods running it. There's only a small handful. Most of the mods/adminis were good posters here who were not mods.

The problematic mods GAF had, like Besada, aren't even part of it.
 
Thanks for posting this but I can't put the blame on you. The folks who felt the need to post NSFW links and such are the ones to blame. They felt the need to act immature while thinking that they took the high ground while doing so.
Never noticed Morrigan Stark, who is that?
She was a common poster in the screenshot thread.
 
I find it odd that people are complaining about moderators over on the other forum before it has launched when over here we don't know who is moderating us right now - you might hate them even more! Would love a bit more transparency here.
 
This new site is in for one hell of a run when it first goes live.

Looking at the quality of the suicide posts that are attacking the community here aswell as the staff it will mostly be talk about this place and chest beating.

I wish them all the best, but I fear they have a lot of work to do.

As for your apology OP. It was a nice gesture but it won't mean shit. I think we're still in for a rough ride.
 
So the people leaving don't want to stay because the owner, who doesn't have an active presence here, was alleged to have sexually harrassed/assault a woman. Not confirmed. No charges have been pressed.

And the people leaving respond not by simply leaving, but by shitting up the board with goatse and all of the other disgusting things you find on 4chan. And usually in gotcha posts related to gaming.

The people that walked away, or said your good byes. Good luck to you, and I hope your new home is better than GAF. I'm old and this will be my last forum no matter what. For those that have done nothing but make this place awful the last few days... fuck off.
 
Thanks for the thread Toma. I really appreciate the people who announce their leaving in a classy way. I don't think the shitposters should be accepted to the new site.

Also this is the first I've heard about the automatic censorship, it's put GAF on more of a downer for me than anything else over the last few days.
 
A former mod went into detail about Kagari yesterday on another forum. Let's just say she doesn't seem like the most stable individual.

lmao

What other forum? I don't know the woman personally, I can only go by what I saw on here, I felt her attitude stunk towards the Xbox gamers on here , I don't buy the 2013 reveal/DRM as a excuse. She wasn't the only one, I felt Bish was like that too.
 
Never noticed Morrigan Stark, who is that?

Someone who was extremely vocal and forceful with their opinions about gaming, and if you didn't agree completely with her, look out! Well, a large portion of the time at least, not always. Still not someone I'd want as a moderator. Going over to a new forum doesn't magically reset someone's personality.
 
Thanks for the thread Toma. I really appreciate the people who announce their leaving in a classy way. I don't think the shitposters should be accepted to the new site.

Definitely not but I worry they'll flock there. Hence why I'm going to wait and see on ********.

EDIT: Holy shit it really is censored. Well then.
 
So the people leaving don't want to stay because the owner, who doesn't have an active presence here, was alleged to have done something. Not confirmed. No charges have been pressed.

And the people leaving respond not by simply leaving, but by shitting up the board with goatse and all of the other disgusting things you find on 4chan. And usually in gotcha posts related to gaming.
Some will even come back to verify they're banned. They'll keep posting porn and nasty images because they think that's the way to send a "respect women" message.
 
Someone who was extremely vocal and forceful with their opinions about gaming, and if you didn't agree completely with her, look out! Well, a large portion of the time at least, not always. Still not someone I'd want as a moderator. Going over to a new forum doesn't magically reset someone's personality.

As I said, never noticed her, going by what you say, sounds "charming".
 
Some will even come back to verify they're banned. They'll keep posting porn and nasty images because they think that's the way to send a "respect women" message.

The people who post those images don't care about "respecting women", they're trying to do the thing that will get a rise out of the greatest amount of people. They see it as an excuse to do something nasty, and jump at the chance.
 
I'm just baffled how members react after allegations.

His response just fucked everything up.

Neogaf is not just 1 person, it's a community. Burning down the entire community seems a little too harsh IMO.
 
I just find it kind of sad how people are treating this forum like a public washroom. Regardless of whether or not I’m going to leave, I still have a lot of respect for this community.

Posting porn and rape jokes is appalling, and shows the lack of respect a lot of users had for this community even if their departures are justified.
 
Hello?

I'd appreciate some help here because I'm sure no one at Reset wants the gross porn posting types, so if you can out some names that posted it that's also in the discord that would be great!
 
Again removing the context of why they left and assuming that everyone that did a bad thing is going to the new place.

Thiiis. Christ its tough seeing the level of critical thinking left here. Gaming side always seemed to have such a black and white one track mind. OT had so much better discussion even if it was slightly skewed left.
 
I'm just baffled how members react after allegations.

His response just fucked everything up.

Then shit on him, not everyone else. There are people who both condemn what he did, but still want to engage in the community. GAF was always WAY more than just EvilLore, but some of you don't seem to realize this
 
Guys I don't like the neogaf mod that left neogaf to join another site and so I won't join that site.

But I have no problem at all with neogaf being run by someone who's power hungry enough to filter out the name of a site that people are joining because they don't like him. Who also openly admits to grabbing other girls' asses as a "power move." And who is currently being accused of sexual assault. So I'm going to stay right here.
 
I want to point out that the word "cunt" is used quite a bit on here. I was under the impression that it's a very disrespectful word towards women. Some account suicide messages have used this word. Even before the mass exodus, the word was used quite frequently by those that claim to respect everyone, including women. Hypocrites. All of them.
 
Thanks for the thread Toma. I really appreciate the people who announce their leaving in a classy way. I don't think the shitposters should be accepted to the new site.


As someone who’s going to eventually be on both platforms. I hope they’re not on there either. This nerd attempt of community Avengers Civil War is beyond whack. Over the next few months both places are going to have to prove their not shit. Can’t wait.
 
Hello?

I'd appreciate some help here because I'm sure no one at Reset wants the gross porn posting types, so if you can out some names that posted it that's also in the discord that would be great!

Your assuming they're going to join with the same tag? Highly unlikely. I wouldn't want my post history following me to another forum especially after pulling a stunt like that.
 
Guys I don't like the neogaf mod that left neogaf to join another site and so I won't join that site.

But I have no problem at all with neogaf being run by someone who's power hungry enough to filter out the name of a site that people are joining because they don't like him. Who also openly admits to grabbing other girls' asses as a "power move." And who is currently being accused of sexual assault. So I'm going to stay right here.

Don't forget banning a number of highly respected posters for believing women just a week before allegations about himself comes forward. No it's those posters who were the bad apples!
 
Thank you, Toma for all your work. I am big follower of your threads. I’m hoping you create an offshoot of the Gaf Indie Steam group if you find the time - will definitely follow that.
 
Still waiting for the names of those "veteran" posters that are moving to Era posting porn here.

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Morrigan is a good poster and they have a team of a lot of good posters. Whether that makes a good mod team, we'll see. I was just specifically calling out two people I felt uncomfortable with in that positiob.
 
I want to point out that the word "cunt" is used quite a bit on here. I was under the impression that it's a very disrespectful word towards women. Some account suicide messages have used this word. Even before the mass exodus, the word was used quite frequently by those that claim to respect everyone, including women. Hypocrites. All of them.

That's a very US centrist view you have. I remember when that word was foolishly banned years ago.
 
A former mod went into detail about Kagari yesterday on another forum. Let's just say she doesn't seem like the most stable individual.

Can you point me who and where?
I'm very curious about where some of the old mods are landing. I miss duckroll, Aeana, Nirolak and More_badass. Maybe Falk but he doesn't post much. The other mods I don't really care.
 
Your assuming they're going to join with the same tag? Highly unlikely. I wouldn't want my post history following me to another forum especially after pulling a stunt like that.
Yeah they aren't joining with the same name. It's gaf members.. Not sure what anyone expects

Well, to join the discord you have to verify who you were on GAF, is the assumption that the notable posters going have alt accounts the gross porn suicide posts are posted from?

Remember, this conversation was about GAF/REF posters.
 
Hello everyone,

I do not want to get into the backgrounds of the topic at hand, but I am quite appalled by the behaviour some users have been showing regarding death threats, NSFW images and the like.

I do not know where the future might lead me, as I will seek a way to enjoy my freetime and currently its not yet clear where that place might be. I can understand that some people are sad, frustrated or disillusioned and they try to cope in their own way. For some this might be staying quiet, for some its a funny quitting pun and for some its apparently to punish and damage neogaf in any way by posting damaging content.

Its only been a few days when we were all together laughing about stupid stuff like #WontSomebodyPleaseThinkOfTheChildren? , so... could you please do that?

I am currently trying to organize my circle of acquaintances and am sorta semi involved in migrating procedures, so I feel slightly responsible for how this transpires even though I am trying my best not to rile up anyone. I want to make it very clear that most people looking for a new home do not agree with this extreme thread shitting behaviour. Neogaf might become a place with a different direction than I was used to and that is fine, people are allowed to like different things.

In case this will be my last post for whatever reason, I do wish you all the best
, maybe we'll see each other again here or somewhere else, I dont know yet.

But please stop shitting up threads with death threats and NSFW content that actively harms peoples life. All of us are better than this, even in these tumultuous time.

Thank you for your time.

I second all of this. I'm one of the people who is enthusiastic about migration, but the one thing that gives me pause is that some of the fellow travellers who want to come with me are the kind of posters who think it's at all appropriate to make a spectacle out of ban requests, trash the board on their way out, or pick fights with everyone remaining here (out of familiarity, a lack of visible alternatives, general confusion, or any other reason) by calling them a bunch of abuse enablers and embedded GG agents.

This does not bode well at all for the culture of the people departing, and I probably wouldn't be on board with migrating myself if all I saw was NeoGAF and I didn't know through other channels that Toma's attitude to this is the one driving the movement to rebuild elsewhere. Unfortunately, this isn't a perspective that is in public view and available for all of you, although I hope it will be once the people leaving have reestablished elsewhere. I am hoping that wherever we go next, we will crowd out the miscreants who just want an excuse for a forum war, no matter how legitimate their anger at EviLore may be and how high our tempers are right now.

A few of the account suicides have been funny. Those were all that was needed and the point has been made. If your contributions were ever valuable, packing up and taking your participation/content away from NeoGAF is all the damage you need to inflict. There's no need to wreck the place for the users who have chosen to remain for whatever reason.
 
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