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And this is one thread where it is both appropriate and correct to say "boys will be boys."
Wouldn't do shit.
Wouldn't do shit.
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If you find your kid watching porn?
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I don't know, Latin Lovers was such a fucking tease to me growing up, the show did give me my first intro to blue balls and the uncomfortableness that ensued.
Indeed. Would have been the FIRST thing I did if tablets existed when I was that age.
BKatastrophe
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What is the context for this? I need to know.
Ass worship
Milfs teach teens
CFNM
Reverse gangbang
The "M" in "MILF" requires children
EchoChamber
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Masterbite with them.
BKatastrophe
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CassidyIzABeast
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You salute them and fap to them fapping? Wut?
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wat?
you watch it and it gives you a boner and you jerk off and look like a huge loser if someone catches you, it's not rocket science
I started watching porn at twelve or thirteen, and I don't know if that was the right age or not, but my mom made me feel like shit for it and went so far as to suggest that I couldn't babysit my younger female cousins because I might sexually molest them. So don't do that. I would think that explaining to them that porn in no way is indicative of how people are supposed to be treated and that it shouldn't get in the way of their lives. It's probably a hard thing to stop completely with how easy it is to get. Just don't make them feel like bad, disgusting people.
CreepingFear
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Jesus, I'm horrified at the parents that make their children feel bad. I think my mother and I had a quiet understanding. I'm pretty sure she knew I whacked off, she did my laundry. I learned very early to clear history and cookies and all that though.
Or go on the other end of the spectrum. Introduce him to some Shiwasu no Okina.
No need to discriminate~ The possibilities are endless.
davepoobond
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so this is the sequence of events:
Day 14: "Don't go to porn sites, guys."
Day 15: "Here are tablets with absolutely no parental controls on it, have fun"
Day 18: "why are you kids going to porn sites"
Day 14: "Don't go to porn sites, guys."
Day 15: "Here are tablets with absolutely no parental controls on it, have fun"
Day 18: "why are you kids going to porn sites"
BKatastrophe
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Can't imagine any kids who wouldn't be happy with that.
CadetMahoney
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You know that's still a talking point at meetups when you're not there. They've probably embellished that shit with extra stuff over the years the scumbags.
Mineshaft_Gap
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If they're boys: circumcision and Kellogg's Corn Flakes
If they're girls: phenol on the clitoris and Kellogg's Corn Flakes
If they're girls: phenol on the clitoris and Kellogg's Corn Flakes
……forgetit
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Have the talk, tell them it's normal, then child lock the IPad just cause.
... yeah, I didn't quite think that through.
cubicle47b
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Haha.
DerZuhälter
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Give him the link to the Porn-induced sexual dysfunction thread and tell'em their dicks won't be working once they hit their 27th birthday.
Finaika
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What if your daughter was watching porn?
nhlducks35
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This sounds like the story of a porno
CaptainSlow
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My wife and I actually talked about this recently oddly enough.
If her or I ever stumble onto one of our future children either watching porn, masturbating, or having sex, we just walk away and pretend we didn't see anything and let them be unless they bring it up.
If her or I ever stumble onto one of our future children either watching porn, masturbating, or having sex, we just walk away and pretend we didn't see anything and let them be unless they bring it up.
Spider from Mars
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Was it motherless or efukt?
If not, it will be pretty soon when they need to go deeper just to feel anything.
If not, it will be pretty soon when they need to go deeper just to feel anything.
Ugh, story of my fucking life. Seriously.
that's truly the only downside of all the porn we have on the internet. The normal stuff barely works on me anymore.
foxuzamaki
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Holy shit that was me.
They have them tablets. With internet. What were they expecting? A browser history full of transformers prime fan sites?
Back when I was 12 I got a TV on my room and I would watch the scrambled played channel late at night hoping to see a hint of boob or even a vagina. Unscrambled channels got soft porn, I'd watch that. Things got real when I got my VHS player, put movies like Under Siege in and watch certain scenes with my hands undercover.
Point is, boys will be boys and the reality is that porn is easier to find than ever. Talk to the boys about sex and how it's different from porn.
Back when I was 12 I got a TV on my room and I would watch the scrambled played channel late at night hoping to see a hint of boob or even a vagina. Unscrambled channels got soft porn, I'd watch that. Things got real when I got my VHS player, put movies like Under Siege in and watch certain scenes with my hands undercover.
Point is, boys will be boys and the reality is that porn is easier to find than ever. Talk to the boys about sex and how it's different from porn.
Karsticles
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Punishment is definitely not the way. I once pulled my pants down when I was a child, and my father beat my ass until it lost feeling for a day. I still get anxiety about peeing at urinals.
PetriP-TNT
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Teach 'em the secret of private browsing
You pull your pants down when peeing at urinals?
You pull your pants down when peeing at urinals?
Monocle
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Good, it's horrible to shame kids about their natural urges. How screwed up would it be if someone raised their children to feel guilty about being tired or hungry? Sexual repression is just plain wrong.
foxuzamaki
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This comment is absolutely amazing.
brickarts295
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Could be worst, they could have been watching porn with the headphones not plugged in while on the same room with a sibling.
CreepingFear
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You Are Viewtiful
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Yep. After my 8 year old sister uploaded a Youtube video of herself, we got monitoring software on all her devices (takes a snapshot of what she's doing every 30 minutes). Digital natives don't know when not to give out personal information, they have trouble differentiating reality and the cyber world. Once they're of age (13/14), you need to sit down with them and tell them how to behave online and how everything they write and do is permanent, and has consequences.
DontBeThatGuy
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"What'chu know about Sheena Shaw?"
Trouble is, if you go to any of the streaming porn sites, everything is mixed up anyway. Not super freaky shit, but plenty of stuff I'd rather not have my kids watching, setting weird images in heir minds which might influence them when they become sexually active.
I've set up the basic filters on both of their iPads, but I don't know if that blocks streaming porn sites. Would be good to be able to set something in the router or at my ISP - but only for those devices
I don't want to block porn completely, that is unrealistic. But they should work harder to find it, let it be more of a rite of passage than just a random Google search.
matty2Dfraud
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What did you expect them to do when you gave them their own tablets? Seriously?
Anyway, I'd probably just talk to them about sex in an attempt to help them be normal and make better decisions in life. You could also demonize sex and cause them to act out or end up as potentially weird, repressed adults. Or maybe ignore the whole mess and flip the coin on how the kids will turn out? I'd go with option #1 personally.
Anyway, I'd probably just talk to them about sex in an attempt to help them be normal and make better decisions in life. You could also demonize sex and cause them to act out or end up as potentially weird, repressed adults. Or maybe ignore the whole mess and flip the coin on how the kids will turn out? I'd go with option #1 personally.
how does this work? Do you replace the DNS settings on the devices you want to restrict?
Uh, you gave them a device that gives them unrestricted access to the internet. This is what happens.
Kids look at porn and masturbate. That's reality. Tell them to use the privacy function so it doesn't show up in history. If they're gonna do it, they should do it right
hobblygobbly
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This situation exists out of the problem that they shouldn't have unrestricted access to the Internet at that age. I remember at that age when I dialed up the trusty old modem my parents couldn't do much but in my situation I didn't start watching porn till I was around 14 I think at the time.
Today it's incredibly easy to restrict Internet access for children that young. What I'd recommend (and I'm not a parent), is don't shame, maybe don't even mention it, but try to actively restrict their access of it either by limiting the time they spend at night on the Internet at that age or try block/make some websites so slow that it barely loads (can be done on some routers). Not just porn but the Internet today can exposed children to a lot of other stuff that they don't have the maturity for at that age. At that age there needs to be some control/restriction, this can be stopped when they gradually become older.
Once they've grown up a bit I think just let it be, every boy particularly watches porn and they will, even men watch porn frequently in various forms. At the ages of 14 upwards there's not much you can do honestly and best to ignore it. Back in the days with no Internet porno magazines were used and television that would maybe show a lot of cleavage in a music video or those fashion TV channels that had somewhat transparent shirts or shirtless. It wasn't the same "type" of porn/nudity available today.
I do think 11-12 is too young to be given unrestricted access to the type of porn on the Internet. After a certain age you just have to ignore it but that age is too young in my opinion and you need to actively do something about it, what that entails I can't really say other than my above advice.
Today it's incredibly easy to restrict Internet access for children that young. What I'd recommend (and I'm not a parent), is don't shame, maybe don't even mention it, but try to actively restrict their access of it either by limiting the time they spend at night on the Internet at that age or try block/make some websites so slow that it barely loads (can be done on some routers). Not just porn but the Internet today can exposed children to a lot of other stuff that they don't have the maturity for at that age. At that age there needs to be some control/restriction, this can be stopped when they gradually become older.
Once they've grown up a bit I think just let it be, every boy particularly watches porn and they will, even men watch porn frequently in various forms. At the ages of 14 upwards there's not much you can do honestly and best to ignore it. Back in the days with no Internet porno magazines were used and television that would maybe show a lot of cleavage in a music video or those fashion TV channels that had somewhat transparent shirts or shirtless. It wasn't the same "type" of porn/nudity available today.
I do think 11-12 is too young to be given unrestricted access to the type of porn on the Internet. After a certain age you just have to ignore it but that age is too young in my opinion and you need to actively do something about it, what that entails I can't really say other than my above advice.
If children today are anything like kids when I was back at school, before you've even found porn you've more than likely seen shock sites due to people passing the links around at school so if anything just be happy it's porn they're looking at. I know at 12 when I first got the internet I got tricked into looking at tubgirl once and from that day forward I never went on any link anyone told me to go on unless I knew what it was haha.
Just ignore it unless it becomes an issue.
Just ignore it unless it becomes an issue.
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