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If you find your kid watching porn?
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John Kowalski
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It's funny and suggests the kids are masturbating as well.
SneakyStephan
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I don't see the problem OP, you seem naive about what kids who are entering puberty are up to...
PackerinMN
Member
I feel they need to earn it themselves.
Robot Carnival
Member
do the scare straight/ smoke til you puke route; have sex right in front of them while having some hardcore shit playing in the back so they'll get mental trauma shall they ever even dare to thing about sex again!
DO NOT do the above
ok, in all seriousness, just do what most of the posters already suggested, have a reasonable talk with them and put some parental control on those tablets (maybe even after confiscating them for a little while). just make sure they understand these things are normal, just not for kids their age and they'll have plenty of chance later on when they grow up. they'll likely still find and watch it one way or the other but at least you have put some correct ideas regarding this subject in their mind.
I'm sorry but this had me cracking up
Always-honest
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I would talk to him and tell him you have to be carefull with that. Maybe give him some good safe sites.
Moff
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tell them about the porn business, what they should really expect if the have sex themselves some day. that there is more to a relationship than just this.
encourage them to continue masturbating, explain to them that it's natural and healthy and they should never be ashamed of their sexuality. make them know that they can always come to their parents if they have questions or insecurities.
encourage them to continue masturbating, explain to them that it's natural and healthy and they should never be ashamed of their sexuality. make them know that they can always come to their parents if they have questions or insecurities.
What a horrible reaction to confront the kids to such an extent that they end up crying their eyes out, or feel the need to lie about it is terrible. I'm guessing in the years leading up to giving them tablets their parents did not show them how to properly use the internet, and spend time with them as they used the internet to build up trust in them and instill in them the sense to make good choices when they stumble across, or seek out whatever might interest them or be curious about.
I'll never forget how my mom reacted when after my friend and I (we were 11 at the time) found someone's secret stash of porn mags in the woods, and after rushing home with our ill gotten booty, we were quietly looking at the magazines in the living room back at my house. My mom walked by the living room and saw us huddled around these magazines and wondered what had so captured our attention... so she walked over and saw that we were looking at a Playboy and simply said, "oh... well she's pretty, and I like her smile." And that was it and carried on with the rest of her day... and never mentioned the magazines again. But then she knew and trusted that we were basically good kids, so why freak out and cause a scene and be made to feel ashamed over natural curiosity.
Sure... these days there is a whole lot worse on the internet than a simple Playboy, but that's why you spend time with them in the early years and instill in them the ability to make good choices among other things like not to be a troll and all that, and then trust in them that they will. You can't shield them from all the nasty stuff on the internet, because there is plenty of nasty stuff even on sites like twitter and fb.
I'll never forget how my mom reacted when after my friend and I (we were 11 at the time) found someone's secret stash of porn mags in the woods, and after rushing home with our ill gotten booty, we were quietly looking at the magazines in the living room back at my house. My mom walked by the living room and saw us huddled around these magazines and wondered what had so captured our attention... so she walked over and saw that we were looking at a Playboy and simply said, "oh... well she's pretty, and I like her smile." And that was it and carried on with the rest of her day... and never mentioned the magazines again. But then she knew and trusted that we were basically good kids, so why freak out and cause a scene and be made to feel ashamed over natural curiosity.
Sure... these days there is a whole lot worse on the internet than a simple Playboy, but that's why you spend time with them in the early years and instill in them the ability to make good choices among other things like not to be a troll and all that, and then trust in them that they will. You can't shield them from all the nasty stuff on the internet, because there is plenty of nasty stuff even on sites like twitter and fb.
ShyGuy0504
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This is something I'll never have to deal with but it really doesn't seem like something to be very concerned about.
I would explain things ASAP. You know damn well one of there friends will introduce it to them long before you do, so why not educate them long before hand. Seriously, would you rather have your kid come home and be like
Kid: Dad! Mike showed me naked people on his phone doing...things... What were they doing?
Or
Kid: Hey dad, Mike thought he was a badass showing us this girl doing reverse cowgirl like it was the greatest thing ever, I just told him she's doing it wrong, and his dick is gonna snap if she keeps going at that rate. He looked sooo freaked out afterwards it was funny, when's dinner?
Kid: Dad! Mike showed me naked people on his phone doing...things... What were they doing?
Or
Kid: Hey dad, Mike thought he was a badass showing us this girl doing reverse cowgirl like it was the greatest thing ever, I just told him she's doing it wrong, and his dick is gonna snap if she keeps going at that rate. He looked sooo freaked out afterwards it was funny, when's dinner?
John Bender
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Seems pretty natural to me. Maybe time to have *the talk* with them but at their age you aren't going to be able to keep them away from it.
QuantumZebra
Member
damn your mom knew how to party
Bluekaveli
Member
Let them watch your dvd collection now
Alcotholic
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Show them the good sites so they wont fuck up their computer and also incognito mode.
"Safe Search"
"Safe Search"
Rest
All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
I've asked several times, but no one has ever answered: Where is this GIF from?
The Real Abed
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The worst thing you can do is make them feel like they're doing something wrong. It's natural. Its a thing humans do. You/they should talk to them about it.
Also echoing the replies about incognito mode and clearing history.
Also echoing the replies about incognito mode and clearing history.
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Deleted member 17706
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Like a lot of us on this board, I imagine, it was pretty normal when I was growing up for kids to be far more savvy about technology (computers, the Internet, etc.) in general than their parents, so this kind of thing definitely didn't happen as much.
It's going to be weird when my son grows up, for sure.
It's going to be weird when my son grows up, for sure.
Whenever my father found evidence of my viewing pornography (through ages 12 - 15) he used good old humiliation - would call my mother over, put on whatever I had been watching and basically make me stay there (my mother wasn't exactly keen on this method either btw).
Thanks for the mental issues dad.
Thanks for the mental issues dad.
hipbabboom
Huh? What did I say? Did I screw up again? :(
This world.... smh
I found one of my father's VHS porn when I was 13. Good times. My mom actually gave me a porn tape when I was 16 or so. Awkward. But the film was good.
Anyway, when I have my own kids (and as long as I haven't married a porn hating lady), I'll at least try to educate them so they don't get unrealistic expectations and steer them into tasteful and quality porn. Maybe get them a subscription or two.
Anyway, when I have my own kids (and as long as I haven't married a porn hating lady), I'll at least try to educate them so they don't get unrealistic expectations and steer them into tasteful and quality porn. Maybe get them a subscription or two.
The Real Abed
Perma-Junior
My dad never really encountered me when he found my stash. (It was the 90s. You couldn't stream. You had to download for later. It was dial-up And it was all images. And you had maybe one PC for everyone.) He would just give me a disappointed sounding "oh I've seen the stuff you save on the computer." And I just kept silent. After that I just hid it better until I got my own computer. By hiding it better I mean I printed it out. So much black ink.
When my mom went through my backpack though and found my printouts she called my grandmother whose house I was at and told her about it then told our family friends. Thanks mom. Though I was the cool kid at school for a few days. And it wasn't even hardcore or anything. It was whatever I could find on AOL at the time.
When my mom went through my backpack though and found my printouts she called my grandmother whose house I was at and told her about it then told our family friends. Thanks mom. Though I was the cool kid at school for a few days. And it wasn't even hardcore or anything. It was whatever I could find on AOL at the time.
InfiniteBento
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Doctoglethorpe
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You keep reminding them that its not real, that its an act, like in movies and tv. (hopefully you're teaching them those thigns aren't real either) You keep that in their minds so that they grow up and are capable of separating reality from what they see on a screen.
You can't stop them from looking at it, access to internet is a fundamental part of modern life, both the good and bad parts, so don't even try. All you can do is help them to understand it properly.
You can't stop them from looking at it, access to internet is a fundamental part of modern life, both the good and bad parts, so don't even try. All you can do is help them to understand it properly.
Angelus Errare
Banned
How to stunt your child's development and make him a GAF member.
Brian Griffin
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Put good virus protection on those tablets and tell them to stay on the mainstream sites so they don't run into pop ups, redirects, or possibly CP.
Fenderputty
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Of age people flabbergasted that 12 year olds are watching porn on tablets? Flabbergasted? Really?
ProfessorLobo
Banned
Clearly a joke.
Mr. Enigma
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Tidesofblood
Member
Hahahaha omg yes.
Personally I think it's natural and isn't something to worry about. Don't encourage it... but you shouldn't let it bother you.
I started watching porn around 5th grade. Well I take that back I started looking at pictures mostly -- then my internet was upgraded then it all came full circle.
No more Kohl's catalog for me! (Girls wearing sweaters...constant joke in my circle of friends)
LUFTRAUSER
Banned
I didn't start watching porn until I was 20, and even now I hardly ever watch it.
I just don't see the point; it is an embarrassing activity, and I don't really think I should be doing things I feel embarrassed about.
Is that weird?
I just don't see the point; it is an embarrassing activity, and I don't really think I should be doing things I feel embarrassed about.
Is that weird?
Rest
All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
Super duper weird. Get your head checked, man.
This sounds completely unarousing, and yet, I want to know what you're talking about...
You Are Viewtiful
Member
Have you seen it now?
Link?
waxer
Member
I work in special needs. Stuff like that doesn't bother me one bit. It's natural. I have to take 20+ year olds with mental capabilities much younger to porn shops to get them what they want.
One bisexual dude digs the transexual stuff particularly. But gay or straight movies do it for him.
I guess I get the job cause I don't find sexuality embarrassing and don't mind being seen buying anything they want.
One bisexual dude digs the transexual stuff particularly. But gay or straight movies do it for him.
I guess I get the job cause I don't find sexuality embarrassing and don't mind being seen buying anything they want.
found the op's gf's kid
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBcSrKjUGgo
behold his future as well.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NISgsvkOBmE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBcSrKjUGgo
behold his future as well.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NISgsvkOBmE
TAJ
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Nicole Kidman is looking good these days. Like "Damn, she must be a vampire or something." good.
Messofanego
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