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[WrathOfOtaibah]

I never went out of my way to get another man's girlfriend/fiancee/wife but whenever it happened, that tough talk almost never happened. In fact, most of them just broke down and cried. I bet they were all tough talkers too.

 

[sammy]

There's a connection. =(

now you're just making shit up ..... you're not so ignorant as to thing she wouldn't do the same exact thing to the "connection" you guys share

anyways, you’ve already made you’re decision --- I’m sure drama is what you desire most out of this, and you’ll get a heaping ton of it. You are not, nor ever will be a wise person

 

[JayDubya]

I always laugh when guys "wanna kill the guy" that sleeps with their wife. Why? Is it an ego thing? I'd never sleep with a married woman but I always laugh when guys say that. It's not the other dude's fault....IT'S YOUR WIFE'S FAULT!

I mean what will it really accomplish? When all is said and done, your wife is still the unfaithful slut...beat the other dude up...kill him...when the dust settles your wife is still the bad one...

Makes sense. In that "I'm angry beyond all reason" sort of way.

You still have some residual emotional attachment to your S/O and therefore some aversion to hurting them.

Meanwhile this other fuck? Not so much.

 

[Night_Trekker]

Why am I considering? Cause I really can't help what I feel toward her.

I mean, I'm not just trying to get my dick wet (that'd be nice obviously). I'm a friend, but things feel like they are moving further between us. I'm gonna be a friend even if nothing happens, I'm not looking for a booty call or a quickie. It's not just about hitting that and quitting it. There's a connection. Maybe the void of her hubbie being away for slightly long periods of time doesn't help, I don't know.

You're just making excuses for yourself, and I think you know it.

You can't help what you feel for someone or who you're attracted to, but you can help what you do about it. You're not a fucking kid, you're (supposedly) an adult. If you have any shred of integrity or compassion for what you're about to do to help ruin what's left of their relationship, you'll cool your jets, tell her to keep away from you and let her ruin her own life if that's what she's after.

Why can't everybody just have open realtionships? No one gets hurt! =(

I think you also know that's a lie.

Rumple:

I've looked directly into my wife's eyes and told her that I would never, ever, lay a violent hand on her... with the exception of her being unfaithful or in some way hurting our future children.

I told that if she ever cheated on me, I would end up in prison. I would beat her ass to the brink of you know what and I would go balls out after the guy until he or I were dead.. And since I'd go after him with a gun, I would end up in prison and he'd be in the ground.


She knew I was serious.


If you do decide to f*ck with another man's life, make sure you're ready for him to f*ck with yours.


Do what you will.

Just a heads up: that kind of attitude is more likely to drive her away from you if stuff gets difficult between you.

I always laugh when guys "wanna kill the guy" that sleeps with their wife. Why? Is it an ego thing? I'd never sleep with a married woman but I always laugh when guys say that. It's not the other dude's fault....IT'S YOUR WIFE'S FAULT!

I mean what will it really accomplish? When all is said and done, your wife is still the unfaithful slut...beat the other dude up...kill him...when the dust settles your wife is still the bad one...

Correction: it's your wife's fault and the other guy's fault.

 

[SUPREME1]

I guess I'll be hearing about you on the 6 o'clock news in the future...

No, because it won't happen.. that's the beauty of it.

She knows I'm serious, she knows that there are only 2 things that would push me over the edge. She knows what the consequences would be.

I told her once and that is the last time I uttered those words to her.



That was about 3 years ago when we got married.


Also, TheExperiment: You've been lucky enough not to have come across a man with just enough pride/machismo/ignorance, to make him dangerous. Boy it must be a rush hitting forbidden 'tang.

 

[ForzaItalia]

It's a shame that many guys are blinded by pussy. It's equally amazing how these guys will automatically believe what the woman is spewing. ie. my husband beats me, cheats on me, doesn't make love to me...etc. These are always two sides to every story but I guess most guys believe the woman because it validates their own potential guilt or uneasiness with regards to sleeping with her.

This world would be a much better place if people stopped to think from someone else's perspective. Maybe the husbands? Maybe the little child's? Maybe someone else that might be affected by this marriage if the truth ever comes out?

I'm sure people say "well she'll do it with someone else" if it isn't with me. Well, then let her do it with someone else. Again, people say this to erase or suppress their potential guilt when entering into such a situation.

It takes a much stronger man to avoid such a situation than it does to enter it...

Correction: it's your wife's fault and the other guy's fault.

My point is that when you married your wife, there were vows taken for her to remain loyal, avoid infidelity etc. The random dude in this situation is just that...random.

 

[K.Jack]

Why won't she just get a divorce? If it's more than just extramarital sex to you, then you should go all out and seek a relationship. Seems like she's looking to use you for her physical needs, while keeping the feeling of security she gets from having a husband.

You're being played, and you'll be the one who ends up hurt in the end.

 

[inthegray]

if you really like her, go ahead. if she cheats on her husband, it doesn't seem like she loved him enough to stay faithful, so she probably shouldn't be married to him.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

I always laugh when guys "wanna kill the guy" that sleeps with their wife. Why? Is it an ego thing? I'd never sleep with a married woman but I always laugh when guys say that. It's not the other dude's fault....IT'S YOUR WIFE'S FAULT!

The wife can be dealt with through a divorce, and other psychological and emotional means of punishment and detachment. If there are no other ties between the dude and the husband, the dude gets punished through a beating and through other means. It's not a matter of reason, just like screwing someone's wife isn't a reasonable act.

 

[SUPREME1]

Just a heads up: that kind of attitude is more likely to drive her away from you if stuff gets difficult between you.

Like I said above, it was said when we first got married and hasn't been brought up since. It something I put out there early and have never looked back.


We're great. I'm not a jealous guy and can even stand playful flirting on occasion.. She also has the freedom to go about as she chooses.. no questions asked. I trust her completely. She handles the finances, she has utter control of what she chosses to do on a daily basis.

I'm worry-free.

 

[Night_Trekker]

My point is that when you married your wife, there were vows taken for her to remain loyal, avoid infidelity etc. The random dude in this situation is just that...random.

Right, and he decided to sleep with another man's wife, or at least screw her without making sure he wasn't being lied to first. I have no sympathy for anyone in that situation.

if you really like her, go ahead. if she cheats on her husband, it doesn't seem like she loved him enough to stay faithful, so she probably shouldn't be married to him.

So that's what this guy needs: more justification to do what he's already decided he's going to do.

Thanks for clearing that up.

 

[ElectricBlue187]

i'd go with no. even considering something like this makes you a horrible person

 

[ForzaItalia]

Right, and he decided to sleep with another man's wife, or at least screw her without making sure he wasn't being lied to first. I have no sympathy for anyone in that situation.

I agree with you too on this...it's a risk. If a guy chooses to do so, he should know full well that anything goes, be it a beating or death...

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Right, and he decided to sleep with another man's wife, or at least screw her without making sure he wasn't being lied to first. I have no sympathy for anyone in that situation.

Assuming of course the dude knows the chick is married. Even in that case, I could excuse a bit of a beating considering the emotional charge that is likely to go through the husband if he happens to say catch the two in the act.

 

[teddyboi]

Do it, man.

At the end of your life, you want to regret the things you did do, not the things you didn't do.

That shit needed to be quoted. Not like I 100% agree with it, but it is stirring up with my morals right now.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

i'd go with no. even considering something like this makes you a horrible person

Not really though, it makes him human. It's a bad judgment call and a pretty rotten thing that humans do, often.

 

[C.Dark.DN]

if you don't someone else will. and it could be some creepy guy that kills her husband then her. so might as well be a good candidate? that's a spin on who get's murdered.

something is wrong with the marriage. the other guy could be cheating on her as we speak. might as well be the reason for a separation so they can meet someone else and be happier, or a reason to fix things so the marriage doesn't stay shitty.

would i want my wife to fool around with someone else? no. more importantly, i wouldn't want her to be unhappy with the relationship which would push her to do something like that. which is why im gonna make sure the person i marry is the right girl and treated right.

 

[MidiSurf]

If there are no other ties between the dude and the husband, the dude gets punished through a beating and through other means.

It's always funny when everyone assumes that the "dude" will get he's ass kicked. My friend is obsessed with girls who are in dating. And well that usually only lead for trouble cos' he's not even trying to cover what he has done. But he's never got he's ass kicked every freaking time the angry boyfriend ends up beaten .

 

[Night_Trekker]

It's always funny when everyone assumes that the "dude" will get he's ass kicked. My friend is obsessed with girls who are in dating. And well that usually only lead for trouble cos' he's not even trying to cover what he has done. But he's never got he's ass kicked every freaking time the angry boyfriend ends up beaten .

Hahahaha until someone brings a gun to the fight.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

It's always funny when everyone assumes that the "dude" will get he's ass kicked. My friend is obsessed with girls who are in dating. And well that usually only lead for trouble cos' he's not even trying to cover what he has done. But he's never got he's ass kicked every freaking time the angry boyfriend ends up beaten .

Then the angry boyfriend isn't angry and determined enough. Really. And marriage, for all its fluff, does add something to the mix that is usually lacking from the boyfriend girlfriend formula.

 

[Gary Whitta]

Jesus Christ.

First epic piracy "debate" and now this?

What's next?

Murder-age: Is it okay to murder my girlfriend for deleting my Pokemons?

 

[lil smoke]

Does anyone think Foreskin is thinking twice about this? I think GAF may have come through on this one!

Sometimes, I wonder if it would be better if it was acceptable for 2 aspiring cheaters to masturbate in front of each other and get it out of their system. We all have desires that aren't kosher... if we could just rub one out with the miss, might it satisfy the desire?

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Hahahaha until someone brings a gun to the fight.

Blind aggression can go pretty far in and by itself, but yeah... this nation isn't exactly short on weapons.

 

[teddyboi]

The wife already cheated....I mean you guys "hung out" a couple of time already. Wives shouldn't be "hanging out" with random guys. So I mean, fucking her would be just a solid continuance of her already established infidelity.

 

[DanielJohnson]

How is rape comparable to a consentual act? She's going to do it with someone else anyway, why not with him. Rumpled not sleeping with this girl isn't going to stop her from cheating.

My argument wasn't that rape is comparable to a consentual act. My argument was that doing it for "the thrill" isn't a justifiable reason.

 

[MidiSurf]

Hahahaha until someone brings a gun to the fight.

I still say this happens only in movies . I know there are many murders because of cheating but i still think it's way too extream and will not happen to myself or any one i know.

My argument was that doing it for "the thrill" isn't a justifiable reason.

Horny mood is all the reason you need.

 

[Night_Trekker]

The wife already cheated....I mean you guys "hung out" a couple of time already. Wives shouldn't be "hanging out" with random guys. So I mean, fucking her would be just a solid continuance of her already established infidelity.

No, that would be going totally over the line and solidifying the infidelity.

I swear, some of the justifications you guys are coming up with are outright pathetic, aside from being entirely transparent.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Well, having to justify it in the first place should be a pretty good sign that maybe it's not an altogether brilliant idea.

 

[twilitesparklemotion]

Yay or nay?


The average of this thread will be my decision.


go!

RumpledForeskin
nibble me tenderly
(Today, 10:04 AM)

Nay.

Murder-age: Is it okay to murder my girlfriend for deleting my Pokemons?

That depends entirely on the Pokemons involved and the file's total playtime.

 

[Night_Trekker]

I still say this happens only in movies . I know there are many murders because of cheating but i still think it's way too extream and will not happen to myself or any one i know.

Your friend is a selfish twat and so are you for sticking up for him. There's just no getting around that this is a rotten thing to do.

 

[Anerythristic]

:lol :lol :lol , alot of internet playazz and tough guys in the OT.

"I be bangin mad hos on the GAF and if they man wanna step I put his azz in da ground."

:lol :lol :lol

 

[lil smoke]

I still say this happens only in movies . I know there are many murders because of cheating but i still think it's way too extream and will not happen to myself or any one i know.

I'm starting to wonder where you are from. Come to DC, live in the hood, and sleep with someone's GF. Watch what happens.

 

[Gary Whitta]

:lol :lol :lol , alot of internet playazz and tough guys in the OT.

"I be bangin mad hos on the GAF and if they man wanna step I put his azz in da ground."

:lol :lol :lol

 

[Gary Whitta]

I'm starting to wonder where you are from. Come to DC, live in the hood, and sleep with someone's GF. Watch what happens.

If you're living in the DC hood, is sleeping with someone's GF really a necessary pre-requisite for getting fucked up by someone?

 

[$1148 Jack]

The biggest problem you have is that you are asking for serious advice on an internet forum. Out of all the respondents here who do you believe would say go do it! or yeah man go for it! in real life if they personally knew you or the woman/husband? I think you know the answer.

 

[lil smoke]

:lol :lol :lol , alot of internet playazz and tough guys in the OT.

"I be bangin mad hos on the GAF and if they man wanna step I put his azz in da ground."

:lol :lol :lol

Not everyone here is a fat hairy, wimpy geek. Some of us are regular people at work posting trying to get friday over with.

 

[teddyboi]

No, that would be going totally over the line and solidifying the infidelity.

I swear, some of the justifications you guys are coming up with are outright pathetic, aside from being entirely transparent.

No, the infidelity has been solidified by her hanging out. That's cheating. Hanging out is basically dating. So she's already dated the guy a couple of times already. Shit, I'd be pretty pissed if my wife hung out with some guy a couple of times behind my back. That's pretty much as equally unforgivable as cheating. So he might as well tap that. Like a said, it's a reasonable and solid continuance.

I'm starting to wonder where you are from. Come to DC, live in the hood, and sleep with someone's GF. Watch what happens.

So people in the hood don't cheat and get away with it? Get the fuck outta here.

 

[Gary Whitta]

The biggest problem you have is that you are asking for serious advice on an internet forum. Out of all the respondents here who do you believe would say go do it! or yeah man go for it! in real life if they personally knew you or the woman/husband? I think you know the answer.

At least he didn't ask on 4chan. I would love to have seen that thread.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

And then of course you have the other factor; if you happen to come across a chick whose husband actually kind of likes beating people up, and this little act actually gives him the opportunity to mess someone up and lean back on the old "heat of the moment" defense while you're stuck with disfiguring wounds and a complete lack of sympathy from anyone.

 

[Cauliflower of Love]

Does anyone think Foreskin is thinking twice about this? I think GAF may have come through on this one!

Alot of meaninful advice on her has me thinking I shouldn't be an asshole, but being someone who hasn't "lived" enough in the past something like this makes me say fuck it all and go ahead.

At the end of your life, you want to regret the things you did do, not the things you didn't do.

 

[Night_Trekker]

No, the infidelity has been solidified by her hanging out. That's cheating. Hanging out is basically dating. So she's already dated the guy a couple of times already. Shit, I'd be pretty pissed if my wife hung out with some guy a couple of times behind my back. That's pretty much as equally unforgivable as cheating. So he might as well tap that. Like a said, it's a reasonable and solid continuance.

...no dude. They could stop right now, and the infidelity would stop, and theses two people could deal with their problems however they will, and RF could go find some unattached woman to screw around with.

There is no slippery slope. That's just another justification to do what you want to do, to pretend it's out of your hands and that you're not 100% at fault.

 

[lil smoke]

If you're living in the DC hood, is sleeping with someone's GF really a necessary pre-requisite for getting fucked up by someone?

LOL, so you seem to understand what I'm saying. Great pic too :lol

Alot of meaninful advice on her has me thinking I shouldn't be an asshole, but being someone who hasn't "lived" enough in the past something like this makes me say fuck it all and go ahead.

Bungie Jumping?

 

[C.Dark.DN]

does anyone listen to lex and terry? i wonder what they'd say.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

No, the infidelity has been solidified by her hanging out. That's cheating. Hanging out is basically dating. So she's already dated the guy a couple of times already. Shit, I'd be pretty pissed if my wife hung out with some guy a couple of times behind my back. That's pretty much as equally unforgivable as cheating. So he might as well tap that. Like a said, it's a reasonable and solid continuance.

If you consider hanging out to be an act of cheating, well that's your deal. But to actually argue that them hanging out is bad to a point where she might as well take his cock in her mouth? That's kind of weird.

 

[Wanace]

Alot of meaninful advice on her has me thinking I shouldn't be an asshole, but being someone who hasn't "lived" enough in the past something like this makes me say fuck it all and go ahead.

How old are you? You probably have plenty of time to "live" in the future without fucking another man's wife. If you do fuck his wife, you may not live to make any more mistakes.

 

[Ryck]

If you don't hit it someone else will.

 

[MidiSurf]

I'm starting to wonder where you are from. Come to DC, live in the hood, and sleep with someone's GF. Watch what happens.

Worst case scenario in here is if someone brings knife in the fight and then you just run away (never happend to me or anyone i know). And thanks for heads up. I will never go to DC and i will definitely stay out from dA hoodZ.

Your friend is a selfish twat and so are you for sticking up for him. There's just no getting around that this is a rotten thing to do.

I admit he is selfish. Even I know what he does is wrong. He went out with this sweet girl for two years and cheated her about every week. Every girlfriend he ever had are from affairs.

Cheats on girl number 1. with number 2. leavs girl number 1. in some point and go on with numer 2. until girl numer 3. comes around.

But it's not my place to judge him or bust him. It's he's own life and can live it how he want's.

 

[Night_Trekker]

Alot of meaninful advice on her has me thinking I shouldn't be an asshole, but being someone who hasn't "lived" enough in the past something like this makes me say fuck it all and go ahead.

Sigh. You're ignoring everything you don't want to hear and zeroing in on the one post that gives you some sort of drive to do this selfish thing you've already decided you'll do, and you're letting fear motivate you to do it.

 

[LordMaji]

NEVER mess w/ a mans woman. Seriously. It never ends well for anyone.

Ugh, fucking cheating ass cunts.

 

[Hellsing321]

Murder-age: Is it okay to murder my girlfriend for deleting my Pokemons?

Hmm...What Pokemon game are we talking about and how far are you?