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[Anerythristic]

Not everyone here is a fat hairy, wimpy geek. Some of us are regular people at work posting trying to get friday over with.

I don't think every gamer is a geek in the slightest. I do believe that if you must talk big about something you probably have never done it.

"I don't have to tell you I got 'em ,cause I know I got 'em."

 

[teddyboi]

If you consider hanging out to be an act of cheating, well that's your deal. But to actually argue that them hanging out is bad to a point where she might as well take his cock in her mouth? That's kind of weird.

If she's hanging out with him she probably does want the dick in her mouth. I think that is a reasonable assumption any husband should have of a wive secretly hanging out with a random guy. Hey, it would be mine...and I think yours too.

 

[WickedAngel]

You might get away with it for a while and face no repercussions but you're eventually going to get yours in the end. You might take some skank from her man time and time again but you're eventually going to find one who is willing to put his money where his mouth is and you'll be lucky if a beating is all you get for your actions.

There are tens of millions of attractive, single women out there to be taken. Keep fucking around with ones who are taken and you'll eventually be on the wrong end of a bad situation.

 

[Gary Whitta]

Treat others as you'd want to be treated yourself?

What? Too simple?

There's nothing worse than finding out your gf/wife has been fucking another guy. I wouldn't wish it on anyone (well, maybe one guy) and I certainly wouldn't inflict it on anyone.

Morality aside, this shit has a way of always, ALWAYS coming back around and biting you in the ass.

If you are actually counting votes, here's mine: No.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Treat others as you'd want to be treated yourself?

It's amazing how such a simple idea can be applied to pretty much anything in life, yet is so quickly ignored once the primal side takes the wheel.

 

[mambadragon]

Forget the whole what the husband would do to you, do you really want to totally ruin a man's life? Not even the most laid back person in the world could quickly move on from something like that.

I suppose another thing is if a woman wanted to cheat on a guy, especially someone she's married to, I'd look at her as scum and probably wouldn't even want to be her friend. That's one of the harshest things I've ever said/written, but there really is no worse way to hurt someone and you're almost assuredly going to send the person into some minor depression.

I guess I can understand it'd be tough for the non-married person to think about the person being hurt that you probably don't even know, but put yourself in his shoes.

And I also hope for your sake you do just "want to get your dick wet" as you so eloquently say - do you expect to have a trusting relationship with a cheater :lol

And for f's sake I hope there's no children between the two.

 

[Solaros]

You amaze me. You have feelings for a woman that would cheat on her husband? Think about that. A woman who pledged her life to a man wants to cheat on him 2 years into the marriage. Do you have some delusion where you think she will not do the same to you down the road? Whores will be whores and respectable women will be respectable women.

On a serious note. FHUTA and tape it, tell her husband that you did it for him. So that he knows what kind of woman she really is and can get away from her. Win win win. Make sure you give a thumbs up at the end of the vid.

 

[Night_Trekker]

I admit he is selfish. Even I know what he does is wrong. He went out with this sweet girl for two years and cheated her about every week. Every girlfriend he ever had are from affairs.

Cheats on girl number 1. with number 2. leavs girl number 1. in some point and go on with numer 2. until girl numer 3. comes around.

But it's not my place to judge him or bust him. It's he's own life and can live it how he want's.

Why the hell do people say shit like this? Is it someone else's place to judge him for you, to tell you how to feel about his actions? Making a judgment about someone else's actions is bad, is it?

People should have the personal freedom to do what they will as long as it isn't hurting someone. I firmly believe that. That does not mean you have to support the choices they make with that freedom. (And that doesn't mean you have to punish them either... looking down on someone is not that harsh a punishment.)

And that's not hypocritical at all. That's having some fucking backbone and not being blown around like the wind by the selfish agendas of other people.

 

[Patrickula]

Just in case there really is an average being taken... I say nay.
Both morally and for your safety. There are plenty of ways to "live life" that don't involve screwing someone else's wife. It's just a temporary physical pleasure.

 

[Anerythristic]

Another thing Rumple this woman does not want to have sex with you because you are the man or she thinks your attractive. She is desperate for many things in her life and most of it is attention, her husband is either abusive,cheating himself or thinks she is a piece of garbage and won't give her the time of day.

She is looking for a mercy screw and you are the one being used. If I was you I would man-up and get a hooker if you are that desperate for pussy or get your own girl that is not a mental,desperate wreck and give her the business, you can do that... right?

 

[Hellsing321]

Yeah like others have said, if you want to take more risks in life take up skydiving or bungee jumping. There is no excuse for ruining another person's life because you wanted to "live life to the fullest."

So nay.

 

[aoi tsuki]

i can't believe this pointless thread has grown so quickly.

 

[zon]

Don't do it, if the bitch would cheat on her husband she will have no qualms about fucking shit up for you as well. There are better reasons not to (e.g. she is someones wife), but you don't seem to care about that too much.


And what's with the retards who equate cheating (consensual sex between a man and a woman) with raping a child? Fucking Idiots.

 

[Schwowsers]

Damn your moral compass gaf! I'm still on the fence, just case the feelings are there, but I really don't want to get my ass beat (that's a big possibility should it come out).

I hate people like you. Your only concern is that you'll get hurt, not whether or not your actions will hurt others.

 

[MidiSurf]

"Damn your moral compass gaf! I'm still on the fence, just case the feelings are there, but I really don't want to get my ass beat (that's a big possibility should it come out)."

Lot of people are going to get angry cos' i'm going to quote da man in this topic but anyway.

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. "

In the end it not up to us convince you to do it or not do it.

 

[Higgy]

Better watch the fuck out man. You fuck with the wrong guy and might never play with a controller again. Cuz I'd break every fucking finger in your hand with a hammer. Man that pisses me off. I'd fuck someone up so bad if I'd get my hands on them. Fucking with someones marriage, their children's lives. The prospect of jail time wouldn't faze me one bit. It would be worth it.

The wife would get the boot but he would get my rage.

 

[DanielJohnson]

Why the hell do people say shit like this? Is it someone else's place to judge him for you, to tell you how to feel about his actions? Making a judgment about someone else's actions is bad, is it?

People should have the personal freedom to do what they will as long as it isn't hurting someone. I firmly believe that. That does not mean you have to support the choices they make with that freedom. (And that doesn't mean you have to punish them either... looking down on someone is not that harsh a punishment.)

And that's not hypocritical at all. That's having some fucking backbone and not being blown around like the wind by the selfish agendas of other people.

Wow, someone on the internet's philosophy about integrity actually lines up with mine. Thank you Night Trekker.

It completely disgusts me that standing up for what you believe in is actually looked down upon now.

i can't believe this pointless thread has grown so quickly.

I agree that the internet is futile most of the time, but the potential ruining of three lives deems this thread full of point.

 

[mambadragon]

Your only concern is that you'll get hurt, not whether or not your actions will hurt others.

well put

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Better watch the fuck out man. You fuck with the wrong guy and might never play with a controller again. Cuz I'd break every fucking finger in your hand with a hammer. Man that pisses me off. I'd fuck someone up so bad if I'd get my hands on them. Fucking with someones marriage, their children's lives. The prospect of jail time wouldn't faze me one bit. It would be worth it.

The wife would get the boot but he would get my rage.

Wouldn't the jail time just do more to fuck up the lives of the children though? Not saying it wouldn't an understandable reaction, but you know.

 

[Sullichin]

Take her for a night out.

 

[MidiSurf]

Better watch the fuck out man. You fuck with the wrong guy and might never play with a controller again. Cuz I'd break every fucking finger in your hand with a hammer. Man that pisses me off. I'd fuck someone up so bad if I'd get my hands on them. Fucking with someones marriage, their children's lives. The prospect of jail time wouldn't faze me one bit. It would be worth it.

The wife would get the boot but he would get my rage.

Wouldn't the jail time just do more to fuck up the lives of the children though? Not saying it wouldn't an understandable reaction, but you know.

I agree. And the cheating guy is normal person too. He has he's own family and maybe even he is married and has kids so with your actions you would ruin many lives.

 

[TheCardPlayer]

This is the most sickening thread I've ever read. Not the original post but the amount of sick fucks in here. Fuck all would be murderers in this thread. You are the worst scum alive, worse than any cheaters.

BTW, don't sleep with her. Cheaters deserve a good beating.

 

[aoi tsuki]

I agree that the internet is futile most of the time, but the potential ruining of three lives deems this thread full of point.

If you need random people to advise you on whether or not to sleep with a married woman, then maybe you need to go through with it, get caught, then get your ass kicked.

 

[crowphoenix]

I agree. And the cheating guy is normal person too. He has he's own family and maybe even he is married and has kids so with your actions you would ruin many lives.

Yes, because the kiddies care so much that daddy got beat up when Mommy takes them away and tells them everyday how terrible a man he is. The cheaters made the decision and they must deal with the consequences.

Not that I advocate a beating, or wish harm on another person; I just believe you must accept that your actions have consequences and that you must deal with them beacause you caused them. Had I not made some of the choices I made some of the bad things in my life would not have happened. It is best to avoid sittuations when you can see pain for either yourself or others in the future.

I'll say nay, but personally, I don't give a shit what you do as long as you can admit that you're a terrible person.

 

[Higgy]

Yes the jail time would hurt things more. It's just me, I'm not a violent person in 99% of my life but this, and someone raping and murdering my family would push me over the ledge.

These guys live in such a little bubble and think the world is tiny and it revolves around them. Then they hear a knock at the door and its me staring at them with a fucking hammer.

 

[TheCardPlayer]

You know what, I'm never posting here again. I am not a person to get angry easily but I can't post in a forum where people talk about murder without any consequences.

My day has just been ruined. Goodbye.

 

[MidiSurf]

The cheaters made the decision and they must deal with the consequences.

I agree. But i was only saying that if you go killing spree cos' your wife cheated you then maybe you should not get married in first place. I understand that no one likes to get cheated and anger must be the first feeling you will feel. But to hurt your wife/girlfriend or kill some one is just wrong... But i really don't think any gaffers could ever commit murder even if they say so .

 

[gkryhewy]

You know what, I'm never posting here again.

lol

 

[DanielJohnson]

You know what, I'm never posting here again. I am not a person to get angry easily but I can't post in a forum where people talk about murder without any consequences.

My day has just been ruined. Goodbye.

Honestly, most of the murder talk is hyperbole. You yourself said a beating is in order.

 

[Wanace]

You know what, I'm never posting here again. I am not a person to get angry easily but I can't post in a forum where people talk about murder without any consequences.

My day has just been ruined. Goodbye.

Joke post?

 

[Night_Trekker]

You know what, I'm never posting here again. I am not a person to get angry easily but I can't post in a forum where people talk about murder without any consequences.

My day has just been ruined. Goodbye.

This is the GAF thread that pushed you over the edge? :lol

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

Honestly, most of the murder talk is hyperbole. You yourself said a beating is in order.

Murder, perhaps. Although it probably wouldn't even be labeled murder given the circumstances, but yeah... that's probably just gut reactions when you consider the possible scenario. This is so hypothetical and unrealistic that it feels weird even saying, but in a scenario where I stumbled upon my wife messing around with some other dude, the guy would likely not make it out without losing a nut, having several fractured bones and scattered spots of bleeding. Death? Probably not, but something to make him regret it for a very long time. I used to be a pretty unfriendly guy and I could see me taking out a lot of repressed aggression on this character. But luckily, that is a very unrealistic scenario.

 

[Keylime]

Such a strong response from GAF :lol

But think about it... you want him to go through with it.

1. You all already think he's a horrible person for considering it
2. We all know the wife is a horrible person for entertaining it
3. We all agree that justice will be dealt to the evil-doers (Rumple + Ho) if said act is carried out.

He'll get beat up, the wife will get divorced, and the man gets to be freed of his hooker wife and live a better life.

Plus then we'll get to read all about it on GAF.

...and that's really all that matters in the end.

 

[Solaros]

Joke post?

Anyone who comes to the internet for hopes of actually finding people with morals is simply setting themselves up for a bad day.

 

[aparisi2274]

HELL NO!!!

If you mess with the wife, and then she has an argument with her hubby about something and calls you out, he will hunt you down and fuck your shit up...

Also, how you would feel if you had a girl, and she was doing this to you....


Remember, the door swings both ways with this....

 

[FF_VIII]

You know what, I'm never posting here again. I am not a person to get angry easily but I can't post in a forum where people talk about murder without any consequences.

My day has just been ruined. Goodbye.

Your username is pedobear.

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[AlexMogil]

At the end of your life, you want to regret the things you did do, not the things you didn't do.

Jesus Rumpled, I cannot believe you are using THIS quote to help justify this action.

At the end of your life you actually want to say, "I fucked a married woman. I helped break a sacred vow."

Keep in mind the end of your life might be as soon as the week after dipping your dick.

I cannot fathom some of the rationale in this thread. Getting caught? Might get in trouble? How about don't do it because it is wrong? I'm an atheist and people don't understand how I have any moral judgment - for fuck's sake, wrong is wrong!

If my neighbor's wife dropped trou and bent it I wouldn't hit it because it is WRONG. Why is this so difficult to understand? There's other women.

 

[DanielJohnson]

Edit: double post...sorry.

 

[Mikey10]

Nah, you shouldn't if they have kids. I'm convinced you can get any woman in to bed no matter if they're married or not though. They get bored, a new man enters their life, it's exciting, and WHAM, panties around their ankles in no time.

 

[DanielJohnson]

Nah, you shouldn't if they have kids. I'm convinced you can get any woman in to bed no matter if they're married or not though. They get bored, a new man enters their life, it's exciting, and WHAM, panties around their ankles in no time.

What if they don't?

 

[Night_Trekker]

Such a strong response from GAF :lol

But think about it... you want him to go through with it.

1. You all already think he's a horrible person for considering it
2. We all know the wife is a horrible person for entertaining it
3. We all agree that justice will be dealt to the evil-doers (Rumple + Ho) if said act is carried out.

He'll get beat up, the wife will get divorced, and the man gets to be freed of his hooker wife and live a better life.

Plus then we'll get to read all about it on GAF.

...and that's really all that matters in the end.

We're bad people for judging him? That is just adorable.

How anyone in the OT forum shits on the gaming side I'll never understand. There's about an equal number of manchildren in each.

 

[AltogetherAndrews]

I cannot fathom some of the rationale in this thread. Getting caught? Might get in trouble? How about don't do it because it is wrong? I'm an atheist and people don't understand how I have any moral judgment - for fuck's sake, wrong is wrong!

If my neighbor's wife dropped trou and bent it I wouldn't hit it because it is WRONG. Why is this so difficult to understand? There's other women.

"Might get in trouble" is the only realistic deterrent though. It'd be nice if "because it's wrong" was enough of an argument against the action, but we are talking about animals here.

 

[Keylime]

We're bad people for judging him? That is just adorable.

How anyone in the OT forum shits on the gaming side I'll never understand. There's about an equal number of manchildren in each.

What?

Who said you were bad for judging him?!

 

[bigmakstudios]

I don't think I'd hesitate to kill or horribly maim someone who messed around with my wife, -especially- if he knew she was married, and I'm not a violent person at all.

I'd probably avoid this if you prefer to keep your body functioning.

If you wouldn't hesitate to kill someone for messing around with your wife, who I assume would hypothetically agree with "messing around", then you clearly are a violent person. How the hell would killing the man resolve your wife's lack of loyalty?

 

[JayDubya]

"Might get in trouble" is the only realistic deterrent though. It'd be nice if "because it's wrong" was enough of an argument against the action, but we are talking about animals here.

Like I said, you first appeal to the Superego.

If that fails, you try a cost-benefit argument with the Id.

 

[AlexMogil]

Like I said, you first appeal to the Superego.

If that fails, you try a cost-benefit argument with the Id.

We're in Id country, then I guess. Superego got off in Cleveland.

 

[Night_Trekker]

"Might get in trouble" is the only realistic deterrent though. It'd be nice if "because it's wrong" was enough of an argument against the action, but we are talking about animals here.

Animals have no ability to control what they do. They cannot reflect on their actions or think deeply enough to form moral judgments about those actions, or even justify them after the fact.

Humans are animals, yes. But we're also much more than mere animals by virtue of our ability to think. You know... when we chose to be.

What?

Who said you were bad for judging him?!

Apparently I did, when I read too much into your post. My apologies.

 

[[Nintex]]

For all we know her husband could be cheating as well when he's away.

Anyway dont' do it, if that guy is like the guys in this thread they would "put you in the ground" and beat you up with a hammer??!? :lol
On the other hand, it would make one hell of a thread.

 

[JayDubya]

We're in Id country, then I guess. Superego got off in Cleveland.

Superego might be hitching a ride back. There's always a chance. :lol

 

[ronito]

Don't forget the greasy stigma thing. Sleeping with a married woman is something that will follow you. Like dating a girl that does the choo choo. You'll always be "that" guy. And when it comes to a serious relationship, don't kid yourself you wont have it with the married woman, you'll eventually have to come out with it and I'm not thinking any woman will take too well to it.

Further she could drag you into the her whole bad situation. You really want sex? You can find it without nearly as much baggage in other places.

There's a reason we have morals as a society. It makes your life easier. I'm mainly moral because I'm lazy.