It's more than that if you read the thread. People called his wife Bi which he then replied she wasn't. People called her a lesbian, and he said she wasn't that either. All he'll say is she is not straight and she doesn't like putting a label on it. He's in some kind of super denial state.
The thread was finally locked but I think it's possible the whole thing was designed to just antagonize and frustrate people.
He basically rejected every bit of advice was given (that was supposedly the point of the thread). Then on top of that his wife is into women and not into men but not a lesbian and not bi but just... ?
Doesn't work, can't cook, has no money, relationship is broken BUT his ex-wife is totally going to buy them all a new house to live in.
I believe it is kind of like a cross between a troll, a virtue signal and propaganda.
Like there are only going to be so many responses to an OP like that.
Yet the OP rejects them outright will digging deeper and deeper into how utterly useless he is BUT also how completely accepting of a potential alternative lifestyle they are too.
Then the thread gets locked after a few bans have been dished out and the takeaway message is "this is fine, y'all need to be more accepting of alternative lifestyles".
I dunno. I saw that OP as one of those really fucking frustrating people that never wants to do anything and never wants to change anything. Just wants to whine about their lot in life on the Internet. Advice ALWAYS falls on deaf ears.
Also what's up with people who "can't cook"? If you've got the proper equipment and utensils then literally any able bodied person can cook. People act like it's some obscure mysterious talent when really if you can count and tell the time then you can cook.
Parasite is the correct word.