The number of people justifying being hit when they were growing up by saying, "but I deserved it" without confronting the fact that this is the justification most abused spouses use is not surprising at all.
Do better for your children than your parents did for you? The baseline for what turning out alright in this fucked up society is influenced by the cultural acceptance of hitting children.
The first step is reconciling that your parents may have been misguided and saying they were wrong does not make your parents bad people for doing this.
Knowing the mistakes of your parents and repeating them in spite of the scientific research is questionable.
I don't understand why it's only okay to hit the most vulnerable members of society with no ability to escape their abuse. It's okay to hit a child when you want to discipline, but you would never hit a dog. This thought process needs to change.
Do better for your children than your parents did for you? The baseline for what turning out alright in this fucked up society is influenced by the cultural acceptance of hitting children.
The first step is reconciling that your parents may have been misguided and saying they were wrong does not make your parents bad people for doing this.
Knowing the mistakes of your parents and repeating them in spite of the scientific research is questionable.
I don't understand why it's only okay to hit the most vulnerable members of society with no ability to escape their abuse. It's okay to hit a child when you want to discipline, but you would never hit a dog. This thought process needs to change.