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Does she have big boobs?
I don’t know I have a daughter I’m traditionally catholic overweight and 38. But my wife constantly yells at me every day despite the fact that I do all the housework, cook and clean the kitchen and make more money than Her. If I have an opinion that she disagrees with she yells at me. If I just shut up and say nothing she yells at me. Our biggest debate right. Is is that I want get a house instead of an apartment with central air due to COVID but shes yelling at me for being irrational. Also I live in San Francisco so it’s not like I can afford to move out and not live in a shot hole. My best option would be to take over our mortgage in LA after our renters leave and let her stay up,here. But still I just fear the unknown...she’s nice sometimes but I literally.ly get yelled at at least once a day for being a fat lazy loser despite earning $200k a year on my own.
I have never seen religion keep families together. In the Christian perspective, things never got better. It didn't for my parents and it didn't for people that I've known who have gone through a divorce. A family friend went through a divorce and their Catholic beliefs didn't save their marriage. There was another couple we use to know and they were Catholic.
Marriage is difficult. I've been in bad scenarios and the worst was when we brought up "trial separation". It was after everything escalated faster than I could have ever imagined. I told her how I felt and it blew up. It didn't get that far, but relationships can suck. Honestly, they can suck ass. I may be married and love my wife, but marriage has its days where its just awful.
The secular world has poisoned everything. But I can’t accept what you are saying about Catholics. Millions go around calling themselves “Catholics” but aren’t. I assume those are the people you are talking about. Like the OP they may have had a Catholic upbringing but are not Catholic anymore. I have never seen a traditionalist Latin Mass going couple divorce at my parish. (I know it must happen sometimes.). How can religion save a marriage if the married people don’t practice the faith earnestly?
Thanks everyone.
she can be nice it’s just like lately because of COVID I can’t escape it so little shit like my leaving my socks on the floor occasionally turns into a huge issue.
Our biggest trigger lately
The point about her childhood makes sense; her dad in particular has a horrible temper and yells at everyone in her room family. Not in an abusive way though like insulting people he’s just passionate when he thinks he’s right and doesn’t value counter opinions just like her.
Everything is fine if I go along and just agree to everything she says but even if I laugh it off or ignore her still won’t stop until she wears herself out lol. I think she does have depression and takes it out on me.
There was also a time before we moved where not only was she sleeping in a different bedroom but also at her friends house at least twice a week: all ladies but that hurt.
So what’s bad about me? Again over weight but I’m working on it. I stress eat and drink too much but career wise I’m successful and if I made this salary anywhere but SF I’d consider myself to be super successful. I don’t know I used to not argue back and apologize way too much early on in our marriage so now it’s weird for her if I stand up for myself which makes things worse.
She doesn't respect you.
Hit the gym and get shredded first, personal trainer if you need one. Don't engage with her bullshit and don't give her attention. Start doing activities after work instead of coming home. Make some new friends.
If you need to divorce her at that point, you can hit the ground running. Her disposition may change along the way, though.
Based off the lack of responses from TC, yes I have deduced that she likely has very big boobs. I'm sure TC has an archive of pics and freaky videos and her big boobs give him a great reserve of hope, joy, and the stamina to persevere. Never underestimate a great pairDoes she have big boobs?