Whenever this comes up this is all I see
Problem: Men telling women what to wear
Solution: Men telling women what to wear
There are two huge problems with this.
First: In Switzerland women can also vote
Second: Both this ban and the minaret ban were won in Switzerland because women voted more for the bans than man. They did very detailed analysis about voting in those cases in both time, the women in Switzerland supported this, especially feminist groups.
"Integrate or you're not welcome" is pure xenophobia.
I would not ban a burka and I also was against the ban of minarets. But there is a level, what Bill Maher calls stupid ideas, which are just not compatible with our society. I am very left, but even for me, it is, if you want to life here, you will have to accept our values or get out.
The apprentice of my barber 16 year old happy, nice girl someday just did not show up for work anymore. Parents told him, well she got sick and died. Few weeks later police showed up, asked him a few questions and he found out she killed herself, because her parents wanted her to marry somebody against her own will. If you try that now in Switzerland you will get thrown out, the daughter can stay, we will offer her refuge, but her father and sometimes also the mother will leave. I know cases like this and at some point our values are more important than the values of other cultures, especially if you want to stay in our country.
At a certain point you do have to integrate. So you will have to accept, that your daughter will make her own decisions and she has the same rights as you. That your wife can work and vote and even leave you, if you she thinks it is the right thing to do. If you can not accept that, you still want to be the master of your house, well maybe Switzerland is the wrong place for you. There is no middle ground on this issue. If you want to stay in Switzerland you will have to accept that, even people walking around in Bikinis in the summer or other things you don’t like. And that’s not our fault and we also are not going to change that, so at this point, there is no alternative, either accept it or well search a country more in line with your values.
And I am also against the idea, that we have to accept every stupid idea from any culture. If we think, that a stupid idea is against our culture, like covering your whole face and we want to outlaw that, it is our right to do so.